Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Was your marriage a MISTAKE? Today we’re diving into a question I hear a lot: "Did I marry the wrong person?" If your relationship feels hard and you're starting to wonder if you made the right choice, you’re in the right place. We’ll tackle four essential areas to help you gain clarity: compatibility, communication, alignment, and growth opportunities. By the end of this episode, you’ll have some fresh ideas, free resources, and a clear plan to create positive change, whether with your partner or on your own. Specifically, we’re discussing: 0:00 Introduction: Are You Married to the Wrong Person? 00:39 Understanding Relationship Challenges 06:46 The Importance of Compatibility 14:02 Communication: The Key to Connection 17:46 Emotional Connection and Alignment 22:27 Steps to Clarity and Growth 29:03 Discernment Counseling: Finding the Right Path 33:21 Free Resources and Final Thoughts Thanks for tuning in!  Until next week, take care — and keep growing. Xo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby P.S.To take advantage of that free two-part communication skills training I mentioned in this episode, head over to growingself.com/communication. P.P.S. And don’t forget, if you’re listening to this the week it’s released, join me this Thursday at 12 PM Mountain, 2 PM Eastern on Instagram and YouTube for a live stream where I’ll be answering your questions about whether you married the wrong person. Submit your questions in advance at growingself.com/dear-lisa.  

🔥 STOP PLAYING SMALL! 🔥 Discover the secrets to growing more confident and comfortable with putting yourself out there. 🌟 Are you constantly minimizing yourself, feeling guilty for setting boundaries, or believing that good things are meant for others but not for you? If so, it's time to break free from these limiting beliefs and start living unapologetically! In this powerful episode, we dive deep into why we play small and how to overcome it, empowering you to step into your greatness. Today I'm sharing actionable strategies and inspiring insights to help you become your own hero. Whether it's in your relationships, career, or personal growth, it's crucial to stop playing small and start believing in your worth. Today's episode will help you do that! 💪✨ Xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby GrowingSelf.com PS: Is this an issue for you? Want to talk about it?? Join me on this week’s livestream to share your story and get advice for how to STOP feeling guilty about being your awesome self. Jump in at 12 pm MT on 7/18, or submit your question in advance here: https://www.growingself.com/dear-lisa #StopPlayingSmall #SelfEmpowerment #Confidence #SelfLove #PersonalGrowth #GrowingSelf     Timestamps / Chapters 02:15 – Signs You’re Playing Small 10:45 – Overcoming Limiting Beliefs 20:30 – Strategies for Self-Empowerment 30:00 – Free Resources and Next Steps  

One of my listeners wrote in saying, "Dear Lisa,  https://www.growingself.com/feeling-unheard-in-relationship right now. I try to talk about how I feel, but I'm just not getting through. It seems like my partner is either not hearing me or not understanding me, and I feel so lonely. How do I change this situation?" Honestly: This is one of the most common issues I hear about as a marriage counselor. In today’s podcast, I’m diving into why you might feel unheard in your relationship and sharing practical strategies to change that dynamic. If this resonates with you, stick around because here’s what you’ll learn today: The common reasons behind feeling unheard. The impact of emotionally invalidating communication. How to engage in communication that fosters emotional intimacy. Practical tips and strategies to improve listening and being heard. For even more insights, read the full article here. 💬 Also, Join the Conversation! Let's talk about YOU! 💬 I’m hosting a live Q&A session every Thursday at 12 PM Mountain (2 PM Eastern) where I'll answer your questions about feeling heard in your relationship. Join me live on YouTube, Facebook, or Instagram. You can submit your questions in advance here: https://www.growingself.com/dear-lisa 📘 Free Resource Alert! 📘 As I discussed in this episode, to help you even more, I’ve created a free two-part training series called “Communication that Connects.” This series includes: Two 45-minute training sessions A 30-page workbook filled with exercises and activities Sign up for FREE at growingself.com/communication I made this for you! Thank you so much for tuning in today. If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe. I look forward to helping you create more love, happiness, and success in your life! xo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  

Is your relationship emotionally enmeshed? If it is... you probably don't realize it! So how can you know? And what can you do about it? Tune into this one to find out! On this episode, we're talking about what emotional enmeshment is, and how you can untangle your heart strings and create a better relationship in the process.  When couples are struggling with communication or conflict, emotional enmeshment is often the root issue. Once you address the enmeshment, your entire relationship can feel lighter and more enjoyable. But first you have to recognize enmeshment for what it is, and this episode will show you the way! Tune in to learn:  What an emotionally enmeshed relationship looks like (the answer may surprise you!) The difference between emotional enmeshment and emotional intimacy Why emotional enmeshment is a big problem in relationships How to fix an enmeshed relationship and build a healthier connection. And more!  If you're wondering about enmeshment in your relationship, you can take my free "How Healthy Is Your Relationship Quiz" and learn more: https://www.growingself.com/relationship-quiz/  I hope you'll join me! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby  P.S. There is NO Thursday live stream on this topic this week. But I'll be back LIVE on Thursday 7/11 to address your questions about next week's podcast topic: What to do if you're feeling unheard in your relationship. Have questions already? Let me know and we'll discuss IRL on 7/11! 

Traveling with your partner can be so fun, but it can also be stressful and lead to conflict. Whether you're wondering why vacations sometimes lead to arguments or how to navigate different travel styles, this episode is packed with insights and practical strategies to help you have a great time adventuring with your partner — or apart! Main Takeaways: Understand the common conflicts that arise on trips and how to address them constructively. Learn how to appreciate and respect your partner's travel preferences. Discover how to plan trips that satisfy both you and your partner. Explore the benefits of solo travel for a healthy relationship. Gain tools to turn travel challenges into opportunities for growth and connection. Tune in, learn, and let's make your next trip the best one yet. xo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby GrowingSelf.com PS: After listening, I invite you to join the conversation live this Thursday at 12 PM Mountain Time (2 PM Eastern) on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook. Bring your questions about travel and relationships, and let's dive deeper into creating harmony and fun in your journeys together. Submit your questions in advance at growingself.com/dear-lisa and get reminders about the live stream so you won't miss a thing. If you can't make it, you can check out the recap at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2y1LGVrpRfY&t=687s

Have you ever listened to an episode of the Love, Happiness, and Success podcast and thought, "I wish I could talk to Dr. Lisa about this"? Now you can! When: Every Thursday at 12:00 PM Mountain Time (2:00 PM Eastern Time) Where: Live on YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook Each week, after dropping a new podcast episode on Monday, I'll host a live stream on Thursday to discuss that week's topic, answer your questions, and give you personalized advice. How to Participate: Live: Tune in on any of my social channels: YouTube, Instagram, Facebook. Submit Questions in Advance: Visit growingself.com/dear-lisa to ask questions ahead of time and get a reminder before the live stream starts. Recap: If you can't make it live, sign up through the link to receive a recap video via email. I love making the Love, Happiness, and Success podcast for you, but live streaming adds a special touch by allowing me to interact with you directly. I can't wait to chat about your life and your unique situation. Mark Your Calendar: Every Thursday at 12:00 PM Mountain Time (2:00 PM Eastern Time). See you there! xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Have you been thinking about getting back together with your ex? It's completely natural to wonder if getting back together with an ex is a mistake, or if it might be the beginning of a beautiful new chapter in your relationship. In this episode, I'm here to offer you the clarity you need. We'll walk through FOUR ESSENTIAL QUESTIONS that you must ask yourself and your ex before getting back together. These questions are designed to help you understand whether giving your relationship another chance is the right move. Doing this introspective work will either set you up for a successful reunion or save you from investing time and energy into a relationship that may not have a future. So, make yourself a cup of tea, grab your journal, and let's dive deep into these pivotal questions together. By the end of this episode, you'll feel empowered and equipped with the insights needed to make the best decision for your heart and your future. Let's get started! 🌟 xoxo,  Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby GrowingSelf.com P.S. Let's talk! Every week on Thursdays at 12pm MT / 2pm ET I'm hosting a live stream on Monday's podcast topic to answer YOUR questions. If you're wrestling with this "should we get back together or not" dilemma, I hope you join me!! Submit your question in advance here: https://www.growingself.com/dear-lisa, and then tune in on the socials: Instagram, YouTube or Facebook. See you Thursday! P.P.S. In the meantime, take advantage of the free resources I mentioned on today's show including tons of insightful articles and a curated podcast playlist all about how to get "relationship clarity." They're all for you! https://www.growingself.com/stay-or-go  

