Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)

Do you sometimes wonder how you even married your ex in the first place? None of us get married thinking we'll get divorced, but if it happens, we all wonder how we got here - especially if you married an extremely difficult person. If you're wondering what's wrong with you or how you allowed this to happen because you wouldn't even be friends with them, then take comfort in knowing you are not alone! So many of us find ourselves asking those very same questions, and our guest in this episode will help you dig deep to find answers that can help you move forward in a positive way. (Guest: Tracy Ross, LCSW & Founder, Redefining Relationships) Sign up for the exEXPERTS ⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram. SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠SIMPLY B ORGANIZED⁠⁠. LAURIE PALAU HOSTS THE PODCAST, THIS ORGANIZED LIFE, WHERE SHE CHATS WITH EXPERTS, CELEBS, AND EVERYDAY PEOPLE (LIKE US!) ABOUT ORGANIZING EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE - WORK, PARENTING, HEALTH, FINANCES AND MORE. HEAR US AS GUESTS ON THIS ORGANIZED LIFE PODCAST ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ AND FOLLOW & SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE OR ANY PODCAST PLATFORM.

There's one thing both a new year and divorce have in common...and it's that both make you start thinking about who you are and who you want to be. Divorce is a huge change, but there are so many meaningful lessons to be learned about how to trust yourself, how to understand what it is you're looking for, and how to fully invest yourself in what you want. In this episode you will learn how to actually reintroduce yourself to you - what would you say? This concept will have a huge impact on your life. (Guest: Cheldin Barlatt Rumer , CEO of This is It Network) Sign up for the exEXPERTS Divorce Rulebook! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram. SPONSORED BY ⁠SIMPLY B ORGANIZED⁠. LAURIE PALAU HOSTS THE PODCAST, THIS ORGANIZED LIFE, WHERE SHE CHATS WITH EXPERTS, CELEBS, AND EVERYDAY PEOPLE (LIKE US!) ABOUT ORGANIZING EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE - WORK, PARENTING, HEALTH, FINANCES AND MORE. HEAR US AS GUESTS ON THIS ORGANIZED LIFE PODCAST ⁠HERE⁠ AND FOLLOW & SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE OR ANY PODCAST PLATFORM.

Finding yourself suddenly single sucks, no matter how old you are. But it can also be a time for reinvention, inspiration and rediscovery. In this episode, we hear about how one woman's divorce propelled her into a new business and into a second phase in life, and how her own story has inspired others to follow their own path. (Guest: Jennifer Polt, Making Up for Glossed Time) Sign up for exEXPERTS in your inbox for weekly updates, events and tips you can't afford to miss! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram. SPONSORED BY SIMPLY B ORGANIZED. LAURIE PALAU HOSTS THE PODCAST, THIS ORGANIZED LIFE, WHERE SHE CHATS WITH EXPERTS, CELEBS, AND EVERYDAY PEOPLE (LIKE US!) ABOUT ORGANIZING EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE - WORK, PARENTING, HEALTH, FINANCES AND MORE. HEAR US AS GUESTS ON THIS ORGANIZED LIFE PODCAST HERE AND FOLLOW & SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE OR ANY PODCAST PLATFORM.

In this special episode, we invite Jessica's ex to come on and face the music...we mean share his feelings and opinions about their marriage and divorce. Hear from both of them on what worked, what didn't, and what they think of each other as exes today. (Guest: Daren Herzberg, Jessica's ex husband) Sign up for exEXPERTS in your inbox for weekly updates, events and tips you can't afford to miss! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram. SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SOBERLINK⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: If you're co-parenting with an ex-partner who abuses alcohol, Soberlink's alcohol monitoring system can provide evidence that they aren't drinking during parenting time. The system's real-time alerts, facial recognition and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. For more information and to get $50 off your device, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠soberlink.com/etc⁠⁠

There's a new trend we're hearing about when it comes to dating after divorce - mate poaching. This isn't cheating, exactly, but it's when someone sets up a situation with the ultimate goal of stealing someone's partner. The crazy part is that the one being poached has no idea...and it has real consequences and ruins relationships. One of our favorite relationship and dating coaches explains all the details, how to know if you're being poached and what you can (and should!) do to stop it. (Guest: ⁠Jennifer Hurvitz, Doing Relationships Right⁠) Sign up for the exEXPERTS Divorce Rulebook! ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram. SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠SOBERLINK⁠⁠⁠⁠: If you're co-parenting with an ex-partner who abuses alcohol, Soberlink's alcohol monitoring system can provide evidence that they aren't drinking during parenting time. The system's real-time alerts, facial recognition and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. For more information and to get $50 off your device, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠soberlink.com/etc

Have you ever been worried that your ex drinks too much or struggles with addiction? This is a very difficult issue to deal with, especially around the holidays, when experts say the problem can increase significantly. How do you keep yourself and your children safe? This episode will help you identify the patterns to watch out for, how to determine if there is truly a problem, and how you can deal with it. The tips and advice you'll hear can help anyone you know that is struggling with a partner who is an addict. (Guest: ⁠Kim Kassnove, Life & Relationship Coach⁠) Sign up for exEXPERTS in your inbox for weekly updates, events and tips you can't afford to miss! ⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram. SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠SOBERLINK⁠⁠⁠: If you're co-parenting with an ex-partner who abuses alcohol, Soberlink's alcohol monitoring system can provide evidence that they aren't drinking during parenting time. The system's real-time alerts, facial recognition and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. For more information and to get $50 off your device, go to ⁠⁠⁠soberlink.com/etc

Your ex may be an asshole, but how can you tell if what you're dealing with is considered emotional abuse? If you're struggling and not sure you can make it work, then you need to hear this episode. We talk to podcast host and author Kate Anthony, who helps us hear the hard things, while also helping you come to terms with where you are, and how to move forward. (Guest, Kate Anthony, host Divorce Survival Guide podcast, author The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision about Your Marriage) Sign up for exEXPERTS in your inbox for weekly updates, events and tips you can't afford to miss! ⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram. SPONSORED BY ⁠SOBERLINK⁠: If you're co-parenting with an ex-partner who abuses alcohol, Soberlink's alcohol monitoring system can provide evidence that they aren't drinking during parenting time. The system's real-time alerts, facial recognition and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. For more information and to get $50 off your device, go to ⁠soberlink.com/etc⁠

If you want to know the secrets on how to get your shit together after divorce, then you've come to the right place. We all wonder how everyone else does it, while we feel like we're barely keeping our heads above water. This episode shines light on how to help yourself so you're the one people are wondering about! (Guest: Jamie Hess, @NYCFitFam, Founder of Radical Wellness system & The Big Ask coaching program) Sign up for exEXPERTS in your inbox for weekly updates, events and tips you can't afford to miss! ⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.

Are you excited about or dreading the holidays? Either way, it's natural to have feelings around the holiday season, and we've learned a LOT over the years after our divorces. We've compiled some of our best tips to help you survive the holidays, including what to do about holiday cards, gifts, budgeting and what if you are solo - you can still enjoy the holidays, just make a plan. (T.H. & Jess)

It's an interesting phenomenon, but it's very common to find yourself back in the arms of an old flame after getting divorced. Whether it's a high school or college love, or even an old camp fling, almost everyone we know has been there. We talk to Dating and Relationship expert Jennifer Hurvitz about why this is the case, and whether or not it can ever work. (Guest: Jennifer Hurvitz, Doing Relationships Right) Sign up for exEXPERTS in your inbox for weekly updates, events and tips you can't afford to miss! ⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram.