Decoding Success with Matt LeBris

What happens when you realize the life you’ve built isn’t fully yours? When the career, relationships, or goals you’ve been chasing were shaped more by approval and outside expectations than your own true desires? 🎙️ Work with Matt & Build Your Personal Brand: freebrandcall.com/mattlebris In this episode of the Decoding Success Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Robert Glover, author of the international bestseller No More Mr. Nice Guy. Together, we unpack the hidden ways we suppress our desires, betray our authenticity, and live for approval — and more importantly, how to break free. Dr. Glover shares: How to recognize the “lie coach” in your head that keeps you playing small. Why so many of us pursue goals that were never truly ours. The difference between emotional fusion and healthy differentiation (and why it’s the key to real freedom). How to start reclaiming your suppressed desires — without guilt, shame, or fear of rejection. Why authenticity is always a process, not a one-time choice. Whether you’ve struggled with people-pleasing, codependency, or simply not knowing what you truly want in life, this conversation will give you permission — and the tools — to step into your full, authentic self. 🌐 Connect with Dr. Robert Glover: Instagram: @drrobertglover Website: drglover.com Integration Nation (Men’s Community): integrationnation.net

I want to let you in on something that hit me hard recently: If you’re “playing it cool” in life, chances are… you’re actually just playing yourself. In this solo episode, I’m breaking down a moment that made me reflect deeply — a missed opportunity on a Brooklyn street that left me with instant regret. I’m sharing it because I know I’m not the only one who’s ever let fear get dressed up in confidence. We convince ourselves we’re being smooth. That we’re in control. But deep down, we’re just scared — scared of looking dumb, getting rejected, or not living up to the version of ourselves we’re trying to project. I dive into: Why “playing it cool” is costing you the life you want What fear looks like when it’s wearing designer clothing The hard truth about opportunities: they don’t wait for you to be ready Why it’s better to live with a “no” than a “never know” How to start acting like the version of yourself you’re trying to become If you’ve been sitting on an idea, holding back your voice, or missing shots you know you were meant to take — this one’s for you. Let them see you try. Let God see you try. You're not here to play it cool — you're here to play it real. 👉 If this hit home, do me a favor: ✅ Subscribe to the show 📝 Drop a review if you got something out of this 📲 Share it with someone who needs the reminder today Want to sit on the couch on check these out? Sub to the YouTube here: 📺: https://www.youtube.com/c/MattLeBris Let’s stop letting fear call the shots. Appreciate you for tuning in. – Matt

Suzy Batiz, the innovative mind behind Poo-Pourri, shares her gripping journey from the depths of bankruptcy and divorce to personal resurrection. She reveals how hitting rock bottom became a transformative experience, allowing her to redefine success beyond wealth. With raw honesty, Suzy discusses the power of surrender and trusting in faith, emphasizing the importance of embracing life's hardships as pathways to growth. Her story challenges the norms of success, encouraging listeners to align their aspirations with true fulfillment.

Dr. Caroline Leaf takes us on a journey through the science of the mind–brain connection. You’ll learn powerful tools to manage moments of anxiety, overwhelm, and panic—based on neuroplasticity and her signature Neurocycle method. Highlights include: How to reframe your inner narrative with intentional breathing, validation, and cognitive shifts. The difference between mind vs. brain, and why your mind drives 99% of your experience. The importance of the five-step Neurocycle, practiced over 63 days, to rewire toxic thought patterns and build lasting resilience. Why “it’s okay to not be okay,” and how healthy acknowledgment, not suppression, leads to transformation. 🚨 Free Strategy Call for Personal Brands If you're building a personal brand and feel stuck, unclear, or unsure what moves to make next — I'm offering a free 1-on-1 strategy call to help you break through. Whether you're a coach, creator, speaker, or service provider, this call is designed to help you clarify your message, amplify your impact, and align your brand with who you truly are. → Book your free call now at https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris/ Links & Quick Access Book: Help in a Hurry App: Neurocycle  Website: Dr. Caroline Leaf  Socials: Instagram | Facebook Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Mind-Body Connection 05:37 Techniques for Managing Anxiety 11:26 The Importance of Validation and Acknowledgment 17:23 Navigating Emotional Challenges 22:48 The Science of Neuroplasticity 28:26 Befriending Your Mind 34:17 The Journey of Healing and Growth 39:49 The Power of Choice in Healing 45:51 Embracing Life's Challenges 51:38 Conclusion: Building Resilience and Meaning

