Kelly reflects on the love she had for her dad and grandpa, sharing memories and discussing the importance of showing up for those who are grieving. The speaker explores the power of photos in connecting with deceased loved ones and the act of writing letters as a way to convey love and create lasting memories. They also discuss the concept of magical thinking and signs from deceased loved ones, expressing gratitude for their listeners and Patreon community.
The photo of Kelly's parents and future husband symbolizes the connection between her past, present, and future, bridging her grief and love.
Kelly's letters to her son create a lasting bond and source of comfort, ensuring he knows he is loved even after her passing.
Deep dives
The Power of a Random Photo
Kelly discovers a photo of her parents sitting across from her future husband at a childhood birthday party. The photo holds a special link between her past, present, and future, as well as between her grief and her love for her husband and father.
The Influence of a Loving Grandfather
Kelly's maternal grandfather, Wilfred, becomes a significant father figure in her life after her own father's passing. He shows her unconditional love and acceptance, making each grandchild feel valued and cherished. Despite her fear of losing him, Kelly finds comfort and joy in their special moments together.
Leaving Love Letters for the Future
In anticipation of her own mortality and the inevitability of leaving her son Oliver behind, Kelly begins writing letters to him, documenting her love and wisdom. These letters serve as a lasting connection and source of comfort for Oliver, providing him with a reminder of his mother's love and guidance.
The Continuation of Love Across Generations
Through sharing her own legacy of love from her father's silliness and her grandfather's attentiveness, Kelly strives to pass on the importance of love and acceptance to her son. Despite the losses she has experienced, she aims to create a future where love transcends time and connects generations.
Kelly loved her dad, then she lost her dad. Kelly loved her grandpa, then she lost her grandpa. Now that Kelly’s a mom herself, she wants to ensure that her son knows he’s loved, no matter what comes.
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