
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Latest episodes

Jan 5, 2024 • 14min
(Rewind): 5 Brutally Honest Reasons Someone Comes Back After A Break Up
This podcast explores why people come back after a break up, including motivations like lust and self-interest. It also discusses the honest reasons for returning, such as the desire for freedom and the challenges of loneliness. The podcast addresses whether taking an ex back is a good idea, and emphasizes the importance of maintaining standards and being confident after a breakup.

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Jan 1, 2024 • 17min
(Matt Monday): How to Make 2024 the Year You FIND LOVE
Explore how childhood experiences impact relationship patterns. Understand the importance of self-compassion and rewiring behaviors. Identify and change patterns for a successful love life in the new year.

Dec 29, 2023 • 12min
(Rewind): The Dangerous "High Value" Guy You Should Avoid
This podcast discusses the toxic reaction we often have when we feel not good enough for someone amazing, causing us to shrink our needs. It explores the challenges of navigating uncertainty in relationships, the significance of valuing certain aspects in a relationship, and the concept of the 'Goldilocks Pain Paradox'. The hosts emphasize prioritizing personal happiness and open communication in relationships.

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Dec 27, 2023 • 1h 32min
221: A Productivity Expert’s Advice For Finding Love Faster (with Ali Abdaal)
Productivity expert Ali Abdaal offers practical insights on finding love faster, optimizing dating, meeting each other's needs in a relationship, and setting clear goals for success. They discuss the importance of commitment, the dangers of constant optimization, and the significance of investing in your primary relationship. Additionally, they explore the influences of personal identity, timing in relationships, and admiration for personal choices. Check out Ali's book 'Feel Good Productivity'!

Dec 25, 2023 • 8min
(Matt Monday): Are You Having a Complicated Christmas?
Explore the contrasting emotions of joy and pain during the holiday season. Recognize that many people are going through their own versions of a complicated Christmas. Be proactive in creating a positive atmosphere and extending compassion to others.

Dec 22, 2023 • 6min
(Rewind): How to Get Attraction In The First Two Weeks
Tips for attracting someone in the first two weeks and the importance of making a strong connection. Showing excitement, making phone calls, and setting dating standards. Introducing a free training program to find a committed relationship.

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Dec 18, 2023 • 16min
(Matt Monday): Why You’ve Not Met the Right Person (Yet)
This podcast discusses the challenges of finding the right person despite being ready for a relationship. It explores the impact of our standards and the misconception of valuing the wrong things in relationships. It emphasizes the importance of finding someone who truly understands us and promotes the significance of chemistry and genuine connection in relationships.

Dec 15, 2023 • 6min
(Rewind): Why Men “Love Bomb” and What You Can Do About It
Exploring the phenomenon of 'love bombing' in relationships and understanding why men engage in this behavior. Managing expectations in relationships and emphasizing the importance of reassessing initial feelings and avoiding comparisons with the honeymoon phase.

Dec 11, 2023 • 13min
(Matt Monday): If You Hear THIS, You're About to Get Your Heart Broken
Learn about signs to look out for when dating someone who is still healing from a past relationship, the importance of emotional distance and perspective, and how to gauge if someone is serious about moving forward. Discover how to avoid relationship ruin and false intimacy, and why prioritizing availability over chemistry is key to attracting commitment.

Dec 8, 2023 • 8min
(Rewind): The BIG SIGNS You Should KEEP TRYING With Someone You're Dating
Learn how to invest wisely in relationships and distinguish between investing and chasing in dating.