

The Better Sex Podcast ~ Unfiltered Conversations
DeborahKat
Sit down with Tantra teacher and professional Dominatrix Deborah Kat as she interviews experts in sex, intimacy and relationship. These rich and dynamic conversations share each guest's wisdom, caution and encouragement to support you to have the Better Sex you crave!
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Aug 17, 2023 • 43min
Embracing Dominance: A Journey through Kink and Femininity with Daytona Day
On this episode I sit down with professional Dominatrix and Coach, Daytona Day to dive into the world of Dominance & Submission (D/s). Hear how she got started in the world of fetish fashion which eventually led her to D/s and mentoring in that space. In discussing the exploration of D/s within the kink world, we look at the value of understanding both the dominant and submissive energies within yourself as a path to empowerment. Daytona brings us through the ins and outs of exploring dominant/submissive experiences including boundaries, role-play, kink psychology and living 24/7 in this lifestyle. Our conversation highlights the role of education, communication, and self-reflection in the kink journey and offers resources for those interested in exploring their own kinks and fetishes. CONNECT with Daytona Day Instagram withlovebutneveryours Website withlovebutneveryours.com Find More murdertheywore.com Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Support the Podcast Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Debroah https://www.deborahkat.com/services-5

Jul 26, 2023 • 55min
Smart Men and Sacred Sexuality with Dr. Jessica Harvey
On this episode I sit down with Tantric Scientist Dr. Jessica Harvey to talk about sexuality as a sacred practice. Hear her story of taking her MIT-trained Organic Chemist academic research skills and applying them to the exploration of consciousness and sacred relating. We dive into the path of Tantric wisdom that teaches sexuality as a sacred path for awakening and liberation from suffering. Dr. Harvey shares her perspectives on emotional intelligence, mens' sexuality and how to empower men to vulnerably reclaim their desires in ways that also respect and honor women. Jessica shares more about her research into desire, communication and self-care for fostering deeper intimacy. Learn More About Jessica: The Thinking Man's Intimacy Summit: https://www.bliss-science.com/summit Coaching men and couples: https://www.bliss-science.com/ Follow Jessica on IG! https://www.instagram.com/bliss.science/ Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Deborah https://www.deborahkat.com/services-5

Jul 5, 2023 • 47min
Exploring Kink Culture with Max Carey
In this episode I sit down with filmmaker Max Carey, whose recent film, "tOuch Kink" explores Human Sexuality and consensual kink practices. We discuss the evolution of kink culture, the importance of breaking free from societal boxes, and how the ethical guidelines used in BDSM can inform all kinds of romantic relationships beyond kink. Our conversation wanders, like Max's tour of over 137 countries, through some of his personal story from farm-boy to kinky film director and a range of topics including informed consent, negotiation, outdated social norms and paths to deeper communication and trust in relationships. Max shares more about his film and the impact he hopes it'll make for relationships. This was a fun conversation! Check out Max Official trailer for tOuch Kink: https://f.io/wjPqn4ma touchkink.com Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Debroah https://www.deborahkat.com/services-5

Jun 28, 2023 • 46min
The Art of Realtionship Repair with Dr Hazel-Grace Yates
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with accomplished Sex & Relationship Educator, Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates. We took a deep dive into relationship repair - what it is, why to do it and her best tips on how to go about it. Throughout our discussion, Hazel-Grace shared their personal journey to discover and embrace their own sexuality as well as the importance of doing the work to heal in relationships. During this fun and deep conversation, they share how to do relationship repair well (for all types of relationships) and use it as a path to more juice in your sex life. Learn more about upcoming events or how to work with Hazel-Grace here: www.drhazelgrace.com Upcoming and OnGoing Intimacy Through the Art of REPAIR Classes (Virtual and In-Person Denver events) Intimacy Through the Art of Repair - Intro Part 1 - June 28th - Virtual https://ITARintropart1.eventbrite.com Intimacy Through the Art of Repair for Couples - In-Person in Denver - July 2nd https://IntimacythroughrepairJuly2Denver.eventbrite.com Intimacy Through the Art of Repair - Intro Part 2 - July 12th - Virtual https://ITARintropart2.eventbrite.com Become part of the Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon Coaching with Debroah https://www.deborahkat.com/services-5

