

Husband Material
Drew Boa
So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.
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Apr 12, 2021 • 1h 5min
Seven Strategies For Spiritual Warfare (LIVE)
We are not in a war against sexuality (which is good); we are in a war against evil. Come learn 7 strategies for spiritual warfare based on the Temptation of Jesus in Matthew 4:1-11... and hear my special spiritual warfare song! Download a free one-page summary of this episode here:husbandmaterial.com/43NOTE: In the middle of this presentation I started weeping. Don't be alarmed! It's okay. God was ministering to me. I believe my tears are not a sign of weakness, but strength.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Apr 5, 2021 • 34min
Rebuilding Sexual Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)
In a marriage devastated by porn, when and how should sex come back into the picture? In part two of this two-part series, Adam King and Karissa King explain how to slowly but surely restore sexual intimacy to be better than it ever was before.Adam and Karissa (@dearyoungmarriedcouple) have been working as a coach-therapist team since 2011 and are dedicated to helping couples become intimately connected, get adventurous, and find purpose. They serve couples all over the world through online marriage counseling and coaching.Buy Adam and Karissa's Card Decks For Couples (these are paid links):FOUNDATIONS - Questions And Tips To Become More ConnectedREALIZATIONS - See How Well You Know Your Significant OtherSEXPECTATIONS - Talk Openly About Sex Without Having SexMore DYMC Resources...PodcastYouTubeInstagramWebsite: dearyoungmarriedcouple.comPhone: (916) 678-1797E-mail: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.comSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Mar 29, 2021 • 1h 4min
Rebuilding Emotional Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)
In a marriage devastated by porn, how do you rebuild trust? In part one of this two part series, Adam King and Karissa King share the 5 steps every couple must take to rebuild trust (for both spouses).Download the free PDF guide here: 5 Steps When Trust Has Been BrokenAdam and Karissa (@dearyoungmarriedcouple) have been working as a coach-therapist team since 2011 and are dedicated to helping couples become intimately connected, get adventurous, and find purpose. They serve couples all over the world through online marriage counseling and coaching.Buy Adam and Karissa's Card Decks For Couples (these are paid links):FOUNDATIONS - Questions And Tips To Become More ConnectedREALIZATIONS - See How Well You Know Your Significant OtherSEXPECTATIONS - Talk Openly About Sex Without Having SexMore DYMC Resources...PodcastYouTubeInstagramWebsite: dearyoungmarriedcouple.comPhone: (916) 678-1797E-mail: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.comSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Mar 22, 2021 • 46min
The Art Of Affirmation (with Stephen Thomas)
We believe practicing verbal affirmation is absolutely essential to outgrowing porn. In this episode, Drew and Stephen will tell you why, and share practical strategies for how (not) to do it.Qualities Of Effective Affirmation: specific and precise (not generic or vague)evidence-based (clearly not made up)focused on the person (not the performance)Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Mar 15, 2021 • 43min
Healing Father Wounds (with Chris Bruno)
Chris Bruno, Founder and CEO of Restoration Project, discusses the connection between father wounds and pornography addiction. The concept of 'father' as a verb and the impact of brotherhood in fathering are explored. The podcast also introduces a special gift for dads: the 'No Regrets' community, and discusses the benefits of freedom from porn.

Mar 8, 2021 • 53min
Transform Your Thought Life (with Sathiya Sam)
Let's change our brains. How can we take back control of our thoughts and transform our core beliefs? My fellow Canadian friend Sathiya Sam is here to show us how.Sathiya Sam is the founder of Deep Clean, an online recovery program that helps Christian men overcome porn. Connect with Sathiya @sathiyamesam and check out his program at getadeepclean.comSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Mar 1, 2021 • 35min
Nine Tips About Triggers
What are triggers? How do triggers work? And most importantly, how can we take back control when we get triggered? This episode will answer each of these questions clearly and concisely...and at the end, I'll explain my own B.O.A. Technique for effective regulation.Download the free one-page summary: Nine Tips About TriggersSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Feb 23, 2021 • 1h 3min
Holy Sexuality & Singleness (with Dr. Christopher Yuan)
Hear Dr. Christopher Yuan's amazing story of coming to Christ, surrendering same-sex attraction, and embracing the gift of singleness.Dr. Christopher Yuan has taught at Moody Bible Institute for over ten years and his speaking ministry on faith and sexuality has reached five continents. In this episode, we dive into his newest book: Holy Sexuality and the Gospel.Dr. Yuan is the author of three books (these are paid links):1. Out of a Far Country: A Gay Son’s Journey to God, A Broken Mother’s Search for Hope2. Giving a Voice to the Voiceless: Reducing The Marginalization Of Same-Sex Attracted Students3. Holy Sexuality and the Gospel: Sex, Desire, and Relationships Shaped by God’s Grand StoryLearn more about Christopher at christopheryuan.comSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Feb 15, 2021 • 49min
A Pastor Finds Freedom From Porn (with Bernie Anderson)
Outgrowing porn can be especially difficult for pastors and ministry leaders. Hear how Pastor Bernie Anderson got found out, but found a way out...and how God found a way in!Bernie will be a leader at the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat. Sign up now to join his small group! Buy Bernie's book here (this is a paid link): Breaking The Silence: A Pastor Goes Public About His Battle With PornographyEmail Bernie at banderson33@me.com Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Feb 8, 2021 • 47min
What Should I Do With My Sexual Desires?
What should I do with my sexual desires—my attractions, urges, impulses, cravings, fantasies, aches, longings, and yearnings? I've been on a quest to answer this question for 15 years and finally found an answer worth sharing...Download the worksheet for this episode with 35 desires and 4 directions for each one:https://www.husbandmaterial.com/35-desires-and-4-directionsP.S. Don't forget to sign up for the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat! Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!


