Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

Optimal Living Daily | Greg Audino
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Sep 30, 2024 • 10min

2330: 5 Reasons Men Break Up With Women They Love by Eddie Corbano of Loves A Game on Dating Advice

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2330: In this insightful article, Eddie Corbano explains the five reasons men might leave women they love, emphasizing that relationship breakdowns are not about assigning blame but understanding incompatibilities. Drawing from Christian Carter's advice and personal experiences, Eddie dives into the emotional complexities behind men's decisions to end relationships, touching on communication issues, attraction, codependency, and personal growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lovesagame.com/5-reasons-men-break-up-with-women-they-love/ Quotes to ponder: "Often times a man will leave a woman because he sees that she depends too much on him and has lost her own sources of happiness." "When a man doesn't FEEL that deep level of connection with a woman, at least every so often to remind him of why he's with her, then he'll forget why - and the relationship will become just a whole bunch of 'work' to him." "People are motivated by the things THEY WANT, and not what others feel and want." Episode references: Christian Carter's Newsletter: https://www.catchhimandkeephim.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 29, 2024 • 6min

2329: Why I Needed Two Kids ASAP by Shawna Scafe of Simple On Purpose on Mom Life & Raising Children

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2329: Shawna Scafe shares the roller-coaster of emotions and lessons learned after having two children back-to-back. From realizing the ease of one child to discovering her own resilience, she emphasizes how parenting a second child challenged her beliefs, improved her time management, and ultimately deepened her capacity for love and patience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://simpleonpurpose.ca/why-i-needed-two-kids-asap/ Quotes to ponder: "I needed to realize that having one wasn't as hard as I was making it out to be." "The beautiful thing about being a mom is that every day you are drained of everything: time, patience, energy, love. But every day there is more." "When you find out you are having another baby you will wonder if you have enough. Enough love, enough patience, enough energy, enough time." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 29, 2024 • 8min

2328: Financial Infidelity And The Problems It Can Create by Michelle Schroeder-Gardner of Making Sense of Cents on Marriage & Money

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2328: Michelle Schroeder-Gardner highlights the dangers of financial infidelity in relationships, stressing how secret debts and financial dishonesty can lead to significant trust issues, stress, and even divorce. She offers practical advice on recognizing warning signs and encourages open communication about money to build healthier, more transparent relationships. Quotes to ponder: "There are things you can do though if you don't want financial infidelity in your relationship." "Being open about your money situation can help prevent any surprises." "You and your partner should sit down every so often - so that everyone can work towards the family's financial goals together." Episode references: Forbes article on financial secrets: https://www.forbes.com National Endowment for Financial Education: https://www.nefe.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 28, 2024 • 7min

2327: Is Your Child Highly Sensitive? by Kelly Eden with Highly Sensitive Refuge on Parenthood & Emotional Intelligence

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2327: Kelly Eden reflects on her journey of discovering her and her child's highly sensitive nature, highlighting the challenges and strengths that come with it. Highly sensitive children can experience overstimulation, strong emotional responses, and unique sensitivities, but they also possess empathy, creativity, and deep insight. Understanding and supporting these traits can transform sensitivity into a powerful gift. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://highlysensitiverefuge.com/highly-sensitive-child/ Quotes to ponder: "Highly sensitive kids are curious, full of wonder, kind, and reflective. They surprise you with their ideas and the little amazing things that they notice in the world around them!" "Feelings are the language of highly sensitive people. They view the world through an emotional lens." "Highly sensitive people are empathetic to others and animals, are very tuned in to emotions, think deeply, and see details others miss." Episode references: The Highly Sensitive Child by Dr. Elaine Aron: https://www.amazon.com/Highly-Sensitive-Child-Helping-Overwhelms/dp/0767908724 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 27, 2024 • 9min

2326: How to Instill the Action Habit: Teach Your Kids the Importance of Today by Kalen Bruce of Freedom Sprout

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2326: Kalen Bruce explains how the key to long-term success and growth, for both adults and children, lies in the small actions taken each day. By emphasizing the importance of building habits through daily, intentional choices, he offers guidance on how to fight procrastination and instill a habit of action in kids. Bruce highlights the value of teaching children discipline early, so they can develop positive habits that shape their future. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://freedomsprout.com/action-habit/ Quotes to ponder: "Everything you do matters. Some things more than others, but everything has a consequence." "A habit of action is built over time, slowly, easily, and naturally." "Motivation is fleeting. Habits depend on action, and action is built out of discipline." Episode references: Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 26, 2024 • 8min

2325: What Can I Do For You, Dad? by Bradley Charbonneau of Pass The Sour Cream on Family & Parenthood

