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In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -When Xiomara Medina was a teenage girl in Puerto Rico, a quinceañera was all she wanted when she turned 15. She dreamed of a big, sparkly dress and dancing the night away with her friends. But her family couldn’t afford it. So when she grew up and had four daughters, she wanted to give each of her children the party she never had. In this episode, her daughter, Jeyca Maldonado-Medina, brings us along as the family hosts its final quince for Jeyca’s youngest sister.—Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. Our Substack is a great way to connect with us and other listeners (and get more Terrible in your inbox). Join the club here.The episode transcript can be found here.—Shop Our Sponsors: LMNT: Visit DrinkLMNT.com/TERRIBLE to get a free sample pack with any purchase.BETTERHELP: This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/ttfa to get started with 10% off your first month. Learn more at BetterHelp.com/privacy.---Our Social Media:TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on FacebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -Courtney Maum is having a midlife crisis. Parenting is taking so much of her time. Her writing career is going well, but that means she’s overwhelmed by deadlines and book deals. Her marriage is in a rough patch, and when she starts asking herself “should I have an affair?” and “should I become an alcoholic?” she recognizes she needs a change in her life. She dreams of finding an escape that brings her back to her childhood passion of being outside for hours, lost in her thoughts.In this episode, we follow Courtney as she tries to find her Secret Garden. Courtney is an author, her most recent book The Year of the Horses is a memoir about rediscovering herself through her love of horses. Nora recommends her fiction: I Am Having So Much Fun Here Without You and Touch.__You can read the episode transcript here.Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. Our Substack is a great way to connect with us and other listeners (and get more Terrible in your inbox). Join the club here.—Shop our sponsors: Rothys: Get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/TERRIBLE.Osea: Head to oseamalibu.com and use code TTFA for 10% off.Headspace: Try Headspace FREE for 30 days by going to headspace.com/Nora30Day.Boll and Branch: Get 15% off your first order when you use promo code TTFA at bollandbranch.com.LMNT: Visit DrinkLMNT.com/TERRIBLE to get a free sample pack with any purchase.Foria: Get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/TERRIBLE, or use code TERRIBLE at checkout.You can find our full sponsor list here.—Find TTFA on social:TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on Facebook See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -There are a ton of money stories out there. Stories about people who are screwed financially through no fault of their own. People who did everything right and still cannot get a leg up. This episode is not one of those. It’s an excavation of a specific kind of debt, and a specific kind of shame. The kind that Jamie Feldman found herself in when she was 33 years old: credit card debt.—Resources:  Average credit card debt in the U.S. Information on emotional spending —Find Jamie on TikTok and Instagram @RealGirlProject. If you have a story about credit card debt – or any financial struggle – reach out to us at terrible@feelingsand.co or leave us a voicemail at 612-568-4441. We might use your story in a future TTFA episode or Premium episode. Our Substack subscribers get first dibs on ticket sales, new merch, show announcements and more. Join our mailing list here.The episode transcript can be found here.—We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production!Rothys: Get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/TERRIBLE.Osea: Head to oseamalibu.com and use code TTFA for 10% off.Headspace: Try Headspace FREE for 30 days by going to headspace.com/Nora30Day.Boll and Branch: Get 15% off your first order when you use promo code TTFA at bollandbranch.com.LMNT: Visit DrinkLMNT.com/TERRIBLE to get a free sample pack with any purchase.Foria: Get 20% off your first order by visiting foriawellness.com/TERRIBLE, or use code TERRIBLE at checkout.You can find our full sponsor list here.—Our social media:TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on FacebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -In April 2022, Marlin Sill’s father died from a head injury caused by a cycling accident. A few weeks later, he embarked on a months-long hike through the Western United States. Throughout last summer, Marlin sent the TTFA team voice memos of himself processing his dad’s death while he hiked. In this episode we take you on the trail with Marlin as he grieves, and also throughout the rest of the first year without his dad.—Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. Read the episode transcript here.—We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production!Rothy’s: Get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/TERRIBLE.Vegamour: Visit vegamour.com/Terrible and use code Terrible to save 20% on your first orderSquarespace: Visit squarespace.com/TTFA for a free trial and use offer code TTFA to save 10%—Our social media:TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on FacebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Enjoy this free TTFA Premium episode! And if you like it, consider signing up for future bonus content like this. Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -TTFA producer Claire McInerny experienced an extreme weather event in 2021, a result of climate change, that left her worried about the future. She started channeling her anxiety about the future of our world into another important question she was asking herself: “Should I have kids?”In this episode, Claire tries to untangle her feelings around what the world will look like in the future with her desire to have a family of her own.—Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. The episode transcript can be found here.—We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production!ROTHY’S: Get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/TERRIBLETHE FARMER’S DOG: Get 50% off your first box at thefarmersdog.com/nora.SQUARESPACE: Visit squarespace.com/TTFA for a free trial and use offer code TTFA to save 10%OSEA: Head to oseamalibu.com and use code TTFA for 10% offYou can find our full sponsor list here.—Find TTFA on social:TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on FacebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -Nora's dad died in 2014 from pretty much all of the cancers, leaving her mom Margaret without her life partner of almost 50 years ... and leaving Nora without a dad. Does a 40-year-old married woman with four children of her own need a father figure in her life? Nora thinks so! But what does Margaret have to say about dating in your 70s?—Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. You can find the episode transcript here.—We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production!ROTHY’S: Get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/TERRIBLETHE FARMER’S DOG: Get 50% off your first box at thefarmersdog.com/nora.SQUARESPACE: Visit squarespace.com/TTFA for a free trial and use offer code TTFA to save 10%OSEA: Head to oseamalibu.com and use code TTFA for 10% offSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -Identity theft is something many of us are familiar with, but we have a specific image of what this looks like – our data being stolen online, or someone getting a hold of our social security number. But almost a third of identity theft crimes are committed by a family member. This episode tells the story of two people who experienced financial abuse at the hands of their parents.—Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. The episode transcript can be found here.—We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production!ROTHY’S: Get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/TERRIBLETHE FARMER’S DOG: Get 50% off your first box at thefarmersdog.com/nora.VEGAMOUR: Visit vegamour.com/Terrible and use code Terrible to save 20% on your first orderOSEA: Head to oseamalibu.com and use code TTFA for 10% offYou can find our full sponsor list here.—Find TTFA on social:TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on Facebook See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -Cheval spent her entire life trying to be a wedding dress designer (she started sewing at 7 years old and studied fashion design in college). In her mid 20’s, she got her big break when a large fashion house hired her to design a wedding dress collection named after herself. But that dream only lasted eight years. She found herself in the middle of a legal battle that would take away her collection, her job as a designer, and eventually her name. —Read the episode transcript here.Follow Cheval on Instagram @allthatglittersonthegram and check out her new shoe line at sheischeval.com.—Our social media:TTFA on InstagramTTFA on FacebookNora on InstagramNora on FacebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In case you didn't know, we're still making episodes that are available exclusively on Nora's Substack! -One thing we know about grief is that it needs a witness. That inside every griever is a nearly uncontrollable urge to make the people around us understand what we had and what we have now. In this episode, we are all David’s witnesses.—Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. You can read the episode transcript here.—We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production!ROTHY’S: Get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/TERRIBLETHE FARMER’S DOG: Get 50% off your first box at thefarmersdog.com/nora.SQUARESPACE: Visit squarespace.com/TTFA for a free trial and use offer code TTFA to save 10%OSEA: Head to oseamalibu.com and use code TTFA for 10% offYou can find our full sponsor list here.—Find TTFA on social:TTFA on Instagram | TTFA on Facebook See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices