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Why do so many women have performance anxiety around orgasm? What type of thoughts do women have that stop them from having orgasms, and what can they can do in and out of the bedroom to dissolve them?We also answer a sex question about finding confidence in dating women.Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24. About our guest: Kara Loewentheil is a Master Certified Coach with a B.A. from Yale and J.D. from Harvard Law. In the last three years after pivoting from a legal career, she has grown her life coaching business from 0 to 7 figures. She's the host of the iTunes top-rated self-help podcast Unf*ck Your Brain which has been downloaded over 5M times, and she has been featured in outlets like Marie Claire, Mind Body Green, MSN.com, and The Huffington Post. Kara lives in New York City. Learn more at unfckyourbrain.com. Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comEasily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comGet $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com   

In this episode we chat all about how to navigate group sex, sex parties and gang-bangs with Billy from The Manwhore Podcast. We also answer a sex question: My partner voices a desire to be with other women while drunk but denies it sober.Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gangbang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at comedy clubs and Tinder around New York City. His show The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love was named a Top Sex Podcast by Esquire and Uproxx three years in a row, and his sex & dating advice has been featured in outlets like Cosmo, YourTango, Men's Health, and more. Oh, and his father is finally proud of him. To learn more visit www.ManwhorePod.com/itunesOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comEasily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shamelessWant clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Author, Podcaster, and Sex Educator extraordinaire, Dr. Jess O’Reilly joins us to answer your sex questions:How do I initiate sex when I lack confidence in the bedroom?Is there something wrong with my labia?How do I talk to my partner about my sexual trauma, and how can I heal? What are your sex and dating tips for someone who is visually impaired? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.About our guest: An award-winning speaker, Dr. Jess O’Reilly has worked with thousands of couples from all corners of the globe to transform their relationships via her wildly successful Marriage As A Business program. From Prague and Istanbul to Albuquerque and New York City, her relationship retreats receive rave reviews from some of the most powerful couples in the world who are drawn to her enthusiastic, practical and no-nonsense approach to happily ever after. Jess is also co-host of the popular podcast Sex With Dr. Jess, and she contributes regularly to the biggest names in international media such as Women’s Health, Men’s Fitness, Cosmopolitan, SELF, Showtime and The Movie Network. To learn more visit sexwithdrjess.comOther Links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com 

Aida Manduley teaches us all about long-distance relationships and how to keep them fresh, connected and spicy. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. Aida Manduley, LCSW is an award-winning Latinx activist, trauma-focused therapist, and sexuality educator known for big earrings and tackling taboos. Their politics are radical, their life is ridiculous, and their penchant for irreverence as intimacy is notorious. Manduley's current focus areas include community accountability, healing justice, and work centering queer and trans people of color. To learn more visit http://www.aidamanduley.com/Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comEasily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com  

Willow Brown is a Chinese Medicine Doctor and internationally recognized teacher of Taoist Sexology. Willow has studied the human body and it’s correspondence with nature extensively for over two decades. Her style is a blend of many modalities including Taoist Yoga, Qi Gong, acupuncture, nutrition, cranial sacral, and Sacred Sexuality. Her online programs and private practice focuses on women’s health, endocrine function, and sexuality. Willow guides women from low libido, emotional disharmony, menstrual disorders, menopause, infertility, and post-partum depression to return to their innate equanimity so they can create sustainable balance in their lives, feel in control of their emotions and raise their sensual frequencies for greater magnetism and increased orgasmic potential.                         Willow offers Taoist Sexology courses all around the world, inspiring women to  experience pleasure in ALL that they do.  To learn more about Willow's online courses, retreats and other offerings, visit yinwellness.com Link for the Sugar Challenge: https://yinwellness.com/get-off-sugar-completely-in-4-days-challenge/ Link for Sensuality Awakening Session: https://bookwithwillow.as.me/?appointmentType=9265806

Dr. Nan Wise, a cognitive neuroscientist and certified sex therapist, dives into the neuroscience of pleasure and the importance of intimacy. She discusses how emotional distress can hinder pleasure and shares innovative ways to enhance sexual connections in relationships. The conversation explores the effects of birth control on mental health and highlights the benefits of mindfulness and self-awareness in achieving lasting satisfaction. Dr. Wise also emphasizes the value of authentic communication in navigating pleasure and emotional well-being.

