We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast Episode 143: Swinging & Polyamory- Are We More Alike than We Think?
Nov 12, 2025
Dive into the fascinating world of swinging and polyamory as hosts and guests unravel their similarities and differences. They explore the concept of New Relationship Energy, sharing insights on recognizing and managing those intense feelings. Discussions also cover the evolution of lifestyle choices, the impact of community support for newcomers, and the importance of language in shaping perceptions. Plus, learn how emotional connections can thrive within these relationship dynamics, enhancing intimacy and growth.
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Swinging Is Becoming More Visible
- Swinging has moved toward mainstream visibility through media and many more podcasts, but portrayals remain often inaccurate.
- Increased content helps normalize non-monogamy and creates opportunities to educate and evolve public perceptions.
Define Boundaries Before Playing
- Use clear labels like "soft swap" and "hard swap" to set expectations before play.
- Assess each situation instead of assuming you must progress through levels of sexual activity.
Friendships Often Outgrow Casual Expectations
- Swinging relationships often develop deep caring and long-term friendships that blur lines between play partners and close friends.
- Many couples find surprise emotional bonds that challenge assumptions about casual-only dynamics.
