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Eve Minax, a Professional Domina and Kink Educator, joins the conversation to share her insights on kink and BDSM. She introduces the 'Minax Method,' highlighting the importance of tailored approaches in teaching these practices. The discussion emphasizes personal boundaries and empowerment in BDSM relationships, especially for trauma survivors. Eve also explores how kink can promote personal growth and challenge societal norms, advocating for open communication and healing through consensual exploration.

How does erotica get us into our ultimate turn on? And how can we write our own sexy stories? We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing with my wife.Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Rachel Kramer Bussel is a writer, editor, event organizer and writing instructor. She’s edited over 60 anthologies, including Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica, The Big Book of Orgasms, The Big Book of Submission, Tasting Him: Oral Sex Stories, Tasting Her: Oral Sex Stories, Crossdressing, Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica, Best Bondage Erotica of the Year, Volume 1 and five volumes of the Best Women’s Erotica of the Year series. Her writing has been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, O, The Oprah Magazine, SELF, Elle, Rolling Stone, and elsewhere, and she writes regularly about book publishing for Forbes online. Her pansexual erotica has spanned numerous subjects, from French fries to Monica Lewinsky to boxing, as well as exploring lap dances, a dishwashing fetish, a nudist resort and a kissing party, among other scenarios and settings. Her work has appeared in Best American Erotica 2004 and 2006 edited by Susie Bright as well as Zane’s bestsellers Succulent: Chocolate Flava II and Purple Panties, and translated into Italian, German and Japanese. She teaches in-person erotic writing workshops across the United States and around the world, as well as consulting via EroticaWriting101.com on erotica and sexuality nonfiction, and will be launching an online erotica writing class in 2020. Find her on Twitter @raquelita. To learn more visit rachelkramerbussel.comOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

How can men become the master of their sexual energy? Why is this helpful? And how can they learn to up their orgasm game both alone and with partners?We also answer a sex question about opening up the relationship as a means of satisfying differing sex drives. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Matthew Ayriss is a Sacred Sexuality Guide, Shamanic-Somatic Healer, Transformational Life Coach, & Conscious Content Creator. He facilitates immersive experiences, men's retreats, Tantra and transformational festivals, men's circles, and group coaching programs across the world. To learn more visit themasculinepillar.com/. And to receive a discount on his program use code Shamelesssex at checkout.Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Tune in to learn the latest tips and tricks on seduction and foreplay. We also answer a sex question: I pleasure my partner but they rarely reciprocate.Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. About our guest: Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a sexologist and a sex coach who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips. She is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference and the Sexual Liberation Collective. She has studied human sexuality for more than 19 years and has been featured on a variety of media outlets, as well as spoken to various audiences around the world. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay - available April 14th, 2020 - with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly and is currently writing a chapter and co-editing An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy, coming in 2021. To learn more visit http://velvetlipsllc.comOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com  

Award-winning adult film director and creator of Adulttime.com Bree Mills joins us to tell us all about the current state of the porn industry.Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. We also answer a sex question about how to have a first-time threesome. About our guest: Bree Mills is an award-winning adult filmmaker and Chief Creative Officer of Adult Time, a streaming service for adults. Her work leverages art, sexuality, and cinematic narratives to trojan-horse powerful messages into the hearts and minds of her audience. A Boston native, she now lives in Los Angeles with her wife and daughter. Check out Adulttime.comOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comTake affordable yoga, pilates and even a 200 hour yoga intensive online at hotsourceyogastudio.com/Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

What is anxiety and how does it affect the body? How can people work with it? And how does this apply to sex and relationships? We also answer a sex questions about a golden shower fetish. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com. Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comEasily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

Sex robots, virtual reality, realistic "love dolls"...what is Sex Tech and what does the future hold for new innovative sex toys?We also answer a sex question: I get air stuck inside of me during sex (AKA queefing). Am I tight enough down there?Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. About our guest: Andrea Barrica is the CEO and founder of O.school, a judgment-free media platform to learn about sexuality and pleasure. As a queer woman of color, she’s been fighting to bring more humanity to the tech industry, and her mission is to create the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brand to help people increase their sexual health, power, and confidence. Previously, Andrea co-founded the leading financial solution for growing startups, inDinero.com, which now employs 150+ employees globally. She also served as a venture partner at 500 Startups, a global venture capital fund, where she worked with hundreds of startup companies. Andrea was raised in a religious, conservative Filipino family that only taught abstinence and she only had fear-based sex education in public schools. Seeking support and information, Barrica could not find reliable resources and experienced harassment online. Determined that no one else should have to struggle like she did, Barrica launched O.school in 2017 to change the way people learn about sexuality. She is also the author of the new book Sextech Revolution. To learn more visit O.schoolOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com  

What does embodiment mean and how does it enhance intimate connection? Where do my fantasies come from and how can I explore them for hot sex, or even for healing?  Note: This episode was recorded pre COVID-19 About our guest: Finn Deerhart AKA the "Gay Rebel with a Heart-Centered Cause" is a sex and relationship coach living in San Francisco, who has followed a deep inquiry about how sex and spirit intersect in our lives.  He believes that as gay and queer men, we have been divided in sex and spirit since our arrival on the planet and that we are always trying in some way or another to put these severed pieces back together again. Finn is passionate about helping you have relationships that are way deeper, way hotter, and will change your life. To learn more visit http://finndeerhart.com/

What is Tantric sex all about and how does it lead to juicy orgasms and mind-blowing pleasure? And how can people incorporate this into the bedroom? All this and more with Tantrica Caroline Carrington. We also answer a sex question about how to find the best toy for couple's and g-spot play.Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25.About our guest: Caroline Carrington is a Certified NeoTantra Educator and pleasure & intimacy expert inspiring people to live empowered lives across the US and around the world. She is the Founder of Sarasa Tantra and carries the dream of this lineage to expand people’s experience of pleasure, intimacy and connection through relationships, energy play and dynamic and erotic meditation. Caroline is passionate about walking NeoTantra out of the bedroom and into the world and has taught about the benefits of sexual healing and trauma at Kaiser Permanente. She has had the privilege of studying Somatic Experiencing with a variety of teachers including the creator, Peter Levine to expand her capacity to support trauma survivors. Caroline deepened her connection to kink and gender inclusivity during the Urban Tantra Professional Training with Barbara Carrellas. She is blessed to have been on spiritual pilgrimage to India with Gina Sala to study Nada Yoga, the Tantra of Sound, as well as with classical Tantrika and Sanskrit scholar Dr Vajish Shastra-ji in Varanasi. Caroline studied Tantra Yoga with Pedro Franco who uses yoga postures and breathwork as a focal point for his teaching. She has spent years practicing Bhakti yoga, the yoga of devotion studying with Deva Premal and Miten, Jai Uttal and Krishna Das and uses mantra as part of her daily meditation practice. She carries mantras on her lips and in her heart wherever she goes. For the past 4 years, Caroline has been studying more subtle forms of energy practice and attachment healing with Norma Ramos-Ott. Caroline is available for private sessions, workshops, deep dive retreats and is committed to training teachers and mentoring NeoTantric practitioners with high levels of integrity.Learn more at www.JewelintheLotusCoaching.com & www.SarasaTantra.comOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessEasily connect with sexy women at mygirlfund.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com

In this episode we chat with our dear friend and fellow podcaster Kyle Thiermann all about love, sex, relationships, and all of the other quarantine-inspired conversations in the time of the COVID-19 virus. About our guest: Kyle is a professional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current social issues happening all over the world. These are conversations with fascinating people he meets along the way. To learn more about Kyle and his podcast, visit kyle.surfWant to skip to the conversation with Kyle? Fast forward to minute 11.Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com