Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin
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Nov 14, 2024 • 1h 3min

Episode 182: “Help! I’m Not Into My Partner’s Fantasy!”

What happens when your fantasy meets your partner's disinterest? The discussion dives into the 'yum' and 'yuck' dynamic in relationships. Listeners share their stories of mismatched desires, exploring the importance of open communication and understanding. Using food analogies, they illustrate that differing interests can coexist. Laughter, vulnerability, and boundaries play crucial roles in navigating intimacy. With a focus on consent and shared experiences, the speakers provide insightful advice on fostering deeper connections despite differences.
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Nov 7, 2024 • 1h 5min

Episode 181: A Brutally Honest Relationship Check-In

The hosts dive deep into the real state of their relationship, balancing ups and downs with grit and honesty. They share personal updates on their business and the emotional chaos of daily life. Health challenges and the strains of home renovations add layers to their discussions on communication and intimacy. With a focus on vulnerability and resilience, they reflect on the importance of checks and balances in love as they navigate the complexities of creativity in podcasting and audience engagement.
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Oct 31, 2024 • 53min

Episode 180: Smash Or Pass: We Try The Weirdest Women’s Magazines Sex Tips

Join a playful exploration of quirky sex tips from the 90s and 00s! The hosts hilariously evaluate outrageous advice, trying tips like flirting techniques and edible body paint that turn chaotic. They dive into nostalgic reflections on magazine content while blending humor with candid experiences, like an awkward donut-themed intimacy experiment. From messy situations to fashion faux pas, they agree that some tips are better left untested, all while keeping the laughter rolling!
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Oct 24, 2024 • 1h

Episode 179: All Your Female Orgasm Questions: Answered!

Discover the fascinating world of female orgasms, exploring the differences between clitoral, G-spot, and cervical orgasms. The discussion unpacks societal pressures and stresses the importance of honesty in intimate encounters. Gain insights on achieving mutual pleasure through open communication, while challenging misconceptions about orgasm hierarchies. Learn about the nuances of physical and emotional responses following orgasms, and understand the role of distractions in enhancing your sexual experiences. Empower your journey to personal pleasure!
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Oct 17, 2024 • 1h 11min

Episode 178: Tie-Breakers: We Solve Your Relationship Standoffs

Dive into the playful world of relationship standoffs, where listeners' dilemmas take center stage! From navigating chore responsibilities when one partner works to the nuances of hyphenated last names in marriage, the hosts deliver humorous insights. They tackle the age-old question of hand jobs, share laughs over Christmas music preferences, and discuss the mental load of having in-laws stay over. With relatable anecdotes and lighthearted banter, you'll find practical advice wrapped in plenty of fun!
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Oct 10, 2024 • 45min

Episode 177: Why You Should Try Mutual Masturbation And How To Do It

Discover the enticing world of mutual masturbation and how it can deepen intimacy between partners. The hosts discuss its surprising infrequency among couples and share effective communication strategies to ease into this practice. They tackle common insecurities, societal perceptions, and offer practical tips for enhancing comfort and confidence. With an emphasis on personalization, the conversation encourages open dialogue to create a fulfilling sexual experience. Explore this empowering practice that fosters connection and mutual satisfaction!
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Oct 3, 2024 • 1h 1min

Episode 176: Is This Cheating?

The hosts dive into what really counts as cheating in modern relationships. They tackle intriguing scenarios like keeping nudes from exes and having a 'work wife.' Listeners share their thoughts on emotional fidelity and navigating jealousy, prompting debates over boundaries. The conversation also explores the implications of sending intimate content and how to handle prior relationships in a digital age. Tune in for an insightful discussion that's perfect for couples wanting to align their definitions of loyalty.
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Sep 26, 2024 • 1h 6min

Episode 175: “Should I Put Up With This In The Bedroom?”

The discussion kicks off with a listener's shocking situation—her partner wearing headphones during intimacy! This leads to a hilarious exploration of other odd behaviors people endure in the bedroom. From farting to body image concerns, the conversation emphasizes open communication and mutual respect. They tackle the complexities of dirty talk and consent while sharing playful, unhinged anecdotes that keep you laughing. It's a wild ride through the awkward and taboo moments of intimacy that every couple can relate to.
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Sep 19, 2024 • 1h 2min

Episode 174: Ask Us Anything: Addressing All Of Your Assumptions

The hosts dive into your burning questions, debunking myths about their relationship and financial status. They candidly discuss intimacy during work hours, the challenges of social media portrayals, and the choice to remain child-free. Hear about their love for cozy products, financial growth, and the importance of open communication. Plus, they throw in tips for enhancing intimacy in relationships and share a playful look at their lives alongside their pugs, balancing humor with heartfelt insights.
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Sep 12, 2024 • 1h 7min

Episode 173: I’m Attracted To Someone Else, What Do I Do?

Ever found yourself feeling attracted to someone else despite being in a committed monogamous relationship? Maybe someone cute you saw at the gym. Or a college. Or even your partner’s best friend??Don’t worry, you aren’t the only one.Today we’re digging into real stories from our community about times they were attracted to someone else, and giving our best advice on how to handle attraction to other people while in a relationship.Links & Resources:Free Guide: 20 Great Compliments To Give Your PartnerSubscribe hereInstagram: @vanessaandxanderThanks MarleySpoon. Experience the most personalized meal kit today with Marley Spoon. Head to MarleySpoon.com/OFFER/PILLOW and use code PILLOW for up to 25 FREE meals!Thanks Marimur. Visit MARIEMUR.com and use the promo code ‘PILLOW’ for 15% off.

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