If your heart is hurting and your confidence is MIA after a breakup or divorce, I see you. That stripped-down, shell-of-yourself feeling? It’s real. But here’s the truth that can change everything: You can take your power back after a breakup—and in this episode, I’m going to show you how. On today’s episode of the Love, Happiness, and Success podcast, we’re diving deep into what it really means to reclaim your sense of power after a breakup. Whether you were left, or you were the one who walked away, breakups can leave you feeling helpless, obsessively stuck on your ex, and questioning your self-worth. This episode is your permission slip to start choosing something better for yourself. Timestamps: 01:48 – Why Breakups Feel So Disempowering 03:44 – How to Reclaim Your Power (Starting Today) 13:30 – Self-Love as a Rebellion 18:11 – Rewriting Your Story for Good 22:00 – Transforming Pain Into Growth 29:24 – How to Move Forward If this episode resonated with you, I want you to take a deep breath — because that in itself is proof of your strength. You’re not hiding from the pain. You’re facing it, seeking to heal, and learning along the way. That’s what taking your power back looks like. 👉 Take the next step with my free Breakup Recovery Quiz: How Over Your Ex Are You?It’s an insightful tool to help you understand what stage of healing you’re in — and what specific actions will move you forward. You’ll walk away with a clearer sense of what’s going on emotionally, and a personalized roadmap for reclaiming your energy, confidence, and future. And if you’re realizing that this heartbreak is bigger than you expected — that it’s shaken your sense of self, made you question your worth, or left you feeling stuck— come talk to one of the expert breakup recovery therapists and coaches on my team. 👉 You can schedule a free consultation with someone who truly gets it. Together, we’ll explore how breakup recovery coaching or counseling can help you process your grief, rebuild your confidence, and start feeling like yourself again — or even the version of you that you’ve always hoped to become. You deserve to move forward — not with bitterness, but with strength, insight, and genuine emotional freedom. And friend? That next chapter you’ve been longing for? It starts now. Xoxo Dr. Lisa Marie Bobbywww.growingself.com P.S. If someone you care about is stuck in heartbreak too, forward them this episode. Help them take their power back, too.💛

Explore the fear of being single forever, how it affects relationships and mental well-being. Learn about shifting mindset, personal development, and building a fulfilling life. Discover strategies to overcome fear, develop meaningful connections, and find fulfillment in various aspects of life.

How do you have a healthy sexual relationship with your partner after the trauma of infidelity? It's possible, and in fact, going through the process of healing your relationship together can bring you closer in unexpected ways.  But the road to recovery is not an easy one, especially when it comes to sex. Many couples struggle to heal, reconnect, and feel safe again after feeling violated by an affair. But there is a path to repair — for your relationship and your sex life — and that's what we're talking about on today's episode.  Tune in to learn about:  04:32 The Mental and Emotional Well-being of the Injured Party 06:00 Moving Through a Structured Healing Process 07:51 Stages of Sex After Infidelity 12:34 Managing Trauma Triggers During Sexual Encounters 19:16 The Desire for Detailed Sexual Information 29:45 Positive Growth and Conversations About Sexuality 34:37 Educating Yourself and Making Informed Decisions And more. If you are struggling with sex after infidelity, I hope this episode gives you hope and direction. You deserve it.    xoxo,    Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby    P.S. — Want support with healing from infidelity? Schedule a free consultation: https://www.growingself.com/schedule-free-consultation/