

The ikario Podcast: human thriving in the modern world
Shane Melaugh
The world is noisy, complicated and overwhelming, but you can learn to surf the chaos. On this podcast, we explore what it takes to break free from digital distractions, addictions, social isolation and everything else keeping us down in the modern world. Learn how to become more capable, build (and stick with) good habits and become a force to be reckoned with.
The ikario podcast is hosted by Shane Melaugh and produced with the help of the ikario team.
The ikario podcast is hosted by Shane Melaugh and produced with the help of the ikario team.
Episodes
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Sep 13, 2022 • 1h 4min
4 Levels of Self Development (& Getting Your Shit Together) | Episode 69
Join the free ikario Community here and come talk to us:
https://ikario.com/join
FREE Class: Stop procrastination Crash Course
https://ikario.com/crashcourse/stop/
Free Class: Become an Implementer
https://ikario.com/im-register/
Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
01:03 - The Problem with the Self Development Space & Elite Content
05:21 - 4 Levels of Self Development
06:21 - Level 0 - No-Lifer
13:06 - Level 1 - Average
18:05 - How to Make Green Smoothies Easy and Effortless for Yourself
20:30 - Same Thing for Other Areas of Life
32:29 - How to Be in the Top 10% of People
33:43 - Level 2 - How to Go From Top 10% to 1%
47:30 - Level 3 - Going Beyond Yourself
1:02:57 - Outro

Sep 7, 2022 • 1h 27min
Neuroscientist Reveals the TRUTH about Dopamine and Modern Suffering | Episode 68
TJ's Instagram - the best place to find and interact with him: https://www.instagram.com/tjpower/
Join the free ikario Community here and come talk to us: https://ikario.com/join
FREE Class: Stop procrastination Crash Course
https://ikario.com/crashcourse/stop/
Free Class: Become an Implementer
https://ikario.com/im-register/
Chapters:
00:00 - Intro + What TJ's Company Does
02:32 - A Neuroscientist's Perspective on Tech Induced Suffering
04:53 - 4 Key Hormones that Drive Human Behaviour
06:30 - The Truth About Dopamine
10:51 - We Are Taking Shortcuts to What We Want & It's Making Us Unhappy
15:19 - The Discomfort We Feel Is Actually A Healthy Response
24:15 - Loneliness and Oxytocin
30:30 - How the Presence of a Phone Influences You
36:03 - What Does Serotonin Do?
39:50 - Connection Between Seratonin and Your Environment
43:25 - What Do Kids and Teens Think About Getting Off Screens and Tech?
45:50 - Tech Optimisim vs. Negative Side Effects
50:35 - Turn Your Phone Into A Tool + Being Different
54:22 - What are Endorphins?
57:19 - How to Release Endorphins
1:00:34 - Practice Sitting in Discomfort
1:01:54 - Limbic Friction is the Key to Discipline
1:05:28 - How to Have What You Want from a Physiological Perspective
1:08:39 - Cooking as an Experience is Good for You
1:10:20 - Humans Love Doing Things Socially and for Others
1:13:31 - Neuroscientist Reveals Habits That Make Him Happy
1:16:17 - How Porn Affects Us
1:18:26 - A Neuroscientist's Perspective on NoFap and Masturbation
1:25:25 - Outro
Links & Resources Mentioned:
TJ's IG: https://www.instagram.com/tjpower/

Aug 30, 2022 • 37min
Living with Integrity and its Ripple Effects on Other People | Episode 67
Join the free ikario Community here and come talk to us: https://ikario.com/join
FREE Class: Stop procrastination Crash Course
https://ikario.com/crashcourse/stop/
Free Class: Become an Implementer
https://ikario.com/im-register/
Chapters:
00:00 - Intro + Why Living with Integrity is so Important
00:58 - Marshmallow Experiment
03:01 - Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset
06:21 - Definition of Integrity
10:41 - A Single Moment That Changes Someone's Life
14:16 - Be The Example
16:47 - Your Words Having Weight
19:11 - What It Means to Be Deliberate
22:03 - Integrity is a Habit - Whether You Have It or Not
25:47 - Why Most People Don't Have Integrity
26:42 - Living with Integrity Means Honesty Especially When it's Difficult
27:46 - Is Integrity Innate?
30:16 - Living with Integrity is an Active Decision
34:08 - You Can't Only Keep Your Word When It's Convenient for You
Links & Resources Mentioned:
Habits of Mind Podcast: https://youtu.be/u2OHOBF84bw

Aug 24, 2022 • 1h 3min
5 Popular Productivity Tips You Should Stop Doing Immediately | Episode 66
The productivity self-help-scene is always finding new ways to sell you old tricks. But, it seems some old tricks, like the Pomodoro Technique for example, stick around for good. In this episode we explore why it's time to retire 5 of the most popular productivity hacks that are still being peddled by productivity gurus around the world AND what you should be thinking about doing instead.
We also address the 5 most common "Productivity No-Buts" or "resistance to advice" that we encounter from students that participate in the ikario productivity classes.

Aug 16, 2022 • 2h 37min
Q&A Episode: Answering Your Burning Questions About Success & Productivity | Episode 65
If you have any burning questions you'd like us to answer, email us at: hello@ikario.com.
Links and Resources Mentioned:
Potato Diet Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hu2vGVTwKj4
How to Prioritize: https://youtu.be/tP4VAawx2qw
Shadow Workshops are in the ikario Community, join here: https://ikario.com/join/
The Bacon Fallacy: https://youtu.be/4ROcIj8k6Rg
How to Stop Procrastination (The Crash Course): https://ikario.com/stop
Wealth Building Course: https://ikario.com/wealthbuilding/
Shane on Building Teams + Team Culture: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/entrepreneurship-on-hard-mode-shane-melaugh/id1618984651?i=1000571222194
Timestamps + List of Questions:
1:37 - How to deal with brain fog?
6:50 - How to be productive despite chronic health issues?
13:17 - How to focus when you can't turn off notifications?
16:26 - How to be more productive with my time?
23:35 - What to do when I can't take in any more information?
26:50 - I'm always distracted it's hard to focus, what should I do?
32:40 - How to stick with things and reach long term goals?
40:16 - How to deal with uncertainty and fear of failure?
44:10 - Feeling guilty about not spending time with family
53:51 - How to remove busywork and focus on high priorities?
55:40 - How to prioritize what's important, how to pick the right goals?
59:33 - How to break big goals into smaller steps?
1:04:58 - What to do when you know what you need to do but can't get yourself to do it? How to pushing thru emotional resistance of doing the difficult thing?
1:12:51 - How to stay motivated and implement along the way? (How to not fall off)
1:17:37 - How to create and stick to a schedule long term?
1:24:55 - How to reset a negative thought when you convince yourself you shouldn’t be doing something because it scares you?
1:34:27 - Why do I keep sabotaging myself and limiting my own success?
1:40:29 - What does Success mean?
1:49:28 - What is the difference between Success and Impact?
1:50:49 - Do your intentions for impact matter?
1:51:59 - What is the difference between productivity and success?
1:58:27 - How to manage online addictions like gambling, video games, social media, porn? How to deal with Dopamine Addiction? Advice for overcoming dopamine addiction.
2:16:04 - How to beat procrastination?
2:17:06 - How to organize myself to be financially successful at a later stage in life?
2:19:07 - How to create SOPs and Processes? How to build a team and leverage others?
2:24:35 - How to know when to Let Go and when to Double Down on Ideas, Products, Employees and Opportunities?
2:31:42 - I worked for 5 years for no money, what should I do to move forward?

Aug 9, 2022 • 1h 1min
How to Be An Attractive Man | Episode 64
Join the free ikario Community here to get access to the Shadow Workshops: https://ikario.com/join
Chapters
0:00 — Why Men Tend to Get this wrong
1:56 — The Anthropological View
3:00 — The Biggest Difference Between Men and Women
4:12 — Why You Will Never Look Like a Hollywood Celebrity
10:08 — What REALLY Makes a Man Attractive
12:48 — Why Being Out of Shape is Unattractive
13:30 — How to Be Physically Attractive as Yourself
16:01 — What’s Attractive About Material Possessions
17:22 — How to Have True Confidence and Passion
21:07 — Why Women Test Guys
22:10 — Why Men Are Lucky in the Dating Game
25:25 — Most Women Find This Out Later in Life
27:45 — Smartphones, Anxiety, and Why Dating Apps Suck
30:42 — How to Be Happy Long Term
35:32 — Focus on What You CAN Control to Be Attractive
38:09 — Men are Built to Develop Their Capability (It’s Innate)
42:41 — How to Get Out of “Needy Mode”
48:08 — How Advertising Affects Us as Men
50:21 — My Experience of Not Using Any Soap or Anything
53:38 — Using Cologne, Fashion Sense and Your Frame
58:49 — What To Do To Become Attractive
Books and Resources mentioned in the episode:
The Amazing Development of Men by Alison Armstrong
Understanding Women by Alison Armstrong
Evolution of Desire by David Buss
Don’t Trust Your Gut by Seth Stephens-Davidowitz
How to Get Your Shit Together Physically: https://youtu.be/gfYaJ9TTqzE
Join the free ikario Community here to get access to the Shadow Workshops: https://ikario.com/join

Aug 2, 2022 • 1h 15min
Get Rich During the Economic Recession | Episode 63
Join the free personal wealth building class here: https://ikario.com/wealthclass
Difficult economic times are upon us. Inflation is seeing record highs, destroying people's purchasing power and at the same time assets like stocks and crypto have been plummeting in value. Not to mention a war in Europe, talks about energy and food shortages...
Where does this all lead? How can mere mortals still work their way towards financial freedom, when the odds seem so strongly stacked against us?
That's what we discuss in today's episode.
00:00:00 - Why personal finance?
00:04:20 - Is the economy screwed?
00:07:11 - The most important question to ask
00:17:50 - Knowledge is power/wealth
00:21:46 - Active vs. passive investing
00:26:07 - How to win with an imperfect strategy
00:34:28 - The game is not to make money fast...
00:35:32 - Are current asset prices a good buying opportunity?
00:40:44 - Why things might still get worse
00:46:18 - Narrative overextension
00:54:29 - Why you must make your own financial decisions
00:57:52 - Income Expense Gap
01:03:00 - My biggest investing mistake last year
01:07:35 - Be a participant
01:12:20 - Plan to get rich slowly
Learn my simple model for strategic thinking: https://ikario.com/decisions/

Jul 28, 2022 • 29min
The Bacon Fallacy | Episode 62
Ever said "I could never live without bacon... or cheese, or coffee, or alcohol" or anything else? In this video Shane reveals The Bacon Fallacy: The idea that living without something you love makes your life worse, is untrue.

Feb 2, 2022 • 44min
Focus on Consistency - Life Lessons from 100 Days of Gym | Episode 61
We recently completed our first official 100 day ikario challenge. The goal was to complete 100 days of physical training without a break. Before we set out to make a compact video of this experience, Shane and Dean knock about the lessons from doing a challenge like this.
Links & show notes: https://ikario.com/061/

Jan 24, 2022 • 1h 8min
ikario Team’s Biggest Lessons from 2021 | Episode 60
2021 was filled with loads of personal development for the ikario team. In this episode we look at each person's biggest takeaway from the year.
Links & show notes: https://ikario.com/060/