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In this episode we interview award-winning adult model, performer, sex educator and disability advocate GoAskAlex all about her experience in the adult film/porn industry. Alex got her start in 2014, and then a few years into her career she had a life-changing surgery resulting in a permanent disability. Alex shares her journey towards self-love and acceptance, as what it's like as she continues to work in adult film.More about our guest: GoAskAlex is an adult model, onscreen performer and sex educator with the distinction of being the industry’s first-ever ostomate since receiving a life-changing surgery in 2019: “my small intestine was diverted out through my abdomen, and I now wear a permanent medical device.” The auburn-haired British Columbia, Canada native - who launched her adult career in 2014 as a webcam model and online companion - has since taken the opportunity to use her high-profile platform to advocate for disabled and underrepresented bodies in adult media. GoAskAlex currently sits atop the 1% of content creators on OnlyFans, is a top attraction over at SuicideGirls.com and sells her original video clips on top sites such as ManyVids. iWantClips and Clips4sale. She has since been featured in XBIZ Magazine, posing for the cover as the trade publication’s first-ever model with an ostomy, as well as Hustler E-Magazine to promote her inspiring Disabled Sex Workers Calendar. She also won 2020’s XBIZ Cam Award for Best Inked Model and 2021’s XBIZ Best Cam Model. To learn more visit goaskalex.comOther links:Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Join Orpheus Black, a master teacher renowned for his BDSM expertise, as he unpacks the art of submission in intimate relationships. He discusses what it means to be a sub and offers strategies for initiating sex without losing one's identity. Orpheus dives into navigating non-monogamous desires, emphasizing clear communication while exploring jealousy and consent. He also contrasts surrender and submission while advocating for informed BDSM practices. Don’t miss out on his insights for combining healthy sexuality with personal empowerment!

This episode is all about how to add more hotness and newness into your relationship. From exploring non-monogamy to kink to role-play, or just adding a little spice to your monogamous lover-ship, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey has something to teach you.About our guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgeable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life.On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®.She’s also a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop/retreat facilitator, and sought after expert in the media on the topics of sex, relationship style, intimacy, and trauma.Dr. Bisbey is the author of Chopping Wood, Shaping Metal & Other Erotic Stories, Dancing the Edge to Reclaiming Your Reality: Essential Life Skills for Gaslighting (and Trauma) Survivors and Dancing the Edge to Surrender: An Erotic Memoir of Trauma and Survival, and identifies as a queer consensually non-monogamous leather woman, and is in a full-time authority transfer-based relationship with her husband. To learn more, visit DrLoriBethBisbey.com.Twitter.com/drbisbeyInstagram.com/drbisbeyFacebook.com/drloribethbisbeyTikTok.com/@loribethukhttps://the-a-to-z-of-sex.captivate.fmFor links to some of our favorite sponsors, click hereOther links:Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why is monogamy so hard for so many long-term partnerships? What are the “new models” for monogamy, and how can both monogamous and non-monogamous partner/s work together to recreate the relationship as a means for better sex and connection? For Dr. Nelson's free 40 Questions to Start Your New Monogamy Agreement, check out our blog at shamelesssex.com or click hereAbout our guest: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her books include Getting the Sex You Want, The New Monogamy, and her latest Open Monogamy. She is executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a featured expert in NY Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Glamour Magazine, Cosmopolitan, RedBook, MSNBC, Men’s Health, Woman’s Day, and has been a source for Time Magazine. Dr. Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationship and sex therapist to provide advice and tools for finding one’s place on the “monogamy continuum,” having honest and respectful communication, making relationship agreements, and more. To learn more or buy her book go to drtammynelson.com Want to join our free online Shameless Sex community on Discord (and maybe even connect with Amy and April on there from time to time? Go here: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTgWe have a Never Have I Ever__! event coming up May 24th 530-630pm PST. Not only will Amy and April be there, but we are also giving away free passes to Amy's online Orgasm 101 class.Other links:Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssexAvoid the takeout temptation with ease (and yummy food that is good for you) + $40 your first shipment when you go to dailyharvest.com/shamelesssexGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Why is it so common for vulva-owners to experience pain during penetrative