
Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)
T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
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Latest episodes

Mar 25, 2024 • 34min
Divorcing Because Your Spouse is Gay | S4, Ep. 13
It's one of those situations that sounds shocking and also probably happens more often that you think. How do you get through a situation like this? How do you work through the betrayal or feeling like you never even really knew your spouse - and most importantly, how can you move forward in a way that still allows for a productive relationship and co-parenting situation? We speak to Jessica Frew, who has been through this, and has some valuable tips and wisdom to help anyone else in this position. (Guest: Jessica Frew, Relationship Crisis Coach, The BOLD Logic)
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SPONSORED BY Hello Divorce. Founded by an attorney with over 16 years of experience, who was sick of the broken family law system, Hello Divorce was created to make divorce easy, kind, and affordable and completely online. Their guiding principles are to make sure both spouses feel heard, supported, and set up for success as they move into their next chapter in life. To learn more go to www.hellodivorce.com. And to get a FREE call with Hello Divorce, go to www.HelloDivorce.com/exEXPERTS

Mar 18, 2024 • 33min
Getting Unstuck in the Divorce Process | S4, Ep. 12
It's easy to get caught up in dealing with the divorce settlement, and oftentimes the lawyers can even rile you up and set you off down a path that you hadn't intended. It's complicated and can get messy and emotional. But there is a different way to divorce, if you aren't planning to litigate, and we find out exactly how in this episode! (Guest: Heather MacKenzie, Hello Divorce)
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SPONSORED BY Hello Divorce. Founded by an attorney with over 16 years of experience, who was sick of the broken family law system, Hello Divorce was created to make divorce easy, kind, and affordable and completely online. Their guiding principles are to make sure both spouses feel heard, supported, and set up for success as they move into their next chapter in life. To learn more go to www.hellodivorce.com. And to get a FREE call with Hello Divorce, go to www.HelloDivorce.com/exEXPERTS

Mar 11, 2024 • 34min
What's Fair vs Enough in Divorce? | S4, Ep. 11
Kimberly Nelson, a financial advisor specializing in high-net-worth divorcees, sheds light on the crucial differences between fairness and sufficiency in divorce settlements. She emphasizes the importance of financial literacy and empowers listeners to define what 'enough' means for their future. The discussion also highlights the challenges faced by stay-at-home parents and the need for financial accountability. Kimberly encourages personal strengths and informed decision-making to navigate post-divorce finances effectively.

Mar 4, 2024 • 34min
The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce with Sarah Armstrong | S4, Ep. 10
When getting divorced, the first year is always the hardest. It's the time when you are figuring out what this new life will look like, for you and your kids. And it's a time when you exprience a lot of new firsts, as you learn how to navigate and adjust. In this episode, we speak to Sarah Armstrong, an executive at Google who knows how to get things done, about how she did it and why it prompted her to wrote the book "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce". (Guest: Sarah Armstrong, Author, The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce")
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SPONSORED BY hello divorce. Founded by an attorney with over 16 years of experience, who was sick of the broken family law system, Hello Divorce was created to make divorce easy, kind, and affordable and completely online. Their guiding principles are to make sure both spouses feel heard, supported, and set up for success as they move into their next chapter in life. To learn more go to www.hellodivorce.com.

Feb 26, 2024 • 29min
Warnings About Dating After Divorce | S4, Ep. 9
It's both exciting and scary to start dating again after divorce, but what are some of the warning signs to look out for? Nowadays, there are a lot of people who say they're divorced when it's not finalized yet, or who aren't totally truthful about their living situation and more. How to know if you're getting the real story? This is a must hear episode with dating stories from the one and only Carmindy! (Guest: Carmindy, Founder Carmindy Beauty, Entrepreneur)
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SPONSORED BY Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com

Feb 22, 2024 • 34min
Step-parenting (Bonus Parenting) Done Right! | S4, Ep. 8
Maria Napatov, a stepparenting coach and host of the Synergistic Step Parenting Podcast, shares invaluable insights on navigating the complexities of step-parenting after divorce. She discusses the emotional challenges of introducing new partners to children, emphasizing open communication and trust. Maria offers strategies for fostering harmonious relationships between step-parents and stepchildren, highlighting the importance of respect and emotional understanding. Her tips aim to transform potential nightmare scenarios into successful family blends, proving that love can indeed flourish in new family dynamics.

Feb 12, 2024 • 33min
Divorce and Taxes (Part 2) | S4, Ep. 7
It's not a sexy topic, but tax time is coming and there are some specific things you need to know so you don't get hit with any penalties or fees if you're getting divorced. If your divorce wasn't finalized before the end of the year, do you file jointly or separately? If you have kids, how do you determine who claims them? We go through all the important basics so you're set up for success! (Guest: Donna Stern, CPA and Financial Expert)
FYI - Divorce and Taxes Part 1 is S2, Ep 26 with Michele Spence
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SPONSORED BY Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com

Feb 5, 2024 • 42min
Harmonious Coparenting | S4, Ep. 6
Have you ever heard of harmonious coparenting? Does the expression make you cringe or smile? If you want to know ways you can actually make peace and harmony with your coparent, then this is the episode for you. It is filled with such great, actionable tips and Jessica even used one with her own ex/coparent after we recorded it with great success! The advice here is priceless and could legit change the relationship you currently have with your ex! (Guest: Luke Entrup, Teacher and Coach)
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SPONSORED BY Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com

Jan 29, 2024 • 30min
Recovering From a Narcissist | S4, Ep 5
We have heard from so many people that need help recovering from marriages to narcissists, and this episode is a great primer on how to start your recovery and move on. There are specific coping skills that are important to understand, because these relationships are very different, often involving emotional abuse which can leave you feeling both scared and scarred. In this episode you'll learn the top tips for recovering from a narcissistic relationship - as well as what all of that even means. (Kimberly Weeks, Narcissistic Abuse Coach)
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SPONSORED BY Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com

Jan 22, 2024 • 33min
What Can Go Wrong in Divorce Mediation | S4, Ep. 4
Gabrielle Hartley, a divorce lawyer, mediator, and author of "Better Apart," shares her expertise on navigating the complexities of divorce mediation. She discusses how to prepare effectively and highlights what can go wrong, stressing the importance of mediator selection and open communication. Gabrielle also explores the rise of online mediation, showcasing its benefits during the pandemic. With insights on balancing power dynamics and fostering amicable resolutions, this conversation is crucial for anyone facing divorce.