

Husband Material
Drew Boa
So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.
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May 31, 2021 • 32min
Psychology And Spirituality (with Dr. Ken McGill)
How does psychology relate to spirituality? How does therapy relate to theology? Dr. Ken McGill is a Christ-centered clinician who has been answering these questions for decades. In this episode, Dr. Ken offers a perspective on sex addiction that is both clinical and compatible with Christianity.Dr. Ken McGill is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist with a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology. He is the author of Cultivating Love Book Series (this is a paid link): https://amzn.to/3hUNmlv Learn more about Dr. Ken at drkenmcgill.com.The doors to HMA are OPEN!Enroll now at joinhma.comThe doors close on January 18.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

May 24, 2021 • 46min
How To Measure Freedom From Porn (LIVE)
Measuring freedom from porn usually produces self-contempt or self-righteousness. How can we avoid these two pitfalls? Is there a better way? Yes, there is! In this episode, I'll share the 4 levels of freedom from porn, how to evaluate your sexual and emotional maturity and my #1 most meaningful measurement.Register my upcoming free live class, "How To Outgrow Porn," at outgrowporn.com!The doors to HMA are OPEN!Enroll now at joinhma.comThe doors close on January 18.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

May 17, 2021 • 58min
Porn As Re-Enactment Of Sexual Abuse (with Wendell Moss)
The podcast delves into the deep connection between unresolved trauma and the tendency to reenact past experiences, particularly in the context of sexual abuse. It explores the impact of shame, powerlessness, and self-contempt, highlighting the intricate relationship between seeking approval and grappling with inner struggles. The narrative unfolds a journey of addiction, faith, and unexpected grace, ultimately emphasizing the transformative power of embracing vulnerability and community support in the healing process.

May 10, 2021 • 1h 11min
Healing Brother Wounds (with Marcus Spaur)
Marcus Spaur, founder of Between The, shares his journey of healing brother wounds and overcoming addiction to pornography. The podcast explores the impact of sibling relationships, the importance of connection, and being the hero of your own story. Marcus also discusses his coaching services and the freedom from porn that has allowed him to reclaim his creativity.

May 3, 2021 • 26min
Unwanted Sexual Attraction
Let's change the way we talk about sexual attractions and desires. No matter who or what you're sexually attracted to, this episode is for you. What can we do with unwanted sexual attraction? 1. Talk about it 2. Understand it 3. Appreciate it 4. Manage it The doors to HMA are OPEN!Enroll now at joinhma.comThe doors close on January 18.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Apr 26, 2021 • 1h 3min
The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Porn-induced erectile dysfunction is more common—and curable—than you might think. Hear Shawn Bonneteau's story of PIED/ED, why he continued to struggle after years of freedom from porn, and how he finally overcame it. Shawn also shares practical steps to freedom from PIED/ED, including The Thought Model.Download Shawn's free 5-page PDF explaining The Thought Model here.Shawn Bonneteau is a professional mentor and the co-founder of Secret Habit, where he and his wife Helena equip & empower people to heal from the harmful effects of pornography. Contact Shawn at https://secrethabit.ca/contact/Listen to Shawn and Helena Bonneteau's Secret Habit Podcast!The doors to HMA are OPEN!Enroll now at joinhma.comThe doors close on January 18.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Apr 19, 2021 • 41min
Embrace Conflict (with Jay Stringer)
Porn is a pacifier for conflict...with God, with others, and even with ourselves. Learn to embrace conflict in a redemptive way with author and therapist Jay Stringer. I recommend Jay's book more than any other (this is a paid link): Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way To HealingMore Resources by Jay Stringer and Drew Boa:The Sexual Fantasy Framework (Free Mini-Course)The Unwanted Digital WorkbookJay will be joining us for an exclusive Q&A event and special announcement this week on Wednesday, April 21st, at 2:00 PM Pacific Time. This Zoom Meeting will be hosted inside our community app at husbandmaterial.app. Get the app and we'll see you there!The doors to HMA are OPEN!Enroll now at joinhma.comThe doors close on January 18.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Apr 12, 2021 • 3min
BONUS: Drew's Spiritual Warfare Song
Listen to this short clip on repeat to memorize Ephesians 6:10-17.The doors to HMA are OPEN!Enroll now at joinhma.comThe doors close on January 18.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Apr 12, 2021 • 1h 6min
Seven Strategies For Spiritual Warfare (LIVE)
We are not in a war against sexuality (which is good); we are in a war against evil. Come learn 7 strategies for spiritual warfare based on the Temptation of Jesus in Matthew 4:1-11... and hear my special spiritual warfare song! Download a free one-page summary of this episode here:husbandmaterial.com/43NOTE: In the middle of this presentation I started weeping. Don't be alarmed! It's okay. God was ministering to me. I believe my tears are not a sign of weakness, but strength.The doors to HMA are OPEN!Enroll now at joinhma.comThe doors close on January 18.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Apr 5, 2021 • 35min
Rebuilding Sexual Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)
In a marriage devastated by porn, when and how should sex come back into the picture? In part two of this two-part series, Adam King and Karissa King explain how to slowly but surely restore sexual intimacy to be better than it ever was before.Adam and Karissa (@dearyoungmarriedcouple) have been working as a coach-therapist team since 2011 and are dedicated to helping couples become intimately connected, get adventurous, and find purpose. They serve couples all over the world through online marriage counseling and coaching.Buy Adam and Karissa's Card Decks For Couples (these are paid links):FOUNDATIONS - Questions And Tips To Become More ConnectedREALIZATIONS - See How Well You Know Your Significant OtherSEXPECTATIONS - Talk Openly About Sex Without Having SexMore DYMC Resources...PodcastYouTubeInstagramWebsite: dearyoungmarriedcouple.comPhone: (916) 678-1797E-mail: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.comThe doors to HMA are OPEN!Enroll now at joinhma.comThe doors close on January 18.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!


