Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships Quickie w/ Yue: Why We Need To Be A Bit Delulu When It Comes To Love
Jan 11, 2026
Modern dating has become overly rational, losing some of its magic. Yue believes it's time to embrace a bit of 'delulu' or delusional thinking. She encourages listeners to fantasize and envision love, arguing that great love stories often start as visions. Delusion, in this context, doesn’t mean ignoring red flags but rather believing in the possibilities of love. By being curious and whimsical, we can revive the excitement in dating. Join Yue in her quest to envision all-consuming love while staying grounded!
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Rationality Caps Romantic Possibility
- Rationality limits us to past experiences and predictions.
- Embracing the unknown invites fun, surprise, and possibilities in dating.
Card To A Friend Sparked Delulu Idea
- Yue wrote a card to a friend exhausted from psychoanalyzing her dating life.
- That moment inspired Yue to invite more delusion and permission to dream.
Allow Desire Before Proof
- Trust the universe to surprise you and allow desire before proof appears.
- Fantasize and create a vision for your love life to move beyond stuck patterns.
