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Terrible, Thanks For Asking

The First Stone: Cheating, shame and a series of unfortunate men

Jan 23, 2024
Jenni, a former Mormon who experienced shame and guilt, discusses her choice to cheat and the societal judgment surrounding it. The podcast delves into the fascination with cheaters, unhealthy relationship dynamics, dating challenges after divorce, and the consequences and aftermath of infidelity. It explores the importance of honesty, finding independence, and deserving love and fulfillment.
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  • Internalized shame can deeply impact one's sense of self-worth and relationships, highlighting the need for healing and self-acceptance.
  • Jenny's journey emphasizes the importance of open dialogue, vulnerability, and empathy in relationships, despite the challenges faced.

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The Weight of Shame and the Power of Forgiveness

Jenny's story revolves around the theme of shame and forgiveness. Jenny, who grew up in the Mormon church, shares how she internalized shame from a young age, being constantly judged and controlled by societal and religious expectations. Her relationships, including her failed marriage and the affair she had with a married man, were deeply affected by this shame. Despite experiencing guilt and making mistakes, Jenny still seeks forgiveness and acceptance for herself and her past actions. Her journey highlights the importance of acknowledging one's mistakes, owning up to them, and ultimately finding self-love and forgiveness.

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