We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast

As a follow up to our episode 142, we hear from Catherine about how the ending of her marriage is affecting her coaching business at Expansive Connection. Will her clients still trust her as a coach? Has this loss made her job more difficult when discussing non-monogamy with her clients? Does she feel like a bit of an imposter? Will this experience make her a better coach? Would you see a coach who has lost her marriage after becoming non-monogamous? Listen in to find out! Join our We Gotta Thing community here! Expansive Connection Coaching

Dive into the fascinating world of swinging and polyamory as hosts and guests unravel their similarities and differences. They explore the concept of New Relationship Energy, sharing insights on recognizing and managing those intense feelings. Discussions also cover the evolution of lifestyle choices, the impact of community support for newcomers, and the importance of language in shaping perceptions. Plus, learn how emotional connections can thrive within these relationship dynamics, enhancing intimacy and growth.

Catherine shares her deeply personal journey through the unraveling of her marriage amidst non-monogamy. She reflects on the initial excitement of swinging, the transition to polyamory, and the deep intimacy she craved. As conflicts arose, including pivotal moments that challenged her marriage, she details her efforts to navigate therapy and support for her family. Ultimately, Catherine speaks on the invaluable lessons learned and her gratitude for the growth that followed, providing insights into her evolving views on love and relationships.

Join us and Meshai from Expansive Connection Coaching as we discuss the six most important things those new to the lifestyle need to know and us veterans of the lifestyle need always to remember: Radical Honesty as the Starting Point Shifting Mindsets: From Specialness to Uniqueness Navigating Jealousy and Compersion with Conscious Awareness Boundaries, Agreements and People-Pleasing Navigating Different Paces in the Journey Co-Creating Evolving Agreements Expansive Connection Coaching We Gotta Thing Community We Gotta Thing Website We Gotta Thing on Instagram

None of us are immune from having 'real life' issues disrupt our relationship or our current life plans and goals. Health issues, family responsibilities, career changes and relocations are just a few of the things that we can expect to encounter in life that will change our priorities. After just over a year of not playing with others in the lifestyle we are happy to announce we are back in the game! Listen in to learn why we stopped, what we had to work through as a couple, what we learned and how we decided to reengage with others at this time. Mentioned this episode: WGT Quarterly Membership Promo Code: WGT930 (expires September 30, 2025) 2 + 2 Swingers Club in Athens, Greece WGT Desire Pearl Event- November 15-22, 2025

Dive into the fascinating world of the Enneagram as a couple unpacks their personality types during a live coaching session. Discover the pursuit of perfection faced by Type Ones and the emotional landscape of Type Sixes, including their struggles and strategies for safety in relationships. Reflect on how understanding these traits can enhance communication and empathy between partners. Additionally, explore valuable insights on transitioning to retirement and planning meaningful social engagement. It's a journey of self-awareness and connection!

The discussion begins with a fresh take on the swinging lifestyle, showcasing how perceptions evolve. Humorous stories from a recent trip illuminate both the challenges and joyful moments of the journey. Misconceptions are tackled head-on, emphasizing communication and emotional depth in non-monogamous relationships. Transformative personal stories reveal the joys of openness within the community. Playful anecdotes emerge, highlighting humorous experiences and camaraderie. The hosts look forward to future engagements, inviting listeners to join the conversation.

Join us as we chat with the founder of a brand new lifestyle vacation spot in Jamaica- 'The Resort.' This upscale venue gives lifestyle travelers an additional and much needed option for a sexy vacation as ethical non-monogamy becomes more mainstream around the world. Visit their website for more details and information about membership and booking!

Join us as Kel from Expansive Connection explains the Enneagram system which offers numerous benefits for personal and professional development by providing insights into motivations, behaviors, and relationships. It helps individuals understand their core personality type, strengths, weaknesses, and how they interact with others. This understanding can lead to improved self-awareness, better communication, stronger relationships, and a better connection with others in the lifestyle! Episode Resources: Books The Wisdom of the Enneagram by Don Richard Riso; Russ Hudson The Road Back to You by Ian Morgan Cron; Suzanne Stabile Podcast Series Enneagram 2.0 Websites Enneagram Institute The Narrative Enneagram Non-monogamy Coaching Expansive Connection

This 'Origin Story' format episode features our friends Kurt & Vicki and highlights another unique journey into and through non-monogamy. Perhaps their story of working through issues will resonate with those who struggle with things from 'the past' and how previous life experiences can interfere with fully enjoying the lifestyle. Mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing Community Kasidie and SDC Club Sapphire