Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2157: Julie Morgenstern shares vital insights on nurturing your marital relationship and planning a memorable family summer vacation in her latest articles. Discover how to reclaim precious moments with your spouse amidst the chaos of parenting and create unforgettable experiences during your family's summer outings. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.juliemorgenstern.com/tips-tools-blog/2018/7/23/how-to-make-the-most-of-alone-time-with-your-partner & https://www.juliemorgenstern.com/tips-tools-blog/2018/6/25/planning-a-summer-vacation-the-whole-family-can-enjoy Quotes to ponder: "Once you have children, it's almost as if you forget how to have a real adult conversation. It's so easy to revert to talking about kid logistics, or kid activities, or kid-anything but that comes at a cost, to the sense of connection you have with your significant other." "Being a parent is not the only thing you are, right? It's also not what brought you and your spouse together to begin with. For the health of your relationship and your own well-being, it's essential to make time for each other, with no kids involved." "Family vacations are a wonderful way for kids and parents to spend quality time together; it's time to create the space for deeper conversations (that may feel too rushed in every day life)." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2156: Dr. Diana Kirschner shares critical insights in "How to Know If He's Marriage Material, or It's Time to Cut Your Losses," offering a clear guide on identifying potential life partners. She reveals traits such as upbringing, spiritual practices, and readiness for commitment, which research suggests indicate marriage potential, enhancing your chances of finding lasting, passionate love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovein90days.com/how-to-know-if-hes-marriage-material-or-its-time-to-cut-your-losses-move-on/ Quotes to ponder: "Marriage Material guys were more likely to have grown up with both biological parents, attend religious services regularly, and feel ready to commit now." "Your potential guy believes that married people have better intimate lives than singles and worries less about the risks of divorce or separation." "In our coaching program, we help women find men who want the kind of lasting passionate love that makes your heart soar." Episode references: Rutgers University: https://www.rutgers.edu/ The National Marriage Project: https://nationalmarriageproject.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2155: Explore self-love and personal growth with Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui as she unveils "10 Truths to Help You Live Like You Love Yourself." Discover how embracing your imperfections and managing life's challenges with acceptance and humor can empower and transform your journey. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/love-yourself/ Quotes to ponder: "Living like we love ourselves, speaking to ourselves with kindness, laying down judgment, nourishing ourselves like we deserve good things, none of this happens without deliberate, conscious choice." "You wear your tattoos and I wear my scars and we are not so different after all." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2154: Explore the profound insights of James Altucher as he delves into the complexities of human nature in "Let's Start Judging Everyone Around Us." This narrative prompts a deep reflection on forgiveness, the mistakes we all make, and the personal judgements that shape our interactions and self-perception. Altucher's thoughtful exploration offers valuable perspectives on the impact of our choices and the power of redemption. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://jamesaltucher.com/blog/judging-others/ Quotes to ponder: "I shouldn't say 'sometimes'. I should say 'often'. I should say I often do bad things. Since I can't speak for others." "People do things and I have to surrender to what they did. Everyone around us deals the cards. But only I get to play the cards I was dealt. Nobody can play them for me." "There's a huge gap between where we are in life right now and all of the dreams and visions we have for ourselves." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2153: Dr. Kelly Flanagan's enlightening piece challenges the traditional either-or mindset by suggesting a both-and approach to balancing the importance of marriage and children in a family setting. Flanagan illustrates through personal insights and societal observations how embracing a unified but distinct perspective within relationships can lead to a deeper understanding and acceptance of complex human connections. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/which-is-more-important-your-marriage-or-your-children/ Quotes to ponder: "Our kids should never be more important than our marriage, and they should never be less important. Family is about the constant on-going work of finding the balance." "We need a place where we can be trained in non-dualism, where we can learn to exchange either-or for both-and. And finally I thought, 'We already have such a place. It's called marriage. It's called family.'" "Can you imagine a world in which an entire generation of children, when asked 'Who mattered the most in your family?' could sincerely answer, 'We all did.'" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2152: Bradley Charbonneau of PassTheSourCream.com shares a compelling narrative on longevity and creativity through the inspiring life of his 103-year-old neighbor, Tony. Highlighting the essential balance of input and output in our lives, Charbonneau presents a fresh perspective on how creativity isn't just an art; it's a lifestyle that fuels longevity and fulfillment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://passthesourcream.com/103-years-creative/ Quotes to ponder: "Life needs circulation. Even a car's engine needs to turn, sometimes to turn fast and clean out the gunk that builds up over time." "This is how creativity works. We need input to have output." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2151: Evan Marc Katz dives into the contentious topic of dating market value and attraction, illuminating the harsh realities and data-driven insights about gender perceptions and preferences in dating. By exploring the application of the Gini coefficient to the dating "economy," Katz reveals a staggering inequality in attraction, offering a thought-provoking perspective on the challenges faced by singles today. His analysis not only sheds light on why many women find a majority of men unattractive but also delves into the societal and psychological underpinnings of dating dynamics, providing invaluable insights for those navigating the complex world of relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/online-dating-tips-advice/why-there-are-no-attractive-men-in-your-area Quotes to ponder: "Men find 20-year-old women most attractive. Women think 80% of men are unattractive." "The Gini coefficient is a number between zero and one that represents the degree of income inequality in any given nation or group." "There are no villains in this story. Nobody can or should be blamed for his or her honest preferences, and if women collectively believe that most men are unattractive, what grounds does anyone, male or female, have to argue with them?" Episode references: Quillete: "Attraction Inequality and the Dating Economy": https://quillette.com/2019/03/12/attraction-inequality-and-the-dating-economy/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2150: Antonia Collins of Balance Through Simplicity.com provides insightful strategies for managing the deluge of creativity from children's endless art projects. Discover practical tips on sorting, preserving, and honoring your child's artwork, ensuring their creations are cherished without overwhelming your space. This piece offers valuable guidance for keeping what's special and letting go with grace. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://balancethroughsimplicity.com/what-to-do-if-youre-buried-under-your-childrens-artwork/ Quotes to ponder: Explain to your children (depending on their age and understanding) that it's just not possible to keep everything they make, however much you love it all." "For the one(s) that you want to keep, make sure you put it in a frame or find a place for it on the shelf straightaway otherwise it will end up in the pile of jobs waiting to do but you never get around to." "Your children's artwork is special and it's easy to want to keep everything. But with a bit of practice you'll find it easier choosing the pieces that are the most important to you and your children will enjoy learning and choosing with you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2149: In "Helping Your Child with Anxiety," Dr. Laura Markham offers compassionate and practical strategies for parents to support their anxious children. Markham emphasizes the importance of understanding, empathy, and gentle guidance in teaching children to manage their fears and anxieties, empowering them to face challenges with confidence and resilience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.peacefulparenthappykids.com/read/helping-your-child-with-anxiety Quotes to ponder: "Anxiety is a signal, not a sentence. It's your body's way of telling you that something needs to be noticed and perhaps changed." "Worry exaggerates and threatens with worst-case scenarios that are unlikely to happen. Teach your child to stand up to worries by using the NED approach: Notice, Externalize, and Dispute the worry." "Empathy creates the safety that is essential for emotional expression. Laughter changes the body chemistry to decrease stress hormones that contribute to anxiety." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2148: Mark Manson delves into the complexities of love and its insufficiency to resolve relationship problems in "Love is Not Enough - Part 2." Through personal anecdotes and poignant truths, Manson argues that love, while intoxicating, cannot replace self-respect, dignity, and personal growth. This piece challenges readers to evaluate their relationships and prioritize their well-being, making a compelling case for the importance of self-love and integrity in the quest for healthy relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markmanson.net/love Quotes to ponder: "While love may make you feel better about your relationship problems, it doesn't actually solve any of your relationship problems." "A loving relationship is supposed to supplement our individual identity, not damage it or replace it." "The only way you can fully enjoy the love in your life is to choose to make something else more important in your life than love." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices