Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)
T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg
T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)
Episodes
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Dec 13, 2021 • 26min
Best Divorce Advice - Own Your Outcome | S1, Ep. 52
In your divorce, would you rather be happy or would you rather be "right"? Realistically, your result won't end with both 100%, but there are a lot of ways to help focus on what matters most to you. And no judgments! Whichever you aim for, just be sure you're doing it for the right reasons - and own your own outcome! (Guest: Scott Orr, Family Law Attorney & Divorce Mediator)
Dec 6, 2021 • 38min
Organizing Your Divorce with Divorce Rx | S1, Ep. 51
Organizing your life during and after divorce is not just about the stuff, although that's certainly part of it. There are tons of logistics and household matters to handle, on top of everything out. Michelle Sarao started Divorce Rx to help everyone who needs assistance beyond color-coded bins. Hear her best tips on getting and keeping yourself on track when you need it most. (Guest: Michelle Sarao, Divorce Rx)
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Dec 3, 2021 • 22min
Divorcing Without Children | S1, Ep. 50
Is getting divorced if you don't have kids easier? And does assuming it is belittle the emotional and psychological toll that those divorces have on the respective spouses? There are a number of ways these divorces may be even harder or more challenging, and in this episode you'll hear why from a Real-Life Expert. (Guest: Helen Archontou, CEO YWCA Bergen County)
Dec 2, 2021 • 26min
Co-Parenting Made Easy(ish)... | S1, Ep. 49
Having kids switch back and forth between parents and homes is challenging, no question. And if they're very young, you may feel like you're constantly missing out on many important moments. It was this exact challenge that inspired Fiona Kong to create Home Sweet Homes journal, which is specifically designed for children and co-parents. Hear how this ingenious journal can help make co-parenting much easier! (Guest: Fiona Kong, Home Sweet Homes Journal)
Nov 29, 2021 • 31min
Susan Guthrie on the Do's and Don'ts of Using Social Media During Your Divorce | S1, Ep. 48
Using social media while in the midst of separation and divorce is a bad idea. There are too many nuggets that your ex can (and will!) use against you during the process. In this episode we give you all the do's and don'ts of using Instagram, Facebook, and more, so you can protect yourself. (Guest: Susan Guthrie, The Divorce & Beyond Podcast Host/Attorney/Mediator)
Nov 24, 2021 • 32min
Take the Time For Yourself Right Now | S1, Ep. 46
Taking the time to focus on yourself and practice self-care is especially difficult as you're going through a divorce. There are so many things you have to deal with, that it's easier than ever to let yourself fall to the bottom of the list. We're offering up a list of ways that you can make sure you're doing ok, and you might be surprised to hear some of the reasons why! (Guest: Jasmine Rice, Good Things Are Gonna Come)
Nov 18, 2021 • 22min
The Best Fitness & Health Apps for your Post-Divorce Body | S1, Ep. 45
There are zillions of fitness and health apps available but which are the best for getting back into your best shape post-divorce? We break down the top apps and what they offer so you can choose the right one(s) to live your best life as you start this new chapter. (Guest: Hillary Irwin, Registered Dietician)
Nov 12, 2021 • 30min
The Truth About Health Insurance After Divorce | S1, Ep. 44
Health insurance is a complicated topic, but we break down what you need to know and when to deal with it. If you've been on your spouse's health insurance, you will need to know exactly what your options are after you're divorced. (Guest: Michele Chiellini, Ken Chiellini Benefit Solutions)
Nov 9, 2021 • 20min
The Most Frequently Asked Questions About Retirement Savings After Divorce | S1, Ep. 43
Saving for retirement when you're divorced - or getting divorced - looks different. You may be starting over and you need to know all the options for retirement accounts, plus the right way to get started so you have what you need when you need it. We get all the answers from financial expert Tracy Byrnes.
Nov 4, 2021 • 28min
Why Men Need Divorce Support, Too | S1, Ep.42
The man’s view of divorce and how to handle it isn’t always what we think. Stereotypes lead us to think men don’t want to talk about it, but that’s not the case. Karen McMahon of Journey Beyond Divorce shares the real story from the male perspective.
