
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Latest episodes

Oct 17, 2024 • 34min
268: Live Q&A - Know if They're Ready for Commitment, Should You Leave the door Open After a Breakup?
In a lively Q&A, the discussion dives into what makes someone ready to commit, shedding light on the difference between passive passengers and active deciders in relationships. Insights from pop culture, like Star-Lord, reveal how perceptions of commitment evolve. They also explore the significance of male role models and the importance of recognizing when to move on from a relationship. Plus, strategies for avoiding the dreaded 'relationship limbo' provide actionable advice for navigating love and connection.

Oct 16, 2024 • 38min
267: "He Still Won't Commit After 2 Years"...What's The Best Move Now?
Explore the complexities of commitment in relationships with insights on navigating a situationship that has lasted two years. The hosts discuss how to decipher mixed signals and the emotional toll of feeling stuck. They dive into the importance of mutual investment and recognize the challenges of one-sided love. Get ready to confront anxieties around commitment in today's dating world, all while enjoying some light-hearted Halloween fun!

Oct 14, 2024 • 15min
(Matt Monday): How to Make Someone Choose YOU (Even if They Have Lots of Options)
Struggling to find commitment? The discussion dives into the challenges of modern dating and the emotional barriers many face. Learn about three transformative mindsets on commitment that can shift perspectives. Discover how cultivating certainty influences romantic choices and fosters genuine connections. The podcast also reveals the significant role self-recommendation plays in attracting commitment. Forget the persuading tactics; it's all about embodying confidence and creating a magnetic energy that draws others in.

Oct 11, 2024 • 7min
(Rewind): 5 Dating Hacks That Boost Attraction AND Connection
Discover five essential strategies to enhance attraction and communication on dates. Learn how slowing down conversations and practicing active listening can deepen connections. Embrace authenticity over perfection to foster genuine relationships. Explore relatable stories that highlight the power of being your true self in the dating world. Uncover why many struggle with commitment and how to avoid getting stuck in 'relationship limbo.' These simple yet impactful tips can transform your dating experience!

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Oct 9, 2024 • 1h 14min
266: Esther Perel - Part Two! The Best Advice for Finding Love Today
Esther Perel, a New York Times Bestselling author known for her influential works on relationships, returns to discuss modern dating nuances. She addresses the biological clock and advises on dating appropriately for your age. The conversation delves into the myth of soulmates, the complexities of masculinity, and the impact of jealousy. Esther also offers valuable insights on enhancing sexual communication and rekindling desire in long-term relationships. Her unique perspective encourages listeners to rethink expectations and embrace vulnerability in love.

Oct 7, 2024 • 18min
(Matt Monday): The Hidden Reason They’re Not Committing to You...
Feeling stuck in the casual dating zone? Discover the emotional traps of ambiguous relationships and learn to recognize when it's time to transition from ‘let’s see how it goes’ to real commitment. The discussion reveals four key scenarios that often trap you in heartbreak. Dive into the complexities of modern dating and explore the true costs of casual encounters, highlighting the importance of self-honesty to pursue deeper connections and avoid the pitfalls of non-commitment.

Oct 4, 2024 • 14min
(Rewind): Feel Them Pulling Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE
The discussion dives into the all-too-common experience of feeling someone slowly pulling away in a budding relationship. It uncovers the emotional turmoil that sparks when misinterpretation and anxiety kick in. The conversation stresses the importance of recognizing your own self-worth instead of getting lost in the excitement of attraction. Listeners learn how to respond effectively to distance, highlighting a high-value approach to preserve connection while maintaining personal strength.

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Oct 2, 2024 • 48min
265: Esther Perel’s Advice On Modern Dating, Sexuality, And Communicating In Relationships
Join renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, a bestselling author known for her influential works on relationships, as she shares her insights on modern dating. She discusses how to reignite desire and communicate better about intimacy. Perel emphasizes the importance of fostering genuine connections through relaxed dating settings and practical strategies. She explores the impact of personal experiences on relationships, highlighting ways to navigate challenges and embrace sexuality. Discover her fresh perspectives on love in today's world.

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Sep 30, 2024 • 17min
(Matt Monday): What To Do When They Aren’t Asking You Questions on a Date
Matt Monday, a keen observer of dating dynamics, shares valuable insights into those awkward moments when dates feel one-sided. He discusses how to distinguish between self-absorbed and oblivious partners, emphasizing the importance of engagement. With practical strategies for navigating silent stretches and fostering conversation, Matt provides listeners with sample scripts to address communication gaps in a low-pressure way. Tune in for a mix of humor and expert advice on making your next date more interactive!

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Sep 27, 2024 • 12min
(Rewind): Should You REALLY Call Them Before The First Date? Here’s My Answer…
Diving into the awkwardness of modern dating, the discussion reveals how many feel more at ease meeting strangers than initiating phone calls. Practical tips are shared on building comfort before a date, highlighting the importance of progressing communication from texting to voice notes. It’s all about fostering better connections through phone calls while navigating contemporary dating dynamics. Personal anecdotes spice up the conversation, making it relatable and insightful for anyone navigating the dating scene today.