Jun 7, 2023 • 48min
Sexual Responsibility with Umoh Luna
In this episode I sit down with astrologer, witch, and shamanistic strategist Umoh Luna. In this VERY unfiltered conversation, we explore the dynamics of sexual energy, the drama triangle, bodily autonomy and how all of this ties into sexual responsibility. We dive into all the things – shame, judgment, empowerment, victimhood and power. Juicy, right?! Umoh shares the importance of playful curiosity while exploring your own body. This curiosity is not just for you to learn yourself, but brings an element of even more depth when you bring it to the bedroom with your partner. Resources Umoh Astrology Website https://www.yourdollarsign.com/site/about FB https://www.facebook.com/UmohLuna Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship? DeborahTantraKat@gmail.com Better Sex Membership https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon FB https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat

May 16, 2023 • 39min
"The Power of Hypnosis for Better Sex with Michelle Walters"
In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with clinical hypnotherapist, executive coach, and author Michelle Walters to talk about the power of the mind in shaping our reality. Michelle shares about her journey into the world of hypnosis, how it has since become her passion leading to her recently publish book, "An Alignment of Spirit". This was such a fun conversation as we delve into hypnosis for intimacy and relationships! Personally, I've been curious about hypnosis for some time and Michelle answered all the questions as we explored Erotic Hypnosis, how it can help erectile dysfunction, and using hypnosis to visualize better sexual relationships. Listen in and learn how hypnosis can be a part of your journey to better sex. [00:03:17] How hypnosis works. [00:08:53] Erotic Hypnosis. [00:09:55] Erotic Hypnotism. [00:16:35] Erectile dysfunction and hypnosis. [00:20:12] Erotic Hypnosis and Visualization. [00:27:32] Hypnosis and better sex. [00:31:15] Impossible sex and imagination. [00:35:14] Connecting with yourself. A voracious imagination advocate, team leader, and corporate life graduate, Michelle writes and speaks on themes associated with the power of mind, positivity, and conscious and subconscious thought. Michelle is a Clinical Hypnotherapist, Executive Coach and Author. Michelle's 2022 book on manifesting, "An Alignment of Spirit: Finding Work You Love" combines science, personal stories and activities for your subconscious that will help readers center and do the inner work necessary to find work they love.'' www.michellewalters.net contact me at michelle@michellewalters.net FB: https://www.facebook.com/michelleoliverwalters/ Book https://www.amazon.com/Alignment-Spirit-Finding-Work-Love/dp/1737263726/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8 Special gift for your listeners, a free mp3 recording from my Etsy store. https://www.michellewalters.net/gift Connect with Deborah Kat Deborah's Links: Send your sex and relationship questions to DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com For a free Truth and Clarity Session Appointments 3 — Deborah Kat Coaching Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/ Email: deborahtantrakat@gmail.com

Apr 25, 2023 • 56min
What Human Design has to teach us about Sex and Relationship with Baeth Davis
In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host Deborah Catt interviews Beth Davis, known as the Dr. Purpose, an advisor to entrepreneurs and career professionals globally. Beth uses her intuition, extensive sales, marketing, and content creation experience, along with expertise in scientific hand analysis and human design, to help clients discover and unleash their purpose and design their life around their gifts for soul fulfillment. Beth shares her journey into entrepreneurship and the importance of being present in the now. Throughout the podcast, Deborah and Beth have an unfiltered conversation about sex and relationships, exploring the topic from a variety of angles. In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I sit down with Baeth Davis– often known as "Dr. Purpose"-- with over 24 years using her intuition, business experience, expertise in scientific hand analysis and human design to help global leaders clients discover and unleash their purpose for deep soul fulfillment. You might wonder what this has to do with better sex…. Well, in this lively conversation you get a taste of Baeth's passion for purpose as we how this along with human design supports better relationships (thus, better sex!) Throughout our conversation she shares how to cultivate your relationship with your body to feel empowered both in the boardroom AND the bedroom. We also get a bit of her story along the way with loads of juicy tidbits to help you fully show up in your relationships. Connect with Baeth Davis https://yourpurpose.com Join the Facebook community: https://facebook.com/groups/aligntoyourdesign Connect with Deborah https://DeborahKat.Com https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon

