Dating Intentionally

Today's episode features three new dating dilemmas for you, focusing on issues daters face in new relationships. The first is from a woman who's not sure she can fall in love with her guy and isn't sure what to do. Our second dilemma focuses on the question: how much fighting is normal? And the last one is from a woman in a loving, secure relationship that she feels lacks excitement. Listen for my takes and advice, and comment below to share yours! Book rec: Hold Me TightCheck out Nutrafol! Use code DATING for $10 off your first order at nutrafol.com.Try Acorns! https://www.acorns.com/dating---CONNECT WITH ME:Ask a question for me to answer on the podSlide into my DMs on IG @dating.intentionally!MORE FREE ADVICE & SUPPORTFree texting templates & dating FAQ guideGet more dating advice from me on YouTubeDating Intentionally on TikTokRead more on the blogDATING COURSESSwipe, Match, Date - Master The Dating AppsHow To Identify Your Needs 1-hr ClassSUPPORT THE PODRate on Apple! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling anxious about showing interest in early dating? This discussion offers practical tips to express your feelings without coming off as desperate. Discover the fine line between genuine interest and love bombing, and learn to navigate emotional investments wisely. The conversation also unveils surprising insights from a Valentine’s Day survey, revealing what people truly desire in love. Get ready to boost your dating confidence and foster meaningful connections!

In this episode, I sit down with sex educator Danielle Bezalel to explore common misconceptions about sex and why it’s time to rethink what counts as sex. We also dive into using sex toys on your own, plus how to bring them up in a relationship. And at the end, Danielle answers all the questions you might be too embarrassed to ask anywhere else about things like body odor, performance anxiety, being on top, and so much more. I hope you enjoy this educational and judgment-free convo! You can find all of Danielle's recommendations below.Danielle's toy recsTry Acorns! https://www.acorns.com/datingRoadway code: Dating10 for a discount on your move! https://www.roadwaymoving.com/---Ask a question for me to answer on the pod: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionallyMy Identify Your Needs course: http://bit.ly/4e2nwGC Get my free dating FAQ guide: https://intentionally.dating/gift/ Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever dated someone where things are moving so slowly that it feels like you're going backward? This episode breaks down the differences between a slow burn and a dead end so you know when to keep going and when to walk away. I also share advice on when to cut things off if things are going well but they're not committing and how to communicate your intentions and timeline.SLOW BURN WORKSHOP on 2/24use code PODCAST for a discount!Dating for validation episodeTry Acorns! https://www.acorns.com/dating---Ask a question for me to answer on the pod: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionallyMy Identify Your Needs course: http://bit.ly/4e2nwGC Get my free dating FAQ guide: https://intentionally.dating/gift/ Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm answering questions about my journey dating 64 people in 10 months! Questions like, how did you manage dating multiple people, how did you navigate sex while dating and how did you choose who to keep seeing and who to stop seeing? I also answer questions about staying safe while dating, what I wore on dates and how I found the time to date with a busy schedule. This episode is PACKED with advice!Listen to Part 1 here!Ask a question for me to answer on the pod: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionallyMy Identify Your Needs course: http://bit.ly/4e2nwGC Get my free dating FAQ guide: https://intentionally.dating/gift/ Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The speaker shares 15 lessons learned from going on 64 first dates in just 10 months. They delve into the importance of curiosity over mere attraction and the challenges of modern dating. Key insights include understanding intentions and avoiding the misconception that paying for a date equals commitment. The conversation emphasizes self-reflection, personal growth, and the value of seeking deeper attributes in a partner. Discover how to navigate dating with a positive mindset while enjoying this transformative journey!

In this episode, Julie and Yue from Dateable are back for round 2! We get into their new book, How To Be Dateable, which is out now everywhere and so much more. Listen to learn about what vulnerability is and isn't, how to tell if you've been playing relationship chicken this whole time and tips for being more authentic on dates. We also talk about Julie's big news at the end (other than the book launch of course). Get the book! How To Be Dateable by Julie Krafchick and Yue XuFollow Dateable on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dateablepodcast/My post on green flags men look for!---Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9  Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionallyMy Identify Your Needs course: http://bit.ly/4e2nwGC Get my free dating FAQ guide: https://intentionally.dating/gift/ Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP About Yue Xu and Julie KrafchickJulie Krafchick & Yue Xu are the co-hosts and creators of Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more. As active daters turned dating insiders, they’ve interviewed thousands of daters and world-renowned experts over the last decade to understand why we date the way we do. But more importantly, with this information, share how you can rise above modern dating culture, get out of this dating apocalypse, and DIY the love life you’ve always wanted. Subscribe to Dateable on all podcast platforms and visit dateablepodcast.com and @dateablepodcast as your go-to source for modern dating. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Exploring compatibility in relationships, the discussion reveals that shared hobbies aren't as crucial as we think. Individuality is highlighted as a key component, enriching relationships and fostering personal growth. Listeners learn that embracing differences can lead to deeper emotional connections. The podcast also emphasizes the beauty of engaging in each other's interests, showcasing how passion can strengthen ties. Overall, it's a journey into valuing acceptance and communication amidst varying personal passions.

What do you do if you get anxious on dates? My guest, Jeff Guenther, LPC (@TherapyJeff), shares many practical tips for managing anxiety on dates and enjoying the process more! We talk about different ways anxiety shows up, specifically how to ask for feedback from your dates and how to cope when you feel anxious on dates. Jeff also shares his advice for folks in new relationships, including eight questions to ask once you've DTR'd (defined the relationship).Follow Jeff on IGGet Jeff's book, Big Dating Energy! Here's the episode of Problem Solved we mentioned toward the endQuestions to ask after defining the relationship Are there any aspects of our relationship you want to keep private? How do you define cheating? How do you want me to break up with you? Will you feel hurt if I start watching a new TV series without you? When we order food, should I assume we’re sharing or is it separate? How much time should we plan to spend together on average? If I ever cheated on you just once, how would you want me to handle it? Should we talk about everyone we've hooked up with, especially if we're still talking to them? Ask a question for me to answer on the pod: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9 Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionallyMy Identify Your Needs course: http://bit.ly/4e2nwGC Get my free dating FAQ guide: https://intentionally.dating/gift/ Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP About Jeff Guenther, LPCJeff earned a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Southern California and a bachelor’s degree in Child and Family Development from San Diego State University. His therapeutic career began at a crisis line, where he supported individuals experiencing suicidal thoughts and severe anxiety. Before establishing his private practice, Jeff also provided therapy to high-risk students in the public school system. Since 2005, he has called Portland, Oregon, home, focusing his practice on helping both couples and individuals.In his spare time, Jeff creates engaging one-minute videos for TikTok and Instagram, along with more in-depth content on Passes. Follow him across platforms for relationship advice, tips, pep talks, and resources designed to enhance mental health. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover the top 10 qualities to seek in a partner, emphasizing character over mere physical attraction. Learn about the power of openness and how it fosters intimacy in relationships. Explore the fine line between kindness and niceness, and the crucial role of humor in building bonds. Delve into essential traits like honesty, reliability, and generosity that lay the foundation for long-lasting partnerships. Reflect on these qualities in yourself as you navigate your dating journey.