What if the life you dream about is actually one belief shift away? In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, I’m joined by the magical Haley Hoffman Smith—subconscious mind expert, speaker, and author of You Have the Magic. Together, we explore what’s really holding people back from their desires, why self-doubt isn’t yours to begin with, and how Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) tapping can completely change your life. We unpack how past programming creates present limitations, the power of healing stored emotional trauma, and how to use belief work to call in your next-level reality. If you’ve ever felt stuck, blocked, behind, or “not enough,” this episode is the reminder you didn’t know you needed. This episode is presented by my friends at Brand Builders Group. Ready to finally monetize your personal brand and break through the wall of obscurity? Book your free strategy call here 👉 https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris   🔑 What You’ll Learn Why self-doubt is learned—and how to unlearn it The science behind EFT tapping (and why it’s more legit than you think) How to shift core limiting beliefs without bypassing your emotions Why your dreams feel “too big”—and what to do about it How belief, identity, and desire shape your reality The truth about manifestation that most people miss Three powerful steps to rewire your subconscious today   🧠 Timestamps / Chapters 00:00 – The Journey of Self-Discovery 02:51 – Understanding Self-Doubt and Its Origins 05:35 – The Power of EFT Tapping 08:11 – Navigating Opportunities and Self-Perception 11:31 – The Role of Faith and the Universe 14:32 – The Importance of Authenticity in Pursuing Dreams 17:11 – Transforming Limiting Beliefs 20:05 – The Process of Healing and Self-Reflection 23:06 – The Magic of Manifestation 25:44 – Practical Steps to Change Your Reality 28:55 – The Role of Emotions in Healing 31:33 – The Connection Between Past Lives and Present Experiences 34:35 – The Importance of Community and Support 37:31 – Final Thoughts on Personal Growth   🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned 📘 You Have the Magic – https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/book/ 🌐 Haley’s Website – https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/ 📲 Instagram – @haleyhoffmansmith 🎵 TikTok – @haleyhoffmansmith 🌙 DreamAway Program – https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/dreamaway/   💥 You were born with magic. You just forgot. This episode is your permission slip to remember—and to create the life you know you’re meant for. 🎧 Tap in, rewire, and rise. 📲 Rate, review & share this episode if it sparked something in you. 💬 Tag us with your breakthrough: @mattlebris

What if the very thing you’re avoiding, financial discomfort, is the key to your freedom? In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, we’re joined by Sam Dogen, the creator of Financial Samurai and author of Millionaire Milestones. Together, we unpack the biggest financial lie millennials are still telling themselves, why winging it with your money never works, and the mindset shifts that lead to true wealth. From forecasting your future misery to redefining what “enough” means in a world obsessed with more, this conversation is packed with raw truths, personal stories, and hard-hitting advice you won’t hear from your typical finance guru. If you've ever thought you're behind, if you’re feeling pressure around money, or if you're simply searching for clarity, discipline, and peace of mind... this episode is your wake-up call. This episode is presented by my friends at Brand Builders Group. Ready to take your personal brand to new heights? Monetize your brand? More... Get on a free call with a certified brand strategist here 👉 https://freebrandcall.com/mattlebris 🔑 What You’ll Learn: Why “everything will be okay” is the most dangerous lie in personal finance The surprising link between pain and purpose when building wealth How to calculate your own freedom number (and why it matters) The reason saving should feel uncomfortable—and what to do about it How to integrate values + money goals without losing joy Why most people fail to build wealth (and how to never be one of them) 🔗 Resources Mentioned: Sam Dogen’s Book: Millionaire Milestones Financial Samurai Blog Follow Sam on X (formerly Twitter) 🚀 Ready to take control of your finances? This isn’t just about money... it’s about time, freedom, and designing a life on your terms. 👉 Rate, review & share this episode if it resonated with you. 👉 Tag us on social with your biggest takeaway: @mattlebris

