

The Unspeakeasy With Meghan Daum
Meghan Daum
Author, essayist and journalist Meghan Daum has spent decades giving voice—and bringing nuance, humor and surprising perspectives—to things that lots of people are thinking but are afraid to say out loud. Now, she brings her observations to the realm of conversation. In candid, free-ranging interviews, Meghan talks with artists, entertainers, journalists, scientists, scholars, and anyone else who’s willing to do the “unspeakable” and question prevailing cultural and moral assumptions.
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Nov 6, 2023 • 1h 5min
What Is Real? Eli Lake on Disinformation, Despair and Dead Ends in the Israel-Hamas War
Eli Lake, national security correspondent with extensive knowledge on Israel/Palestine conflict, talks about activism, illiterate responses to Israel's attack on Gaza, irony of demanding safe spaces while condoning violence against Jews, 'decolonization framework', and how anti-Semitic rhetoric is discrediting the social justice left.

Oct 30, 2023 • 1h 10min
Rob Long On How Hollywood Lost The Plot
Rob Long discusses the Hollywood writers' strike, the mistakes of streaming services like Netflix, the success of 'Sound of Freedom', and the decline of quality talent in TV writers' rooms.

Oct 20, 2023 • 1h 6min
When Did Campuses Turn On Israel? Ben Appel on anti-semitism in college classrooms
Writer Ben Appel discusses anti-Semitism on college campuses, focusing on his experiences at Columbia University. He explores the culture of self-censorship and fear, the influence of professors on students' views of the Israel-Palestine conflict, and the challenges Jewish students face in expressing their thoughts. The podcast also touches on the connection between gay men and gender identity ideology.

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Oct 9, 2023 • 1h 12min
Are there any off-limits subjects between you and your therapist?
Dr. Andrew Hartz, clinical psychologist and professor of clinic, discusses the politicization of therapy and the lack of support for certain populations. They explore the diverse demographics of therapists and the need for a therapist open to addressing complex issues. The chapter also examines gender roles in therapy and the drawbacks of using online therapy platforms.

Oct 2, 2023 • 1h 3min
Ethan Strauss on why Sports Media has Gone Insane
Ethan Strauss, popular sports newsletter writer, discusses how sports media has lost touch with its core audience and been captured by elite media. They explore the difference between men's and women's sports in business and marketing, and who is driving the voice of sports institutions. They also touch upon the declining popularity of sports among young people and the impact of progressive messaging. In addition, they talk about the contradictory desire of journalists to be counterculture and mainstream, and the lack of trust and meaningful conversation within sports media.

Sep 25, 2023 • 1h 18min
How Foucault Led To Tumblr - Tracing the history of The Identity Trap with Yascha Mounk
Yascha Mounk discusses how niche views about race, sexual orientation, and gender identity went from marginal to mainstream. He explores the origins of wokeness, the impact of Tumblr on identity exploration, and the controversy surrounding the Harper's letter. Mounk also highlights the importance of free speech in empowering marginalized groups and shares his experiences navigating identity issues in the classroom.

Sep 18, 2023 • 1h 19min
Who Were The Hottest World Leaders and Despots? Yael Bar-tur and ChayaLeah Sufrin on The Unspeakable
The ladies from Ask A Jew are back for their biannual visit. This time for the Jewish New Year! In this episode, we talk about the meaning of Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur and (since we apparently have to go over it again) why Orthodox Jews have to get their cars detailed before Passover. (It’s true.) We also talk about mikvehs. Because you know you were wondering. If you only ever listen to one conversation about mikvehs, let it be this one. Most importantly, we revisit our evergreen topic: the world’s hottest dictators, despots and garden-variety world leaders. Who was hotter? Stalin or Gadaffi? Is Bibi Netanyahu more your type? Or George H.W. Bush? In the bonus, I do a solocast where I answer AMA questions and share more of my existential crisis about how to pronounce my last name. Paying subscribers who have questions for me can put them in the comments. Guest Bio The Ask a Jew podcast is where Yael Bar Tur, a secular Israeli living in New York, and ChayaLeah Sufrin, a Hasidic mother in Los Angeles, discuss everything from Torah to Tinder, no topics are off-limits. Yael Bar Tur is a digital communications consultant with over 15 years of experience in social media, government, law enforcement and crisis communications. She served as the Director of Social Media and Digital Strategy for the New York City Police Department (NYPD). Born and raised in Israel, Yael served in the Israeli Army as a foreign press liaison in the height of two wars, as well as volunteering for reserve duty at the Israeli field hospital in Haiti immediately following the 2010 earthquake. She holds a Master's Degree from the Harvard Kennedy School of Government. Yael lives in NYC where she has been granted lifetime approval to pet all police K9s. ChayaLeah Sufrin is the Executive Director at Beach Hillel. Prior to Hillel, she spent 15 years teaching high school Jewish history and was the Education Director of Shul by the Shore. ChayaLeah has been married to her husband Boruch for 18 years and together they have 4 sons. Jewish education and building community are ChayaLeah’s two main passions - she also loves the New England Patriots. She was recently named one of Hadassah's 18 American Zionist Women You Should Know. HOUSEKEEPING 🔥 Follow my other podcast, A Special Place in Hell. 🥂 Join The Unspeakeasy, my community for freethinking women. 🎉 Can’t make it to the one-day retreat on September 30th in Denver? Join us for a co-ed party that same evening! 🧖♀️ Join me at our sanity/real spa retreat in the Poconos with guest speaker Kat Rosenfield.

