
The Grounded Union Podcast
Welcome to the Grounded Union Podcast, hosted by Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen.
In 2019, our marriage hit rock bottom—so close to divorce that we thought there was no way back. But through deep healing, transformation, and a relentless pursuit of something better, we didn’t just save our marriage—we created something more beautiful than we ever imagined.
On our journey, we realized that the conventional advice from counselors, pastors, and mentors wasn’t enough. So, we set out on an uncharted path, searching for real, lasting change. Now, standing on the other side, we’ve mapped out the exact process that restored our love, trust, and connection—a process we weren’t given but one we discovered through lived experience.
This podcast is our invitation to you: to walk this path with us, to challenge the norms, and to build a marriage that is passionate, open, honest, deeply connected, and full of life. No one told us it was possible—but we’re here to tell you: it absolutely is.
Join us on this journey. It’s not just about saving your marriage—it’s about creating one that’s stronger, richer, and more alive than ever.
Latest episodes

May 2, 2025 • 39min
How to Get Your Husband to Change
Explore the raw journey of transformation in marriage, where change can't be forced. Discover how self-accountability and open communication serve as catalysts for healing. The hosts delve into personal struggles with betrayal and disconnection, revealing the importance of confronting uncomfortable truths. Learn how embracing responsibility and fostering empathy can rebuild trust and intimacy. This discussion isn't just about saving a marriage; it's about awakening to a fulfilling partnership through personal growth and shared vision.

Apr 25, 2025 • 47min
Why Your Relationship Feels Flat and Disconnected
Discover why your relationship might feel emotionally flat and disconnected. The hosts explore the hidden layers behind emotional distance, sharing personal stories of their own relationship struggles. They emphasize the importance of reducing screen time to foster genuine connections and suggest practical activities like spending time in nature. Honest communication and embracing mindful living are key to rekindling intimacy. Listeners are encouraged to undertake a transformative 30-day journey to reconnect with themselves and their partners.

Apr 18, 2025 • 58min
The Shortcut to Healing Your Relationship
Explore the transformative power of emotions in healing relationships. Discover how emotional numbness is learned, not innate, and learn to embrace vulnerability. Personal stories illustrate the journey from disconnection to intimacy, aided by movement and open communication. Practical exercises guide couples to reconnect through shared memories and daily affirmations. The importance of empathy and active listening is emphasized, offering tools for deeper emotional connection and understanding.

Apr 12, 2025 • 53min
Navigating Sexual Brokenness in Your Relationship (Part Two)
The hosts tackle the intricacies of sexual brokenness in relationships, emphasizing healing through authentic intimacy. They delve into overcoming shame and addictions, exploring the transformative journey toward connection and trust. Personal stories highlight the shift from objectification to genuine understanding of partners. They advocate for vulnerability in communication, aiming to rebuild after betrayal. This insightful discussion encourages listeners to confront societal narratives about sexuality and embrace their true selves for deeper connections.

Apr 4, 2025 • 1h 1min
Navigating Sexual Brokenness in Your Relationship (Part One)
Delve into the intricate dynamics of sexual wholeness and its impact on relationships. The hosts share their personal journeys through sexual brokenness, highlighting the necessity of transparency and communication. Discover how societal beliefs about attraction can disrupt intimacy and the significance of personal responsibility in overcoming challenges. Explore the complexities of relapse and the healing power of vulnerability, offering practical strategies for couples to foster deeper connections and confront their sexual histories.

Mar 29, 2025 • 53min
How Spiritual Bypassing Is Ruining Your Marriage
Explore the hidden ways spiritual bypassing can undermine marriages as the hosts share personal experiences of addiction and relationship struggles. They emphasize the importance of addressing deeper issues rather than just relying on faith. Listeners will uncover the challenges of seeking advice from religious leaders and the complexities of attraction within marriage. The discussion advocates for vulnerability, open communication, and a reevaluation of traditional teachings to create healthier, more authentic connections.

Mar 21, 2025 • 44min
You Didn’t Marry Your Mom
Discover how childhood experiences shape adult relationships in surprising ways. The hosts tackle the often-overlooked dynamics of mother-son relationships and their effects on marriages. Listeners will learn the importance of setting boundaries and nurturing open communication for a healthier partnership. Personal stories and practical tools provide deep insights into breaking free from inherited patterns. Reflect on past influences and explore how they impact marital dynamics, leading to transformative conversations and growth.

Mar 7, 2025 • 48min
Getting Kicked Out of Our Counselor’s Office
In a candid exploration, the hosts reveal their eye-opening experiences with counselors who downplayed their marriage struggles. They challenge the notion of accepting 'good enough' healing and emphasize the importance of radical honesty for real intimacy. The discussion dives into the complexities of codependency and the impact of denial on relationships. Listeners are encouraged to confront underlying issues instead of settling for superficial advice, unlocking a deeper connection through openness and accountability.

Feb 20, 2025 • 47min
Our Marriage Breakdown
Brandon and Caitlyn expose the raw realities of their marriage's transformation through betrayal and healing. They share their struggles with trust and intimacy, revealing the impact of infidelity and emotional numbness. The couple discusses the crucial steps they took to confront deep-rooted issues and rebuild their relationship with radical honesty. Personal anecdotes illuminate the journey of navigating societal beliefs about love while advocating for genuine connection and accountability. Their story serves as a compelling testament to the possibility of recovery in troubled marriages.