
Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)
T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
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Latest episodes

Jun 3, 2024 • 33min
Staying Strong After an Abusive Marriage | S4, Ep. 23
Abuse is far too common in marriages and chances are you know someone that has been or is struggling in an abusive relationship. Whether it's physical, emotional, mental, financial or some other form, just leaving the marriage does not always put an end to the abuse. In this episode T.H. talks to an expert on the different types of abuse, how to know if that's what you're dealing with, and how to stay strong after you leave. (Guest: Tina Lynn Huggins, High Conflict Divorce Coach).
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May 27, 2024 • 37min
Dealing with Dating App Burnout | S4, Ep. 22
If you're interested in dating after divorce, it seems like dating apps are kind of your only option. Have you tried Tawkify? Match? JDate? Hinge? The dating app burnout is a real thing, and the truth is, there are other options for you! In this episode, dating app expert Alyssa Dineen gives us some amazing and creative ways to meet a new partner IRL, as well as ways to stay fresh on apps if that's where you want to be. (Guest: Alyssa Dineen, Style My Profile)
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May 22, 2024 • 30min
Unhooking From Your Divorce Story | S4, Ep. 21
If you ever feel like you're living two parallel lives while going through your divorce - you're not alone! It's very hard to separate yourself from everything that's happening in the divorce, but this episode teaches you exactly how to do that, and how to unhook from your divorce story so you can move on! (Guest: Cherie Morris, Dear Divorce Coach)
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May 15, 2024 • 24min
Protecting Your Financial Future After Divorce | S4, Ep. 20
The financial implications of divorce aren't limited to how much the settlement is worth, or how much child support or alimony is being paid. The bigger implications come with how well you understand your own situation and how you prepare yourself - and protect yourself - moving forward. This episode tells you what you should be thinking about in order to make sure you're on the right track with your money. (Guest: Hazel Secco, Founder, Align Financial Solutions)
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May 7, 2024 • 29min
Mother's Day After Divorce with Michelle Dempsey Multack | S4, Ep. 19
Mother's Day can bring up a lot of emotions when you're divorced, but this inspiring episode shows how good it can get. T.H. talks to Michelle Dempsey Multack about how their Mother's Day experiences have improved since they were married, to the first one after they were divorced up until now. It's an uplifting conversation that shows how resilient we all are, while also dealing with co-parenting, the emotional side of divorce and trying to stay focused on the kids when you're struggling yourself. (Guest: Michelle Dempsey Multack, Moms Moving On)
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Apr 30, 2024 • 43min
Cat & Nat on Friendship, #MomTruths and Unfiltered Shit! | S4, Ep. 18
The ultimate girl gang leaders, Cat & Nat, join us for a lively and laughable episode all about real life, parenting, and being raised by single divorced moms. You'll walk away with both valuable nuggets you can apply to your every day, but also new friends who understand life has its ugly parts, but explain how that doesn't have to stop you from enjoying all the great ones! (Guest: Cat & Nat, Hosts of "Cat & Nat Unfiltered")
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Apr 22, 2024 • 29min
Hot Topics Around Divorce | S4, Ep. 17
We've got another round-up of hot topics questions about divorce - this time we cover everything from why you need a QDRO to whether or not you need permission to change your name to common divorce mistakes. Don't forget to send us your questions to hello@exexperts.com if you'd like them answered in an upcoming episode! (Guest: Tracy Moore Grant, Divorce Attorney, Amicable Divorce Network)
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Apr 15, 2024 • 32min
Important Divorce Questions Answered | S4, Ep. 16
From who files first (and why it matters) to how to avoid being bullied by your lawyer, this episode goes through rapid-fire questions on what you'll want to know, for every step of the process. (Guest: Jennifer Lazor, Divorce Attorney, Lazor Rantas)
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Apr 8, 2024 • 45min
Why Do People Cheat? | S4, Ep. 15
It's the oldest question in the book...why did my spouse cheat on me? We think we know the reasons, but there is so much more involved. And since both of us (T.H. and Jess) have been there - both of our husband's had affairs - we want to help you process the feelings you have for your cheating ex and move on with your life. This is a must-hear for anyone who's been cheated on! (Guest: Erica Bennett, Empowerment Coach)
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Apr 4, 2024 • 42min
The No-Man Diet | S4, Ep. 14
How long do you need to take a break in dating after a breakup? A month? 6 months? A year? Is there actually a "right" or "wrong" amount of time? In this episode, we talk to Luke Entrup and Kendra Cunov, both of whom offer courses on either male or female cleansing, aka taking a break from dating. You'll hear both the guy's and girl's perspective on what every person needs after a relationship ends, to understand how they can actually find the relationship they want. Luke and Kendra have some great advice and insight that will help you understand where you are and what you actually need. (Guests: Luke Entrup, Coach and Kendra Cunov, Coach)
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