Sep 11, 2023 • 1h 10min
"What Can A Man Do?" with Christine Emba
It seems like everywhere you look, men are struggling to find a sense of meaning and purpose. In fact, men are just getting kind of weird. On the other side of the equation, many women say they can’t find a “good man” who meets their expectations. Enter Christine Emba, Washington Post columnist and author of the 2022 book Rethinking Sex: A Provocation. In a recent WaPo essay, she discusses the crisis of masculinity and where men are looking for models of masculinity, from Jordan Peterson to Andrew Tate and beyond. In this episode, we chat about her article, her book, the past and present mating economy, and the evolution of her own thinking since her college days and the emergence of “the Princeton mom.” (Leave it to her to ask the questions Matt Walsh doesn’t.) In the bonus, we talk about dating apps — everyone’s favorite gripe — in addition to the resurgence of matchmaking and how people got dates and met people in the pre-app world. ————————— WHO IS CHRISTINE EMBA? Christine Emba is a writer for The Washington Post's Opinions section. She is also the author of Rethinking Sex: A Provocation, which challenges the narrative of sex positivity. Prior to joining the staff of The Washington Post, Emba was the Hilton Kramer Fellow in Criticism at the New Criterion and a deputy editor at the Economist Intelligence Unit. She grew up in Virginia and earned an A.B. in Public and International Affairs from Princeton University. Follow her substack here: https://bit.ly/3Z8nJ49 Read her article, “Men are lost. Here’s a map out of the wilderness.” here: https://wapo.st/45KoHX4 Get her book “Rethinking Sex: A Provocation” here: https://amzn.to/3EvpU8A ————————— HOUSEKEEPING Get your ticket to The Free Press debate with Grimes, Sarah Haider, Louise Perry and Anna Khachiyan: https://www.thefp.com/debates Meet me at The Unspeakeasy Denver Retreat on September 30th: https://bit.ly/3qRWcaz Join me at our sanity/real spa retreat in the Poconos with guest speaker Kat Rosenfield: https://bit.ly/3R8IKtL Can’t come to the full, one-day retreat on September 30th? Join us for a co-ed party that same evening! https://bit.ly/45oCp1n Join The Unspeakeasy, my community for freethinking women:https://bit.ly/44dnw0v Follow my other podcast, A Special Place in Hell: aspecialplace.substack.com

Aug 31, 2023 • 1h 16min
Maria Bamford Wants To Join Your Cult
Comedian Maria Bamford joins Meghan for a conversation about her new book, mental health struggles, and financial survival in the creative economy. They also discuss dating apps for celebrities, Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, the stereotype of the 'basic bitch,' and the challenges of buying a house in Los Angeles.

Jul 26, 2023 • 1h 28min
When Does Life Really End? Dr. Sunita Puri On The Problem With CPR And the Denial Of Death
Dr. Sunita Puri, palliative care physician and author, discusses the impact of medical advancements on end-of-life care. She explores the complexities and misconceptions around CPR and the need for better communication about prognosis. Ageism, socioeconomic class, and racial biases in medical decisions are highlighted. The lack of conversation training in medical education and the shortage of palliative care professionals are also discussed.