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Allison Moon, repeat guest and author of the new book Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex joins to to talk about casual sex and hook-ups. We discuss everything from how folks can navigate hook-ups in a way that feels really good for them, ways to be better flirts, as well as some of the signs that it's time to end the relationship, plus tips for how to navigate those difficult conversations. We also answer a sex question: I want to have sex with someone who is bigger than my last boyfriend. Is there anything I can do to “prepare” to have sex again in case it’s painful? About our guest: Allison is a sex educator and author of the award winning, critically-acclaimed sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke, as well as her latest release, Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-free Sex. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops to thousands of people around the US and Canada. To learn more or to buy her book go to GirlSex101.com. Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

Davey Wavey - adult film star and director of educational, affirming, AND hot” AKA “good for you porn on himeros.tv - shares his thoughts on how mainstream porn shaped modern day sexuality, as well as some of the positive things he has learned about sex from working in the porn industry and how folks who have shame around watching porn can reclaim it in a positive way.We also answer a sex question about finding confidence being on top. And one of our dear listeners teaches us a little something about cuckolding and hotwifing. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. About our guest: With more than 700 million video views, Davey Wavey's YouTube channel is the largest and most-viewed LGBT channel on YouTube. Davey's latest adventure is the launch of the gay erotic website Himeros.tv. By collaborating with renowned sex coaches, tantric instructors and sexologists, Himeros.tv uses erotic video content to inspire better gay sex through connection, pleasure and sexual exploration. Himeros.tv is like porn. But better. To learn more visit himeros.tvOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

What are the best positions for fellatio - both for comfort and pleasure? How does breath, temperature, speed, neck action, sound, and using your hands come into play? And what are “finishing moves”? Repeat guest and Master Oralist HeadUsa Divine answers all this and more. We also fill in the blanks about cuckolding and hot wifing. And we answer a sex question about scent and pH issues for vulvas. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. About our guest: Headusa Divine is a Master Oralist, Webcam Artist, Self-Published Author and Content Creator. She is a Dick Sucking Expert and author of The Blowjob Handbook, The Official Webcam Handbook - and her latest release The Official Blowjob Handbook Volume 2 - exclusive dick sucking techniques and mind-blowing finishing moves. Her goal in sharing her wisdom and experiences from entertainment & educational perspectives is to influence the fellatio and webcam culture as well as for you to learn new techniques & skills so that you are inspired to become your own Artist and Master Oralist. To learn more visit iamheadusa.comOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shamelessGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

Dr. Nan and her wonderful husband John joins us once again to answer: What can I do about selfish sex? What if I want more sex than my partner? How do I ask for what I want? And what is cuckolding and "hot wifing" all about?We also answer a sex question about anal sex for beginners. Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 18. About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% off the Naughty or Nice Kit and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at LikeAKitten.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

What does it mean to have a conscious cock? How can penis owners (who are vulva admirers) learn to be better partners and lovers? We also answer a sex question about porn affecting orgasms. Want to skip to the interview. Fast forward to minute 18. Bio: Kristopher Lovestone is a sex educator and couples counsellor who survived six divorces in his childhood, and then went on to rewrite the rules of the relationship game so that people can actually win. He now teaches people how to succeed through communication, modern sex education and innovative relationship strategies. His techniques have yielded him a wildly successful 15-year marriage that gets hotter every year, and he published his teachings in his new book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men. He has been called the “Einstein of relationships” and is endorsed by many of the top sex educators in the world. To learn more or to buy his book visit consciouscock.com.Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 40% off and free shipping for all app-enabled devices with code SHAMELESS40 at satisfyer.comGet 20% off the Naughty or Nice Kit and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at LikeAKitten.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

In this bonus episode we talk all about sex toys - specifically how to find the right one for you, as well as how to use them.    Links: Satisfyer: Get 40% off + free shipping with code Shameless40 at satisfyer.com FemmeFun: Get 20% off with code Shameless at femmefun.com/Shameless  Like A Kitten: Get 20% off + free shipping with code Shameless at likeakitten.com OR go to likakitten.com/shameless  LELO: Get up to 80% off with code Shameless at lelo.com    

Why aren't people getting what they want in sex, intimacy, and relationships, and how can they change that? Monica Jayne AKA one of our FAVORITE sex and relationship coaches joins us to answer this and more. We also answer a sex question about bisexuality and non-monogamy. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Dare To Be Unabashedly You™ is Monica Jayne’s slogan and the undeniable outcome you'll experience with her. She supports adults who have done lots of self-development but aren’t getting where they want to be in themselves, their relationships, and their life. They know there is more to life! Monica Jayne knows that at the foundation of not having what you want, is the fact that you’ve been told who and how to be your whole life. NOW, it’s time to resurrect your OWN voice and learn to listen to YOU! She guides you home to your own truth, authenticity, and voice so that you can speak up and be you. Monica Jayne has studied directly with vulnerability expert Brene Brown, mindset expert Dr. Joe Dispenza, relationship and polarity expert Alison Armstrong, sex expert Jaiya, and sexological bodywork creator Joseph Kramer. She has two college degrees, earned Magna Cum Laude in 2006, and certifications in the Erotic Blueprints™, Queer Competency, Accelerated Evolution™, Hatha Yoga, and forthcoming in Sexological Bodywork. Monica Jayne has supported 1000s of adults across 6 continents and 45 countries guiding them in deep shadow work and awakening to pleasure and joy to become their true selves. Because she wants everyone to feel safe to be who they are, she created a membership community for you that guides you into conscious authentic adulting and play called They Didn’t Teach Me That™ PLAYHOUSE and a process called Authentic Evolution™ - 7 steps for excavating your truth and knowing what you truly want. Both are available to you through her website.Visit MonicaJayne.com/more - for amazing freebies including Look Back to Move Forward™, mentioned in this episode! Or dive into the full process and pick up Authentic Evolution™ for 15% off with code SHAMELESSSEX!!Take the quiz and learn your Erotic Blueprint™ here - bit.ly/bpquizfunConnect:MonicaJayne.com - and use SHAMELESSSEX for 15% off.IG: @iammonicajayne or https://www.instagram.com/IAmMonicaJayne/Facebook: Facebook.com/Monica.Jayne.me Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 25% off of Satisfyer's amazing pleasure products with code SHAMELESS25 at satisfyer.comGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

This episode is all about our favorite sex toys and why we love them. From clit vibes to masturbators to kink to anal toys - we  share stories and our top picks for different types of toys for all variations of playtime.  Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

What is the "orgasm trap"? Why do a lot of people fake orgasms? What can folks do if they have trouble having an orgasm or think they can only orgasm one (or a few) way/s? And how do orgasms change with age? We also answer a sex question about herpes/STI's, and shame. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Keeley Rankin is a sex and relationship coach, pleasure advocate and a sexy-preneur. She works with individuals and couples who want to embrace their innate desires, build sexual confidence, and fully realize their sexual potential. Keeley received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. For seven years, she worked closely with the world-renowned author and transpersonal psychotherapist who coined the phrase ‘spiritual bypass’, John Welwood. She also specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples. Pre-Covid, she would meet couples in Paris for the a unique-extreme-sexy-connected date night – private sessions aimed to prep the couple for an evening at a sex club. She has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created an Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com/Other links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessDiscover Amy's favorite vibrators at satisfyer.comGet 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

Beloved repeat guest Dr. Alison Ash returns to discuss why so many people get stuck in their heads during sex. Insecurities, unresolved resentments, lack of confidence in sexual skills and more - Aly teaches us how to get out of our heads in bed while becoming our own best lover. We also answer a sex question about penis owners who have a fetish for wearing lingerie. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for.    As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at TurnON.loveOther links:Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 20% off plant and oil-based lubes + site wide with code SHAMELESSSEX20 at intamopleasureboutique.comGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessDiscover Amy's favorite vibrators at satisfyer.comGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.comBuy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast