Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

As we approach the new year, we're bringing you a special series: the 8 days of dating optimism, where we air the top episodes that restored our hope and confidence in finding our person.We're back to remind you of the magic that happens when two people finally meet each other at the right moment. We’re talking with Valerie, who shares the incredible story of meeting her now-husband, Rob—first online (where they never actually met), and then again through a completely unexpected, real-life chance encounter. It’s one of those stories that pulls you right back into believing that dating isn’t just strategy… sometimes it’s serendipity. And to get there, we need to just keep going. Because eventually the timing will click. Enjoy!Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Avocado Green Mattress: Visit https://avocadogreenmattress.com for big holiday savings* Kensington Books: Dawn of Chaos and Fury by Melissa K. Roehrich is on sale now: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com* Quince: Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns at https://quince.com/dateable* Washington Red Raspberries: Find more details on where to find American frozen red raspberries, plus recipe ideas and cooking tips at https://redrazz.orgSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Join positive psychology coach Jeff Harry, the founder of Rediscover Your Play, as he explores the joys of playfulness in dating. He emphasizes transforming dating from a chore into a fun adventure, sharing creative date ideas that spark deeper connections. Jeff advocates for embracing quirks, engaging in improv techniques like 'yes, and,' and prioritizing enjoyment over results. Discover how playful interactions can enhance relationships and keep curiosity alive, allowing you to navigate dating with a light heart and open mind.

Exploring the power of a 'just say yes' mentality, Cheryl shares how this shift transformed her dating life. She recounts delightful encounters, including meeting her now-husband at a Halloween bar. The discussion covers navigating doubts, embracing spontaneity, and finding clarity in intentions. Cheryl reflects on the lessons learned from dating different people, including the importance of balance between openness and boundaries. Practical tips encourage daters to flip excuses into opportunities and enhance approachability in connecting with others.

As we approach the new year, we're bringing you a special series: the 8 days of dating optimism, where we air the top episodes that restored our hope and confidence in finding our person.On the first episode, we're chatting with Christina Bradley, the author of 'Which way to Happiness?', about how to reframe those milestone years not as deadlines, but as invitations to get clear on what you want, not what you think you should have by now. If you’ve ever felt behind, out of sync, or worried that you “should have” been further along in love or life, this episode is your reminder that your story is still unfolding beautifully—and on your timeline. Enjoy!Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Avocado Green Mattress: Visit https://avocadogreenmattress.com for big holiday savings* Kensington Books: Dawn of Chaos and Fury by Melissa K. Roehrich is on sale now: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com* Quince: Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns at https://quince.com/dateable* Washington Red Raspberries: Find more details on where to find American frozen red raspberries, plus recipe ideas and cooking tips at https://redrazz.orgSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Being detached doesn't mean that you don't care or give up on dating. But it does mean that you know your worth and aren't going to settle for less than treatment because you got attached to someone or the idea of a relationship working out. We're joined with guest Sabrina Bendory for our Season 21 finale to discuss the power of detachment – through her own story and those of her clients – and how this subtle shift can help you reclaim your agency when dating. We discuss navigating ambiguity in dating in a way that frees you from anxiety, how to take control of what's in your control when dating (and detach from the rest), and ways you can practice micro-surrendering without surrendering your need for a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow Sabrina @sabrinabendory and, check out her new book 'Detached: How to Let Go, Heal & Become Irresistible', and learn more about her here: https://sabrinabendory.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Avocado Green Mattress: Visit https://avocadogreenmattress.com for big holiday savings* Kensington Books: Dawn of Chaos and Fury by Melissa K. Roehrich is on sale now: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com* Quince: Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns at https://quince.com/dateable* Washington Red Raspberries: Find more details on where to find American frozen red raspberries, plus recipe ideas and cooking tips at https://redrazz.orgSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The holidays are presented as a prime time for singles, with festive events ripe for meeting new people. From crashing holiday parties to hosting themed gatherings, social opportunities abound. The hosts discuss fun ways to engage, like charity events and creative solo activities. They also share tips for couples on festive date ideas. Plus, there's advice on overcoming motivation hurdles to enjoy the season, like RSVP'ing to events and taking a break from dating apps. Get ready to make the most of December!

Phil Wilkinson, a British mental fitness coach in his 40s, shares his journey from a wild, hedonistic lifestyle to emotional availability. He reveals how unfulfilling relationships during his nomadic years pushed him towards self-discovery and vulnerability. Phil discusses the importance of community, prioritizing meaningful connections over casual encounters, and maintaining independence in relationships. He emphasizes the value of inner work, meditation, and authentic self-expression, ultimately advocating for emotional strength and intentionality in dating.

Ever wondered if your dating habits are a bit odd? The hosts dive into viral ring camera clips revealing unexpected behaviors after dates. They explore the awkwardness of unnecessary Uber rides and the cringeworthy drama of a bizarre breakup call. A heated debate ignites over whether asking, 'Are you a happy person?' is too weird for dating apps. Plus, they share creative ways to liven up those standard opening questions. Tune in for insights that might just change your dating game!

The hosts reflect on ten years of podcasting while sharing their gratitude for modern dating. They unveil an exciting AI-powered dating coach app designed to offer personalized support. Listeners are encouraged to view dating challenges through a gratitude lens, focusing on small wins and self-appreciation. They discuss the transformative power of clarity in communication, the lessons learned from rejection, and the importance of community. Personal anecdotes about love, friendship, and growth add warmth to their Thanksgiving message.

Ever feel like your partner's advice is more like a TED Talk than support? This discussion tackles the fine line between helpfulness and overstepping boundaries in relationships. Listeners learn why validation trumps unsolicited advice and the importance of recognizing when to just be present. The hosts highlight the risks of relying on AI for advice and emphasize the need for professional guidance. The conversation wraps up with tips on setting boundaries, avoiding control dynamics, and ensuring feedback is constructive rather than enabling.