Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

Optimal Living Daily | Greg Audino

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Nov 13, 2024 • 6min

2380: Holiday Happiness by Kristena Eden of Core Living Essentials on Family Relationships Advice & Stress Relief Tips

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2380: Kristena Eden delves into the stress and tension that often accompanies family gatherings during the holidays, offering practical strategies to restore connection. She suggests group nature walks, meeting in neutral locations, and accepting family differences to transform potentially stressful encounters into opportunities for growth and bonding. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://corelivingessentials.com/holiday-happiness/ Quotes to ponder: "Our constant show-and-tell ego mode causes us to lose our close connection." "Walking together, even for a short while, builds stronger connections." "It really is ok to be different. We can still love them where they are, even if we don't agree with them or their actions." Episode references: BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Nov 12, 2024 • 6min

2379: Confession to a Neutral Party by Keith Wilson on Living Authentically & Communication Skills

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2379: Keith Wilson offers a practical guide to taking responsibility for past wrongs by first confessing to a neutral party. This step serves as a "dress rehearsal" before facing the person you hurt, ensuring your statement is honest and free from justifications. By sharing with someone trustworthy, you gain perspective, dispel shame, and prepare for a more effective reconciliation. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://keithwilsoncounseling.com/2017/04/28/confession-to-a-neutral-party/ Quotes to ponder: "It makes no sense to take responsibility in such a way that nobody hears it." "Have him listen for hidden justifications. Have her look for spin." "You are probably harder on yourself than anyone else will be." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Nov 11, 2024 • 6min

2378: The Six Greatest Gifts You Can Give Your Loved Ones by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits on Holiday Gift-Giving Advice

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2378: Leo Babauta explores six timeless gifts that can profoundly impact your relationships and enrich your loved ones' lives. These gifts such as presence, attention, and forgiveness require no material effort but nurture deep emotional connections. By offering these, you foster a bond of genuine care, creating a lasting impact on those you hold dear. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/the-six-greatest-gifts-you-can-give-your-loved-ones Quotes to ponder: "By simply being present with someone, you are showing them that you value them." "Forgiveness is a gift to yourself as much as to others." "Your love is one of the most powerful gifts you can give someone, yet it costs you nothing." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Nov 10, 2024 • 6min

2377: Empowering Our Children to Speak Up by Allison Carmen on Teaching Your Kids to Stand Up For Their Beliefs

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2377: Allison Carmen shares a powerful story of her daughter learning to stand up for herself in a school setting, despite facing discouragement from her teacher. She emphasizes the importance of teaching children to express their beliefs respectfully, reminding us that empowering our kids to speak up is key to shaping a better world. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/empowering-our-children-to-speak-up/ Quotes to ponder: "You have a right to express your opinion at all times as long as you are respectful about it." "This is how you change the world: by having the courage to speak up whether other people like it or not." "It just takes one moment and one experience to make children feel that they can't stand up for what they believe in." Episode references: Malala Yousafzai biography: https://www.malala.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Nov 10, 2024 • 8min

2376: Can Your Friends Help You Become Financially Independent by Cynthia Meyer of Financial Finesse on Money Accountability

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2376: Building a strong network of financially-minded friends can greatly enhance your journey to financial independence. Cynthia Meyer emphasizes the value of forming a supportive, judgment-free group that offers encouragement, confidence, accountability, and opportunities for growth, as shared experiences and collective wisdom can help you stick to your financial goals and navigate challenges more effectively. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.financialfinesse.com/2016/01/11/can-your-friends-help-you-become-financially-independent/ Quotes to ponder: "Much like starting a new diet or fitness program has a higher chance for success if you do it with a friend, engaging your friends in financial habit changes could greatly increase the likelihood you'll stick to it." "Encouragement, confidence, accountability, and opportunity - these are the four pillars that a group dedicated to financial independence can offer." "Take it from the late Vince Lombardi: confidence is contagious!" Episode references: What Your Financial Advisor Isn't Telling You: https://www.amazon.com/What-Your-Financial-Advisor-Telling-ebook/dp/B00QPI6TQU Better Than Before: https://www.amazon.com/Better-Than-Before-Habits-Procrastinate/dp/0385348630 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Nov 9, 2024 • 10min

2375: Four Big Mistakes Parents Make When They Talk About Death by Shelby Forsythia on Parenthood & Emotional Health

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2375: Shelby Forsythia highlights common missteps parents make when talking to children about death. From using confusing euphemisms to avoiding the topic entirely, these mistakes hinder kids' understanding of death. Forsythia encourages honest, age-appropriate conversations that help children process loss and grief in healthy ways. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/@shelbyforsythia/four-big-mistakes-parents-make-when-they-talk-about-death-533e619a5eb1 Quotes to ponder: "Children take things very literally! They are not able to process euphemisms like adults and as a result take words about death seriously." "All relationships are unique and different, and no matter what kind of support system they have in place, children still need to grieve the person or pet who died." "Kids are far more impacted by the absence of truth than by the truth itself." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Nov 8, 2024 • 10min

2374: Raising Well-Adjusted, Motivated Children: 3 Reasons to Praise the "Process" not the "Person" by Jay & Heather Harrington

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2374: Jay and Heather Harrington highlight the importance of praising children for their effort rather than innate abilities. Drawing from research, they explain how "process praise" fosters a growth mindset, intrinsic motivation, and helps kids prioritize meaning over happiness. This approach encourages long-term resilience, helping children navigate challenges without over-relying on external validation. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.lifeandwhim.com/first-moments-blog/raising-well-adjusted-motivated-children-3-reasons-to-praise-the-process-not-the-pers Quotes to ponder: "When we praise children for their intelligence, we tell them that this is the name of the game: look smart, don't risk making mistakes." "Process praise celebrates kids for effort and the processes they use to learn and grow." "Meaning and happiness are not the same thing. People who lead meaningful lives tend to be happy, but these two qualities do not always correlate." Episode references: Carol Dweck's "Growth Mindset" Theory: https://www.mindsetworks.com/science/ Nurture Shock: https://www.amazon.com/NurtureShock-New-Thinking-About-Children/dp/0446504122 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Nov 7, 2024 • 5min

2373: Why You Don't Need A Toy Room by Rose Lounsbury on Minimalism and Family & Parenting Advice

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2373: Rose Lounsbury shares her journey into minimalism by rethinking the need for a toy room, suggesting that children's play should seamlessly integrate into family life rather than be isolated. She explains how decluttering her home created a more peaceful space and emphasizes the importance of shared family environments over dedicating rooms solely to toys. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://roselounsbury.com/dont-need-toy-room/ Quotes to ponder: "It feels so much bigger in here!" "Children's play should co-exist within the hubbub of family life." "Your children want to be with you more than they want to be with their toys!" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Nov 6, 2024 • 8min

2372: Should I Get Married Based Simply on the Desire to Be Married? by Evan Marc Katz on Marriage Advice & Dating

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2372: Evan Marc Katz advises against getting married just because of the desire for marriage and children, especially if the relationship lacks passion and connection. Using a letter from a reader, Katz emphasizes the importance of genuine compatibility, mutual affection, and a healthy relationship. He warns that marriage and kids often magnify existing issues rather than fix them. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/should-i-get-married-based-simply-on-the-desire-to-be-married Quotes to ponder: "Marriage and kids do not FIX your relationship issues; it MAGNIFIES them." "You need to really LIKE each other. You need to really GET ALONG with each other." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Nov 5, 2024 • 7min

2371: A Flirter's Dilemma: Subtlety vs. Success by Dr. Gary Lewandowski of Luvze on Dating Advice & Communication Skills

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2371: Dr. Gary Lewandowski dives into the delicate balance between subtlety and success in flirting. While subtle flirtation may protect self-esteem, the research suggests that direct approaches are far more effective at communicating interest. By embracing clear signals, individuals can avoid misinterpretation and foster more genuine connections. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.luvze.com/a-flirters-dilemma-subtlety-vs-success/ Quotes to ponder: "Much like a tree falling in a forest, if a flirting attempt occurs and the intended receiver doesn't realize it, did flirting ever really happen?" "Direct methods are best. An ambiguous approach is less threatening, but ultimately not very effective." "People aren't going to do it in obvious ways because they don't want to be embarrassed, flirting looks a lot like being friendly." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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