In this episode we learn all about erotic touch techniques and how to be a phenomenal hands-on lover. Christina also shares about the mysterious A-Spot, a powerhouse for pleasure!Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20 to dive right in.About our guest: Curiosity is Christina’s driving force. Being born during the Soviet Era in a conservative household that never spoke about sex unless it was telling adult jokes gave her an insatiable appetite to dive deep in the world of sexuality.She’s been studying sexuality for more than 14 years and she believes that the secret to the universe is between our legs. She’s traveled to over 60 countries speaking, giving workshops and learning from other great teachers.She’s on a mission to bring sexuality out of the dark ages where our sexuality becomes the source of our peace and happiness instead of the source of our shame, guilt, trauma, pain, and anxiety.To learn more visit confidentlovers.comFor Christina's article on how to find a good erotic massage practitioner: https://www.confidentlovers.com/tantra-massage/For more info on the A-Spot: https://www.confidentlovers.com/what-is-the-a-spot/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Th4Y9J3iK5YOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessWant clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months Schedule your own erotic storytelling photoshoot with our favorite photographer couple/duo at https://tadamphoto.com/Take Amy's workshop in Dallas by visiting www.sarassecret.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

How does the pill affect sexual responsiveness, choice of partner, or even seemingly unrelated life choices like career or attainment of higher education? And what should we be doing to better educate and inform women about their choices, bodies, and options?We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing and intimacy in my relationship. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: A leading researcher in the dynamic and rapidly expanding field of evolutionary psychology Sarah E. Hill completed her PhD at UT Austin and is now a professor at TCU. She is also the author of the new book, THIS IS YOUR BRAIN ON BIRTH CONTROL: THE SURPRISING SCIENCE OF WOMEN, HORMONES, AND THE LAW OF UNINTENDED CONSEQUENCES. With more than fifty scientific publications and multiple prestigious research grants to her credit, Dr. Hill has become an authority on evolutionary approaches to psychology and health. She has been quoted in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Scientific American, and The Economist. To learn more visit www.sarahehill.comOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com  

The intro of the episode is about some of our favorite sex toys, as well as some awesome Valentine's Day activity and gift recommendations including as few that won't cost you a thing. The interview of the podcast is all about navigating non-traditional relationships including non-monogamy and anything beyond the traditional "get married to one person forever" way of being. Our guest also helps us answer some of your sex questions about non-monogamy.To checkout the Clone-a-Willy and Clone-a-Pussy go to www.cloneawilly.com and use code SHAMELESSSEX for 20% off. To checkout the We-Vibe Chorus and Moxie go to We-Vibe.com and use code Shameless for 5% off plus free shipping. Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip ahead to minute 34 (Note - our mic disconnected during the recording, so we apologize for the poor sound quality). Kitty Chambliss is a #1 Amazon Best Selling author of Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship. She is also a relationship coach, keynote speaker, polyamorous and sex-positive activist, and founder of Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) - specializing in helping people in non-traditional relationships navigate the challenging emotions that often arise in such dynamics. Kitty has made it her life’s mission to make thriving relationships – even unconventional ones – attainable to everyone. She is also the host of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast - available on all of the apps. To learn more visit lovingwithoutboundaries.comOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessMeditators have better sex! Start meditating with the Calm app + get 40% off when you visit calm.com/shamelessGet $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com  

Anthony Asanti is a Straight Male Escort providing warm, sensual professional companionship to women and couples. He is skilled in multiple healing techniques including sensual massage and Bondassage. To learn more visit anthonyasanti.com