What if the reason you’re exhausted, disconnected, or stuck… isn’t failure — but shame? In this deeply vulnerable and transformational episode, performance coach and trauma expert Annalie Howling joins Matt to reveal how shame shapes our identity, fuels burnout, and keeps us from experiencing real connection — with others and ourselves. Annalie shares her raw story of overcoming childhood trauma, healing internalized beliefs like “I am bad,” and learning to live a truly shameless life — one filled with freedom, self-compassion, and unshakable inner peace. If you’ve ever felt like a black sheep, unworthy of love, or driven by pain instead of purpose… this episode is a mirror, a roadmap, and a permission slip to finally come home to yourself. 🔑 What You'll Learn: Why shame is a belief system, not a behavior The link between burnout and unresolved trauma How your inner critic guards your comfort zone Why self-compassion is the antidote to shame Signs that shame is still running the show in your life The difference between being seen and just performing 📚 Grab Annalie’s Book: 👉 Unapologetic: Unshackle Your Shame, Reclaim Your Power — out May 13th Find it here: https://www.amazon.com/Unapologetic-Unshackle-Shame-Reclaim-Power/ 🔗 Connect with Annalie: Instagram: @annaliehowling Website: annaliehowling.com 🎧 Subscribe, share, and leave a review if this episode spoke to your soul. Welcome back to Decoding Success — the podcast for the black sheep ready to come home.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what really makes us happy. And spoiler alert: it’s not about chasing a perfect 10/10 every single day. In this episode, I’ve got the fellas in the studio with me, and we’re diving deep into the real meaning of happiness — and how you can create it for yourself starting right now. We’re unpacking the myths we’ve been sold about what happiness should look like, why “being present” isn’t just a buzzword, and how giving (even when you feel like you don’t have much) can unlock a level of joy you didn’t expect. In this conversation, I’m sharing: 👉 Why presence is the foundation of happiness 👉 The power of giving — no matter what you have to give 👉 How taking an honest audit of your life can show you what really matters 👉 Why chasing “ecstatic highs” leaves you feeling empty 👉 How to stop defining happiness by someone else’s standards 👉 A fresh perspective on love languages, fulfillment, and showing up for yourself and the people around you Whether you’re in a funk or just want to feel more fulfilled, I really think this episode is going to help you reconnect with what’s real. 🎧 Give it a listen — and let me know what you think happiness really is. 👉 If this conversation resonates with you, do me a favor: share it with someone who needs it. 👉 Want to watch the conversation or take it with you on the go? Check the links in the show notes for YouTube and podcast platforms. Until next time — be blessed. Peace.

Have you ever confronted someone who hurt you — only to be met with denial, defensiveness, or gaslighting? In this powerful solo episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, Matt LeBris breaks down one of the most overlooked truths in modern healing: you don’t need anyone’s apology to validate your pain — and you definitely don’t need it to begin healing. If you’ve ever waited for an “I’m sorry” that never came… this episode is for you. Matt shares: The 3 things you actually do need to heal Why seeking external validation can keep you stuck How to reclaim your power after being hurt The importance of courage, commitment, and patience in your healing journey Why healing is an inside job — and how to take the first step Whether you’ve been hurt by family, a friend, or a partner, this episode will help you shift your focus inward, validate your own experience, and move forward — even if the people who hurt you never acknowledge what they did. If you’ve ever thought, “I just need them to admit it,” this one’s for you. Share this episode with someone who’s been hurt and is still waiting for closure. Let them know they already have everything they need to begin again.  

In this solo episode of the Decoding Success Podcast, we’re diving deep into a truth that’s often left out of the conversation around healing: just because you’ve done the work doesn’t mean you’ll do life perfectly afterward. Whether your healing has come through therapy, meditation, ayahuasca in the jungle, or Mike Tyson’s favorite toad—this episode is your reminder that progress isn’t perfection. Triggers will still show up. You’ll still snap sometimes. Old wounds might sting again. But all of that is part of the process. This isn’t about being flawless. This is about being more aware, more grounded, and more human as you continue walking your path. 🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why healing doesn’t mean you’re “healed” forever The truth about triggers, setbacks, and emotional reactions How self-awareness brings progress — not perfection Why people in your life are mirrors, and what they’re reflecting back A powerful reframe that gives you grace while doing the work How your relationships (especially with parents) silently shape your path You were guided to this episode for a reason. Maybe to receive this message. Maybe to pass it along. Either way — don’t let it stop with you. Click that share button, drop this in a friend’s inbox, your family group chat, or bring it into a convo at the office. You never know who needs the reminder that they’re still worthy, still healing, and still human — even if they aren’t getting it perfect. Until next time, be blessed. Peace ✌️