Apr 5, 2023 • 31min
Understanding Grief And Sexual Fantasies with Jess DeVries

Jan 18, 2023 • 38min
Have A Better Sex Life Through The Power Of Your Mind With Louis Brantmeyer
When it comes to sex, sometimes you need some help. You may be wondering how you can move towards better sex, or even how you can make your current sex life better. It's hard to say exactly what steps you should take in your personal search for improving your sex life without some guidance. In today's episode of The Better Sex Podcast, we are joined by Louis Brantmeyer, an extraordinary business coach for heart-centered coaches, powerful creator, magical manifestor, eclectic philosopher, and devotee of growth, healing, love, and science fiction. He will talk about how can we properly use our desires and some tips to make our sex better. Tune in now and Learn how to be comfortable in the dating world! Highlights: (01:59) Getting to know Louis More (02:46) How he helped BrainJuice go national via Whole Foods & promoting the "woo that works"? (08:21) Maximizing the use of Desires (11:40) Meaning & Distinction of "Always on call, but we're not always on duty" (18:57) The Path to Fulfillment (21:41) Sexual Abundance Back to Patriarchal Rules and Regulations(Why it didn't work for Louis?) (26:23 ) Aligning Mission and Purpose ( 27:55) What Is Co-empowered Alignment & Codependence? (34:11) A Way You Could Do to Move Towards Better Sex (41:02) Man & Woman: Whose Purpose Goes First? Links: Website: https://louisbrantmeyer.com/ LinkedIn: Louis Brantmeyer - CEO / Founder Facebook: Louis Brantmeyer Instagram: Louis Brantmeyer (@louisbrantmeyer) Youtube: Louis Brantmeyer - CEO / Founder - Things Mentioned:: (Audio Course) Your Wish Is Your Command Mark W. Willis Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender A Course in Miracles: Combined Volume The 45 Days to Awakening Challenge The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures Sex on the Brain: 12 Lessons to Enhance Your Love Life Carl Jung

Jan 4, 2023 • 58min
Better Sex Podcast: Behind the Scenes to Better Sex
Today on The Better Sex Podcast, we're doing something a little different! I'm turning the tables (or mic) around and for the first time ever, I'll be the guest, and my dear friend, Missy Singer DuMars will interview ME! In this intimate conversation, nothing is off-limits! We'll talk about my early relationships, unique childhood experiences, and how my passion for this work began. Along the way, we'll chat about how to get your 'sexy' on, the basics of Tantra, Kink, Communication, and what I see as the Three Pillars to Better Sex all peppered with fun stories! Missy Singer DuMars, is a conscious businesswoman, a mindful farmer, a curious cook, a spiritual seeker, and the hostess of the Women in Food Podcast. Highlights: (02:30) How Deborah Entered the World Of Sex and Intimacy (09:11) The Different Possibilities of Relationship and Sex (15:39) Applying Sex and Intimacy from Personal Life to Professional Life (18:21) Where does sexual arousal start? (19:42) Ways to pleasure yourself (21:12) Ticks to make you sexy and feel sexy (21:42 ) Tantra and the Three Basic Broad Techniques (28:33) Unconscious Mistakes That Can Destroy Any Relationship (35:00) Better Sex for Couples (41:50) The Definition of Kink and The Umbrella of BDSM (48:04) Everything You Need to Know About Using Safewords (52:57) The Key Role of Communication in Relationship (01:05:48) Things Everyone Should Know About Relationships Links: https://bettersexforcouplessummit.com/ Website: https://www.womeninfood.net/ https://www.spiritbizpeople.com/ Https//crownhillfarm.com Instagram: @crownhillfarmny Facebook: Missy Singer DuMars LinkedIn: Missy Singer DuMars


