Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)
T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg
T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)
Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!
We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!
@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)
Episodes
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Nov 2, 2021 • 49min
What Men Really Think About Divorce and Getting Through It | S1, Ep. 41
John Nachlinger, a family law attorney and divorce coach, teams up with James Bastian, a creative consultant and divorced dad, to reveal men's often overlooked perspectives on divorce. They discuss the loneliness men face post-separation and the stigma surrounding divorce that they must confront. The duo emphasizes the importance of communication, emotional release, and community support. They highlight resources like Divorce Shield, and how personal growth can emerge from the pain of divorce, encouraging self-ownership and resilience in the process.
Oct 27, 2021 • 23min
Helping Kids Transition Through Divorce | S1, Ep. 40
Changing environments can be tough for any kid, but making transitions from one parent to the other during divorce is especially challenging. Co-Parenting Coach, Jen Gallagher, gives some great tips on helping children transition in co-parenting divorce situations. (Guest: Jennifer Gallagher, Single Parent Solutions)
Oct 26, 2021 • 25min
Setting Up the New Home for Divorced Dads (and Moms!) | S1, Ep. 39
Divorced dads often have a harder time setting up and settling into a new home after divorce. Design firm Stripe Street Studio focuses on making this a smooth transition for both divorced parents and kids. (Guest: Stacey Herman, Stripe Street Studio)
Oct 21, 2021 • 40min
To Litigate or Not to Litigate Your Divorce (Part 2). | S1, Ep. 38
Divorce litigation happens when couples are too caught up in their emotions or blame to be able to find a way to settle. But the revenge of litigating will cost you more than just money...and is usually not worth it. (Guest: Ruth Kim, Family Law Attorney)
Oct 21, 2021 • 24min
To Litigate or Not to Litigate Your Divorce (Part 1). | S1, Ep. 37
Going to court is not always necessary in divorce today, but it does happen when couples cannot agree on how to settle. It may be the traditional idea of divorce, but nowadays it is always more expensive and usually not worth it. Hear all the reasons why you don't want to litigate! (Guest: Ruth Kim, Family Law Attorney)
Oct 11, 2021 • 14min
Telltale Signs of an Abusive Marriage and How to Get Out | S1, Ep. 36
Knowing the initial signs of domestic abusive are critical in order to get out and begin the healing process. The pandemic enabled more cases of domestic abuse due to the isolation for so many people, but there are many ways to identify the situation and to get much needed help. (Guest: Mira Vanjari, Center for Hope and Safety)
Oct 11, 2021 • 24min
How to Get Help in an Abusive Marriage | S1, Ep. 35
Making the first move to ask for help in an abusive marriage is never easy, but it's critical. Especially if there are children at home, because the effects can have a major impact on them. There are so many ways to get help, and we go through the steps. Guest: Kate Miller, Center for Hope and Safety)
Oct 11, 2021 • 26min
What an Abusive Marriage Can Look Like | S1, Ep. 34
Abuse can show itself in many ways in a marriage - it's not always physical and doesn't always show obvious scars. You or someone you know may be in an abusive marriage without realizing it. Hear some of the forms and the telltale signs, as well as how to get help. (Guest: Julye Minor, Center for Hope and Safety)
Oct 7, 2021 • 19min
The F Word | S1, Ep. 33
Going through a divorce requires a mindset of forgiveness - for yourself. Hear from bestselling author, Barry Selby (aka The Love Doctor), how the "F word" (Forgiveness) can help you with your emotional progress and how to move forward. (Guest: Barry Selby, Author "50 Ways to Love Your Lover")
Sep 30, 2021 • 31min
The Biggest and Most Common Mistakes in Online Dating Profiles | S1, Ep. 31
Summary: Online dating isn't always easy, but avoiding the most common mistakes can help you stand out in your dating profile. Hear the biggest mistakes and what you should be doing instead. (Alyssa Dineen, Style My Profile)
