Since You Asked with Lori Gottlieb and Gretchen Rubin Why Am I Sad After My Wedding? Plus: The Holiday Season Debate
Oct 21, 2025
This discussion delves into the intriguing phenomenon of post-wedding sadness, exploring the emotional shifts that accompany major life changes. Listeners share unexpected family secrets and the complexities of breaking up with a hairstylist. The hosts debate whether the holiday season is a joyful time or a source of stress, while also offering practical advice for dealing with a messy teenager's room. It's a candid exploration of relationships, emotions, and the often-overlooked aspects of family dynamics.
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23andMe Revealed A Family Secret
- Adam discovered his mother's egg donor secret at 28 after 23andMe showed a match named Fiona.
- The revelation was painful but ultimately led to contact with Fiona and family reconciliation.
Tell Kids About Donor Conception
- Don't keep donor or conception secrets; children often prefer to know their origins.
- Open disclosure prevents accidental discoveries and reduces shame around the secret.
Handle Service Breakdowns Like A Relationship
- If a valued service relationship becomes unreliable, try a gentle 'notice to cure' conversation first.
- If you still feel disrespected, test a new provider to see if the relationship is worth keeping.