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May 16, 2022 • 16min

Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)

Dr. Doug Carpenter, an expert in sexual arousal and desire, discusses the difference between sexual arousal and desire, emphasizing the impact of early experiences on our sexual cravings. They explore how early exposure to pornography shapes our sexual templates, the distinction between arousal and desire, and the relationship between sexual trauma, arousal, and sexual orientation.
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May 9, 2022 • 21min

Should I Count The Days Since I Last Used Porn?

Let me help you decide if “counting the days” is right for you. In this episode, you'll learn 2 bad reasons to count, 3 good reasons to count, and what works for me...2 bad reasons: Legalism & License 3 good reasons: Celebration, Compassion, & Curiosity What works for me? Listen to this episode to find out 😉 If you loved this episode, you will probably love my book, Redeemed Sexuality. Buy it here (this is a paid link): Redeemed Sexuality: 12 Sessions For Healing And Transformation In Community.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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May 2, 2022 • 35min

Porn And Centering Prayer (with Matthew Lyda)

What is centering prayer? How can it help us when we're triggered or preoccupied? In this episode, Matthew Lyda explains the 4 Rs of centering prayer: Resist no thought Retain no thought React to no thought Return to GodMatthew Lyda is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional and a poet. He is the author of Recover The Wild: Unfiltered Poems And Prayers (paid link). Matthew is also trained as a mental health & life purpose coach. Take Matthew's free 5-day course on centering prayer here.Please join us for "An Evening of Centering Prayer" inside the Husband Material Community on Wednesday May 11, 2022 at 4:00 PM Pacific Time.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Apr 25, 2022 • 1h 6min

The Gospel And Trauma (with Matt Wenger)

How does the gospel interact with trauma? In this episode, Matt Wenger explains a Christ-centered and clinically innovative approach to healing trauma and outgrowing pornography.Matt Wenger is the clinical director of Boulder Recovery, a 14-day intensive for men struggling with sex, porn, and relationship issues and their impact on faith. The program uses the TINSA treatment model (Trauma-Induced Sexual Addiction) to heal the traumatic experiences and attachment wounds driving addictive behaviors and problematic thinking around sex and intimacy.The next Boulder Recovery intensive is June 18th-July 2nd, 2022. Seats are limited. If you're interested, contact Boulder Recovery here.Learn more about trauma-induced sexual addiction here (this is a paid link): TINSA: A Neurological Approach to the Treatment of Sex Addiction, by Dr. Michael Barta.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Apr 18, 2022 • 1h 5min

How To Heal Your Inner Child: Older Brother Coaching

What if you could become a loving older brother to your inner child? In this episode, you'll discover how to do this through Older Brother Coaching. Older Brother Coaching is my unique approach to healing the inner child, which has led to hundreds of breakthroughs for Christian men outgrowing porn. In this episode, you'll learn the three steps of Older Brother Coaching. Then at the end, I'll lead you through a guided meditation to experience it for yourself.Resources mentioned (including paid links):Going Deeper: Understanding How The Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction, by Dr. Eddie CapparucciAltogether You: Experiencing Personal And Spiritual Transformation Through Internal Family Systems Therapy, by Jenna RiemersmaBoundaries For Your Soul: How To Turn Your Overwhelming Thoughts And Feelings Into Your Greatest Allies, by Dr. Alison Cook and Kimberly June MillerThe Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind, by Dr. Dan Siegel and Tina Payne BrysonWhat If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood? (podcast episode), by Adam YoungThis episode is a preview of Husband Material Academy (HMA), the all-in-one solution for Christian men outgrowing porn. If you loved this episode, you will love HMA...Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Apr 11, 2022 • 31min

The Blessing Of Being Reported (with Rich Moore)

What if being reported for criminal sexual activity can be a blessing? In this episode, Rich Moore explains how being reported saved his life and propelled him into healing. Rich also reveals how to know if you should report yourself or someone else to local authorities.Rich Moore is the Associate Director of Men's Groups for Pure Desire Ministries, and a certified Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP). Rich has been involved with Pure Desire for over 20 years and serves a foundational role in helping churches start a Pure Desire group ministry. Rich is also the author of The Silent Battle: One Man's Fight for Freedom.Contact Rich Moore at rich@puredesire.orgPure Desire Resources:Join a Pure Desire GroupListen to the Pure Desire PodcastRead the Pure Desire BlogSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Apr 4, 2022 • 40min

Healing Racial Trauma (with Sheila Wise Rowe)

What is racial trauma? How does it affect us all, and what does healing look like? In this episode, Sheila Wise Rowe shares insights and stories about how racial trauma can be healed.Sheila Wise Rowe is a truth-teller who writes passionately about matters of faith and emotional healing. She advocates for the dignity, rights, and healing of abuse survivors, those carrying racial trauma, and racial (re)conciliation. Sheila is the author of the award-winning book Healing Racial Trauma: The Road to Resilience, and her newest book, Young, Gifted, and Black: A Journey of Lament and Celebration. Learn more at sheilawiserowe.comRecommended books about racial trauma (these are paid links):Healing Racial Trauma: The Road to Resilience, by Sheila Wise RoweYoung, Gifted, and Black: A Journey of Lament and Celebration, by Sheila Wise RoweMy Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies, by Resmaa MenakemPost Traumatic Slave Syndrome: America's Legacy of Enduring Injury and Healing, by Dr. Joy DegruySupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Mar 28, 2022 • 19min

Why Didn’t I Like Vaginas?

If you’re not attracted to typical porn, have you ever wondered why? In this episode, I explore the roots of my negative association with female sexual parts due to purity culture, parents, peers, princesses, and porn.Books about sex and purity culture (paid links):A Celebration Of Sex, by Dr. Doug RosenauThe Gift Of Sex, by Clifford And Joyce PennerTalking Back To Purity Culture, by Rachel Joy WelcherTo understand how purity culture keeps men trapped in porn, take my free mini-course at outgrowporn.comSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Mar 21, 2022 • 39min

How Does God View My Body? (with Matt Cline)

What does God think about my face, my gut, and my penis? In this episode, Matt Cline unpacks what the Bible says about our bodies—why they have value, and how we can reclaim the parts we don't like. Matt Cline is the director of Restored Ministries, focused on helping 1,000,000 people live porn-free and powerfully by 2030. He is also co-host of the Pure Victory Podcast. Matt lives in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada with his wife and two young sons. Restored Ministries Resources:Pure Freedom Journey - restoredministries.ca/purefreedomCleansing Hour - restoredministries.ca/cleansinghourOther support options - restoredministries.ca/gethelpWives & girlfriends - restoredministries.ca/partnersInstagram - instagram.com/restored_community Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Mar 14, 2022 • 41min

Toxic Shame vs. Healthy Shame (with Dr. Jake Porter)

Is there such a thing as healthy shame? How can we heal from toxic shame? In this episode, Dr. Jake Porter shares eye-opening answers to these questions from science and scripture.Dr. Jake Porter is the founder of Daring Ventures and host of the upcoming Choose Connection Online Summit for couples in recovery from addiction and betrayal on March 25-27, 2022. Husband Material is partnering with Daring Ventures to promote this awesome event using affiliate links.Get your free ticket to the Choose Connection Summit here: https://drewboa.krtra.com/t/4PhNgRjQJqa4Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

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