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2325: In a transcendent meditation, Bradley Charbonneau recounts a profound conversation with his late father, who shares a beautiful lesson on the boundless nature of love. Through humorous math analogies and heartfelt advice, the message becomes clear: love is infinite, and even when we think we've given all we can, there's always more to give. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://passthesourcream.com/math-homework-from-heaven/ Quotes to ponder: "You can rain down love on your family." "When you've given them all of the love you can give and don't think you can give anything else, then give 10 times more." "Love is infinite. Love is infinity." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 25, 2024 • 8min

2324: Not Willing to Settle in Your Love Life? AND How to Tell if a Guy has True Soulmate Potential by Dr. Diana Kirschner

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2324: Dr. Diana Kirschner explores the self-sabotaging dating pattern where women dismiss potential partners over trivial flaws, believing they are "not willing to settle." Instead, she argues, it's essential to focus on a man's deeper values, like empathy and personal growth, which are the real foundations for lasting love. She challenges women to give men a fair chance and avoid the perfectionism that often leads to missed opportunities for happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://lovein90days.com/not-willing-settle-love-life/ & http://lovein90days.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-has-soulmate-potential/ Quotes to ponder: "Love often comes in a surprise package." "These complaints have nothing to do with the qualities that make for a partner who can provide lasting love and happiness." "You unconsciously project your own feelings of inadequacy onto each guy you meet or date." Episode references: Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Case-Settling-Enough/dp/0525951512 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 24, 2024 • 7min

2323: How to Stop Feeling Crazy Jealous In Your Relationship by Irene Elias of Self Love Junkie on How to Build Self Confidence

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2323: Discover how to stop feeling overwhelmed by jealousy in your relationship with practical tips to shift your mindset and build trust. This insightful guide explores why jealousy happens and how to regain control of your emotions, enhancing both self-awareness and communication with your partner. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://selflovejunkie.com/stop-feeling-crazy-jealous-relationship/ Quotes to ponder: "Jealousy often springs from insecurity and fear, not from actual threats." "Building trust starts from within; it's about strengthening your belief in yourself first, then your partner." "Communication is your strongest ally against jealousy - learn to express your emotions clearly and openly." Episode references: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - and Keep - Love: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585428485 Hold Me Tight: https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Me-Tight-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/031611300X The Four Agreements: https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 23, 2024 • 8min

2322: How Much Lying Is Acceptable Online? by Evan Marc Katz on Dating Apps Advice & Modern Relationships

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2322: Evan Marc Katz explores the prevalence of lying in online dating, shedding light on why people misrepresent themselves on their profiles. He explains that while lying isn't morally defensible, it often stems from insecurity and a belief that honesty will prevent them from securing a chance at love. Katz empathizes with both the liars and the victims, noting that, in most cases, these lies are an effort to get noticed in a highly competitive environment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/online-dating-tips-advice/how-much-lying-is-acceptable-online-2 Quotes to ponder: "People, for the most part, don't lie because they're bad folks who can't tell the difference between right and wrong; they're just insecure that telling the truth will eliminate them from contention before they ever get a chance to meet you." "He knows that you will NOT give him a chance if he tells the truth. And since you won't give him a chance, He's going to give himself a chance." "Is he wasting his time (and yours) by misrepresenting himself? Absolutely. Would he have the chance to meet you if he didn't misrepresent himself? Absolutely not." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 22, 2024 • 9min

2321: Is Allowing Your Child to Study While on Facebook Morally Irresponsible? by Cal Newport on Parenting & Homework

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2321: Allowing children to study while distracted by platforms like Facebook may have more damaging consequences than parents realize. Cal Newport argues that this behavior can impair deep focus and long-term academic success, much like how certain behaviors during pregnancy affect development. By creating environments of distraction, parents could be unwittingly rewiring their children's brains, limiting their capacity for concentration in the future. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://calnewport.com/blog/2010/06/10/is-allowing-your-child-to-study-while-on-facebook-morally-equivalent-to-drinking-while-pregnant/ Quotes to ponder: "The dopamine system is not something to mess with! I know professors who can't go more than a few minutes in a meeting without checking their inbox." "I just told her if she wanted to not be so stressed she shouldn't be on the computer all the time." "This used to be common sense studying. Now, with smartphones, to truly go disconnected while studying is seen as a foolhardy act of extreme courage." Episode references: The Shallows: What the Internet Is Doing to Our Brains: https://www.amazon.com/Shallows-What-Internet-Doing-Brains/dp/0393339750 The Data-Driven Life (NY Times): https://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/02/magazine/02self-measurement-t.html Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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