Since You Asked with Lori Gottlieb and Gretchen Rubin

We hear updates from listeners about messy rooms, family gift-giving, post-wedding blues, and one-upping friends. We also respond to questions about whether visiting parents should stay in a hotel, and how to resist a sweet temptation at work. Plus Since You Askers weigh in: How important are your family’s holiday traditions? Have a question or advice to share? Leave a voicemail or write to us at thesinceyouaskedpodcast.com. Follow along with Gretchen (@gretchenrubin) and Lori (@lorigottlieb_author) on Instagram for the latest on the show. Subscribe to Since You Asked on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. Since You Asked is for entertainment purposes only. It’s not a substitute for medical, mental health, or other professional advice. Always consult a qualified professional with questions about your own situation. By sending us your question, you agree we may use it on the show and edit it for length or clarity.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mandy Patinkin, an acclaimed actor known for his roles in 'Homeland' and 'The Princess Bride,' and his partner Kathryn Grody, an actress and writer, share wisdom on navigating family drama. They offer practical advice for handling emotional outbursts at gatherings and emphasize the importance of setting boundaries. Reflecting on their two separations, they discuss how those experiences led to personal growth and acceptance of each other's flaws. Their humorous and heartfelt anecdotes provide insights into building a resilient relationship.

We answer questions about a friend who can’t stop one-upping and the tensions around family gift-giving. We share follow-ups about family secrets and post-wedding blues, and bestselling author Elizabeth Gilbert asks, “How do we stop worrying when people we love make bad choices?” And Since-You-Askers weigh in: Do you enjoy getting texts from friends and family throughout the day—or find it annoying? Have a question or advice to share? Leave a voicemail or write to us at thesinceyouaskedpodcast.com. Follow along with Gretchen (@gretchenrubin) and Lori (@lorigottlieb_author) on Instagram for the latest on the show. Subscribe to Since You Asked on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. Since You Asked is for entertainment purposes only. It’s not a substitute for medical, mental health, or other professional advice. Always consult a qualified professional with questions about your own situation. By sending us your question, you agree we may use it on the show and edit it for length or clarity.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This discussion delves into the intriguing phenomenon of post-wedding sadness, exploring the emotional shifts that accompany major life changes. Listeners share unexpected family secrets and the complexities of breaking up with a hairstylist. The hosts debate whether the holiday season is a joyful time or a source of stress, while also offering practical advice for dealing with a messy teenager's room. It's a candid exploration of relationships, emotions, and the often-overlooked aspects of family dynamics.

The hosts explore the delicate topic of informing a teenager about being conceived through egg donation, emphasizing the importance of honesty. They also tackle the emotional complexities of breaking up with a hairstylist, suggesting a respectful approach. Listeners chime in on family dynamics and share insights about punctuality, adding a community perspective. It's an engaging mix of personal advice and relatable stories that stir both heart and humor.

The hosts tackle the complexities of relationships, discussing whether a partner should accept unchangeable traits in their significant other. They also explore the aftermath of cheating within friend groups and the unexpected tension over dishwasher loading techniques. Mel Robbins joins to seek advice on overcoming guilt about resting, prompting discussions on scheduling downtime and prioritizing self-care. It's a lively mix of personal dilemmas and practical solutions!

We follow up on last week’s advice about who should bear the burden of maintaining connections with parents. We also respond to questions about a group text that’s spiraling into harsh words; a friendship worn thin by years of last-minute cancellations; and a new mother who fears her husband isn’t bonding with their baby. Plus, Since You Askers weigh in: Would you tell a friend that their kids are behaving badly? Have a question or advice to share? Leave a voicemail or write to us at thesinceyouaskedpodcast.com. Follow along with Gretchen (@gretchenrubin) and Lori (@lorigottlieb_author) on Instagram for the latest on the show. Subscribe to Since You Asked on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. Since You Asked is for entertainment purposes only. It’s not a substitute for medical, mental health, or other professional advice. Always consult a qualified professional with questions about your own situation. By sending us your question, you agree we may use it on the show and edit it for length or clarity.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In our very first episode of Since You Asked, we respond to a listener asking, “Should I make an effort to include my husband’s family in our plans, even if he doesn’t bother?” We also tackle a question about a couple who keeps having the same fights over and over. Since You Askers weigh in on the debate about whether to tell a friend if you think the person they're dating isn’t right for them. Plus, we react to stories about unsolicited advice that backfired. Have a question or advice to share? Leave a voicemail or write to us at thesinceyouaskedpodcast.com. Follow along with Gretchen (@gretchenrubin) and Lori (@lorigottlieb_author) on Instagram for the latest on the show. Subscribe to Since You Asked on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. Since You Asked is for entertainment purposes only. It’s not a substitute for medical, mental health, or other professional advice. Always consult a qualified professional with questions about your own situation. By sending us your question, you agree we may use it on the show and edit it for length or clarity.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Who doesn’t need advice—and who doesn’t love giving it? Since you asked, we’re happy to answer. Each week two friends, Gretchen Rubin, bestselling author and happiness expert, and Lori Gottlieb, bestselling author and psychotherapist, team up to take on the everyday problems we all face. Whether it’s the pet peeve that’s annoyed you for years, the question you’re too embarrassed to ask, or the dilemma you can’t solve, they'll address it all with warmth, humor, and insight. Along the way, special segments like “Unsolicited Advice” and “Wisdom of Crowds” keep things fresh, and you’ll get the chance to weigh in too. Whether this show changes your life, or just makes you laugh, Since You Asked is here for you. Got a question or advice to share? Leave a voicemail or write to us at thesinceyouaskedpodcast.com.  Follow along with Gretchen (@gretchenrubin) and Lori (@lorigottlieb_author) on Instagram for the latest on the showSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.