sex, and what are some of the solutions? What about hemorrhoids? Can people with hemorrhoids still explore and enjoy anal sex? And if so, what can they do to make it more pleasurable? Trigger warning: We talk a lot about bowel movements AKA poop in this episode. But hey, everybody poops, right? To learn more about our guest: Dr. Meredith Brezinski is a pelvic health and orthopedic physical therapist located in Portland, Oregon. Meredith provides one-on-one, in home, concierge physical therapy services which eliminates the stress of commuting to an appointment, hiring childcare, and worrying about sharing the intimate details of your story with an entire clinic. Dr. Meredith knows that every person has a story to share and having time with your provider is often the piece that is lacking in our traditional healthcare system. Meredith will help you determine the root cause of your symptoms, develop a plan for relief, and help you get back to what is most important - living your best life!Meredith also serves as the Director of Pelvic Health for Concierge Physical Therapists, a nationwide company, that offers all in home services to their clients. We have therapists in 14 different states in the US and continue to grow to more locations. If you are interested in finding a therapist near you, you can find out more info at www.conciergephysicaltherapists.com.Meredith received her Doctorate of Physical Therapy at University of Colorado Anschutz Medical Campus in 2016 following her Bachelor of Science in Exercises Physiology at West Virginia University in 2013. She has completed numerous courses specific to pelvic health through Herman and Wallace Pelvic Rehabilitation Institute. Meredith loves everything outdoors and can be found hiking, backpacking, on the water, or hanging out with her dogs Luke and Leia. She lives with her husband Will in Portland Oregon.If you would like to contact Dr. Meredith, you can reach out with these links below!Website: www.drmeredithbrezinskipt.comInstagram: @dr.meredithbrezinskipt Other links:Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 20% off of Manscaped's re-launched Ultra Smooth Package (+ free shipping!) with the code [SHAMELESS] at manscaped.comGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

In this fun in-person recording we collaborate with two badass women - Natasha Root, the creator of the successful Fan's Utopia site where she sells porn performers used panties, sex toys and more - as well as Kenna James, an award winning adult star and model, as well 2016’s Penthouse Magazine Pet of the Year. While our main intention was to focus on the porn industry as well this lucrative business Natasha has created, we also somehow end up getting a free Anal 101 lesson as well. Enjoy!About our guests: Natasha Root is a Los Angeles Native and fashion executive-turned-entrepreneur. She is currently the Owner of the popular platform, Fans Utopia, which connects fans with their idols on a deeper level, while also enabling adult talent to earn the money they deserve.She began working nearly two decades ago at her dads autobody shop, which instilled her the go-getter attitude that has led her to where she is today. Prior to starting Fans Utopia, Natasha was a model, and held positions at Capitol Records, designing clothes for band’s tours, and a cobbler company where she repaired high-end fashion goods.As a former director of a cobbler company, she handled all business operations and quickly learned the ins-and-outs of product design and fashion. At 34 years old and nearly two decades of work experience, her unique background and go-getter attitude lead her to create her own ecommerce platform, Fans Utopia. She was no stranger to the porn industry, having grown up and lived in LA her whole life. Once she had an idea to start a platform to bring together their fans and idols there was no looking back. She brings to Fans Utopia decades of experience working in client service, fashion, and entertainment to the company.She turned what started out as a local, LA-based startup into an international company in no time. As the Owner of the company, she continues to lead all business operations and works closely with adult talent worldwide.She’s been featured in several times in Goop and well-known fashion blogs. To learn more visit https://fansutopia.com/ Kenna James is an award winning adult star and model, as well 2016’s Penthouse Magazine Pet of the Year. You can purchase items from her most famous scenes and live streams at fansutopia.com, and to see all of Kenna’s work visit kennasjoint.com. For her social links visit: twitter.com/kennajames21instagram.com/realkennajames Other links:Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shamelessGet turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Episode #258 was all about how to give blowjobs and handjobs (on/with) penis-owners, and now it's time for Alicia and Erwan Davon to join us once again to give us all the juicy tips on how this applies to vulva pleasure. They talk about everything from their top techniques for manual stimulation to oral stimulation to how to have extended orgasms along the way. Note: We had a bit of a technical issue so we apologize if the audio quality is not top notch :/About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support.Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based Erwan Davon Teachings. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. Be sure to check out their online Pleasure Course here May 21-22, 2022 and get $100 off with CODE100: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-pleasure-coursethe-5-keys-to-a-successful-relationship-tickets-273688007197?aff=shamelessTo work directly with them, Text 415 308 9580 or click this link: https://erwandavon.com/consult/Follow them on Instagram at @davonmethodOther links:Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get $10 off your order of $50 or more on our favorite mouth-gasmic treats at milkbarstore.com/ShamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Sex Educator and Sex Hacker Kenneth Play returns to teach us his top sex hacks from fulfilling fantasies to curating a mind-blowing 90 minute orgasmic experience to multiple orgasms, unlocking erogenous zones, being a great lover no matter what size you are, and so much more. You definitely do not want to miss this one, and be sure to check out his new book Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence.Also, join our free Shameless Sex community on Discord! This week we are hosting a fun Meet 'n' Greet event (online) where we share sex stories from challenges to celebrations on Thursday, April 21st at 530pm PST: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTgAbout our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. After his 15 years of experience as a personal trainer, he leveraged the best of the fitness education model to re-envision sex education, and has now helped millions of men gain sexual competence through rapid skill acquisition. His newest course, Sex Hacker Pro, features 70+ videos and over 12 hours of content, and was described by AskMen as having “at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several.” He partnered with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova to conduct the world’s largest scientific survey on female ejaculation. He has guest lectured on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. He cofounded Hacienda, a sex-positive community space which empowers sexual exploration through hands-on sex education workshops and events. Go get Kenneth’s latest book, Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence now at kennethplay.com/book and be sure to checkout his sex hacker pro course at kennethplay.com Other links:Up your grooming game with 20% off and free shipping with code SHAMELESS at manscaped.comGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com  

Return guest and badass sex-ed priestess Layla Martin joins us to talk all about how to have the best sex of your life. Listen to learn why she says "If you want to f**k a Goddess then you have to know you're a God". Be sure to check out her upcoming offerings:To sign up for Layla's FREE Epic Lover's Digital Guide, click hereTo check out her 21 Day Erotic Confidence Challenge, click hereAbout our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical liberation, rapid change, and outrageous pleasure. Her highly effective programs, tools, and practices empower you to experience exquisite sex, shameless self-love, and incredible depths of intimacy. She’s the founder of the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA™) and the creator of the VITA™️ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification, the VITA™ Sacred Sexuality Initiation, and other programs. She’s shared her work with over 135 million people through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. If you want to experience epic sex, legendary love, and your most magnificent self, visit Layla’s website and follow her on Facebook and Instagram.Other links:Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

What are the different types of erotic blueprints? How might each one show up in sex and relationships - both as superpowers and challenges? And how can folks to utilize their erotic blueprints in their daily lives in the bedroom and beyond? About our guest: Julianne is a women’s life and health coach, Erotic Blueprint Master Coach, Certified Somatic Sexologist Practitioner, and Certified Holistic Health Counselor. Her innovative Goddess Approach Methodology focuses on healing the mind, body, and soul so that women’s bodies not only become safe, but pleasurable, places to be. Her journey from physical and emotional abuse and disordered eating to the eventual choosing to come into love for herself gives her a unique foundation for helping women cultivate a healthy relationship with food so that they can reclaim their health and love their bodies. Ultimately, she helps women heal at deep levels so that they can strip away the stories that aren’t serving them, remind them of the lost parts of their souls, and remember the truth of who they are in their wholeness.To learn more visit: https://www.instagram.com/juliannevaccaro/https://www.instagram.com/direct/inbox/https://www.juliannevaccaro.com/https://www.instagram.com/trppodcast/ Want to join our free Shameless Sex Discord community? Click here: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg Other links:Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.comGet 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shamelessGet 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com