Shameless Sex

Amy and April engage in a raw and playful discussion about their experiences with sex from their teenage years to their 30s. They talk about their first sexual experiences, exploring sexuality in their youth, navigating traumatic situations, and their evolving understanding of relationships. They express gratitude for the availability of resources empowering younger generations to prioritize pleasure and personal needs.

In this bonus episode we learn all about what it means to “maximize pleasure for for you”, as well as ways people can bring their personal pleasure game to the next level from both a burlesque star's and sex therapist's perspectives. To learn more, be sure to check out their offerings including their upcoming April 2nd, 2022 InToPleasure Virtual event here: intopleasure.comAbout our guests: Michelle L’amour is an international burlesque star and empowerment advocate. She is the creator of InToPleasure and host of the podcast Look Down There. She has been featured on America’s Got Talent, MTVs Amazingness, Playboy and Sex Life on the Epix Network. She believes in life, liberty and the pursuit of pleasure. Nicoletta von Heidegger is a Sexologist, podcaster, educator, and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) based in Los Angeles. Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her MEd in Human Sexuality from Widener University. Nicoletta is currently pursuing her PhD in Human Sexuality from Widener. Nicoletta sees clients virtually and at a ranch where she also offers equine facilitated/ assisted psychotherapy. Nicoletta believes in embodied practice and is certified in levels I and II of The Trauma Resiliency Model as well as Level 1 of PACT. When not working with clients, Nicoletta creates and hosts the growing hit podcast Sluts & Scholars and teaches educational seminars and classes to help others learn about sexual and mental health.

One of the more common answers we share when addressing your sex questions is to go get support with a (sex) therapist or coach. But we realize taking that next step is not always an easy process. Return guest Keeley Rankin, M.A. and Sex and Relationship Coach joins us to answer everything from why it's helpful to work with a (sex and relationship) therapist or coach, to where to find them and the questions you should ask to see if they feel right to you, as well as red flags to watch out for, addressing and working around financial issues, and more. About our guest: Keeley Rankin received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in  Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. She specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples and has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created a Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com Other links:Up your grooming game with 20% off and free shipping with code SHAMELESS at manscaped.comGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com  

Repeat guest Orpheus Black joins us to discuss everything from the differences between BDSM and Fetish, to tools and tips for spanking, face slapping and chocking - all with a great emphasis on pleasure, play, safety and consent. His expertise and relatable way of teaching will likely inspire you to want to learn more via his upcoming 2-part course on "The Erotic Art of Spanking" happening online April 2nd and April 9th, 2022. Space is limited so sign up ASAP at orpheusblack.com and be sure to use code SHAMELESS25 for 25% offAbout our guest: Orpheus Black is a public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary with expertise in kink. Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. Orpheus regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&M community and he has been recognized by news resources like Mashable.com, Playboy, Marie Clair, and Ebony. To learn more visit orpheusblack.com Other links:Get 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy BYOB Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com  

Certified Sexologist and world renown educator Destin Gerek joins us once again to teach us all about penis-owners can learn to up their sexual confidence and skills - resulting in the high probability of becoming one of the best lovers their vulva-owning partners has ever had. Not only does he dive into the qualities of what makes a great lover, he also shares plenty of tips, tools and practices that you can begin to implement in your life whether you are single, dating or long-term partnered. In other words, if you are a penis-owner/man who is, has or will be having sex with vulva-owners/women, we strongly suggest you listen to this episode. Oh, and be sure to take him up on his offer to give you more FREE content by clicking here: evolvedmasculine.com/shamelessAbout our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, "The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success". His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. He has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Destin is also is the creator of the groundbreaking and life changing 12 week Sexual Self Mastery Training Program. To learn more visit evolvedmasculine.com/shamelessOther links:Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shamelessGet up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com  

Dear friend and Shameless Sex Podcast's "resident sex therapist" Dr. Nan Wise returns to teach us all about how to talk about sex with our (sexual) partners while answering sex questions sent in from listeners. Dr. Nan makes those intimidating conversations fun, sexy...even easy! About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark. She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.comOther links:Get 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy BYOB Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com  

Hard or Soft Podcast is hosted by Tahoe and Orlando - two men who candidly speak about their exploration in the world of sex. The goals of these conversations are to offer the typically taboo perspective of men being open with their sexuality while simultaneously providing a safe place for women to understand men more, and for men to feel comfortable exploring in this realm without shame. With new episodes every week, the hosts engage in educational, and honest conversations with a wide variety of interesting and unique guests. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app. About our guests: Hard or Soft Podcast is hosted by Tahoe and Orlando - two men who candidly speak about their exploration in the world of sex. The goals of these conversations are to offer the typically taboo perspective of men being open with their sexuality while simultaneously providing a safe place for women to understand men more, and for men to feel comfortable exploring in this realm without shame. With new episodes every week, the hosts engage in educational, and honest conversations with a wide variety of interesting and unique guests. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app. The only sex positive podcast that also has an active Only Fans. Hard or Soft is pushing the envelope in more ways than one and developing new and healthy beliefs around sex for their community.Through their own personal journeys, the men have encouraged their audience to release the old traditional ideas of sex and approach sex, love, relationships and accountability with open arms, and new understanding. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app. https://www.instagram.com/tahoe_tv/?hl=enhttps://www.instagram.com/hardorsoftpod/?hl=enhttps://www.instagram.com/wh_orlandoroye/?hl=en Other links:Get 20% off your Flex Disc Starter Kit with code shameless at flexfits.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com  

What are the most common sex and relationship issues sex coaches are seeing these days? What are the tools to work through these common issues that may lead to better connection and great sex? Sex Coaching Pioneer Dr. Patti Britton answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Patti Britton has over 40 years of expertise as a clinical sexologist, author, and sex coach. Patti teaches professionals keys for helping their own clients/patients/ students find solutions to their sexual roadblocks. She is an entrepreneurial wizard who shares insights on how to create a thriving private practice—one that is anchored on a commitment to service. She is true spirit of generosity, and has a drive to manifest social change for a sexually healthy world. To learn more go to sexcoachu.comOther links:Get 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy BYOB Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Take your (sexual) health into your own hands with at-home test kits + get 20% off at everlywell.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com  

Return guest Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋", joins us to talk about f*cking. Why are so many vulva-owners not enjoying penetrative sex? How can folks learn to be a master f*cker - both as a giver and receiver? We also talk about positions, techniques, toys and so much more. About our guest: Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋" is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. She is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality. A best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. Susan has been featured in the New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox and NBC. You can find The Susan Bratton Show® at BetterLover.com, her personal shares on Instagram @susanbratton, and her lust-for-life supplements, FLOW and DESIRE at The20store.com.Other links:Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.comWant to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com  

Dr. Judson Brandeis, a urologist and author of "The 21st Century Man," delves into crucial issues affecting penis owners’ sexual health. He discusses common problems like erectile dysfunction, linking it to heart health and emphasizing the need for proactive medical consultations. Innovations in sexual health technologies and the significance of body awareness are highlighted, alongside practical advice on using enhancement devices safely. The conversation also touches on the interplay of mental health and stress in sexual wellness, offering a comprehensive view on optimizing male intimacy.