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Oct 16, 2023 • 46min

How To Change Your Marriage Mindset | Ted Lowe | #55

Today Ted Lowe joins Dr. Dave Schramm and Dr. Liz Hale to discuss how to change yourmarriage mindset in order to change your relationship. Ted believes that you can change yourmarriage by first changing your thoughts. About Ted Law:Ted Lowe Ted Lowe is on staff with Family First, where he serves as a speaker, writer, resourcecreator, and podcast host. He is also the founder of For Us Marriage.com. He is the author ofseveral incredible books, including his most recent release, Us in Mind: How Changing YourThoughts Can Change Your Marriage. Ted lives with his wife, Nancie, and their 4 children inCumming, GA. Insights:“Don’t let anybody celebrate your spouse more than you.” - Ted Lowe"If we think something, then we're going to look for ways to confirm it." -Dr. Dave Schramm“What I think about myself radically determines how my spouse experiences me at any givenmoment.” -Dr. Liz Hale Invites:   -   Learn more about a growth mindset and have a 10 minute discussion with your partner about how it could help you in your marriage.   -   Think of one hobby that your partner gets excited about and then come up with something you could do to get excited with them Ted Lowe’s Links: Forusmarriage.comFacebook: For Us MarriageInstagram: @forusmarriageBook: https://a.co/d/iMqdiZj Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: StrongerMarriage.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/   Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU  Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642   Dr. Liz Hale: httpe://www.drlizhale.com  
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Oct 9, 2023 • 29min

Finding Financial Harmony in Marriage | Ryan Law | #54

Ryan Law joins Dr. Dave Schramm and Dr. Liz Hale to discuss how partners can have ahealthy money relationship. Ryan talks about the importance of regular financial planningmeetings and understanding your partner’s attitudes, beliefs and experiences with money. About Ryan Law:Ryan Law is the Director of the Utah Valley University (UVU) Money Success Center. He is anaward-winning educator who teaches the Financial Counseling courses as part of the PersonalFinancial Planning program at UVU. Ryan is a Certified Financial Planner™ professional (CFP®)and an Accredited Financial Counselor (AFC®). Ryan is the author of the books, “Student LoanPlanning,” “Make Positive Changes” and co-editor of the book “Financial Counseling.” Ryan and his wife, Traci, have been married for 24 years and they live in Utah county with their 5 children. Insights:  - “People will do things for reasons that make sense to them.” - Dave Schramm - "Today is the right day to start having financial conversations." -Ryan Law - "And it doesn't mean that one is right and one is wrong" - Liz Hale Invites:  - Sign up for Ryan Law’s email list. - Schedule a monthly financial planning meeting with your partner to discuss what youspent last month and make some guidelines for the next month! - Make a separate savings account for a specific fun financial goal! Ex. Disneyland trip,backyard upgrade etc. Ryan’s Links: https://money-marriage.com/   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: https://strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.org Instagram: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/    
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Oct 2, 2023 • 37min

How To Make Love Last | Kyle Benson | #53

On today’s episode, the well known author, Kyle Benson joins Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz todiscuss the simple principles that make marriage last. Kyle discusses the profound effectiveness of Emotion Focused Therapy in the stabilization of relationships. In addition, he recognizes the benefits of using the research by John and Julie Gottman to maintain a healthy relationship. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Kyle Benson?3:00 - Combination of Gottman Method and Emotional Based Therapy8:36 – What is the longing for attachment?10:15 –Am I enough? Am I worthy of love and care?12:50 – Attachment Strategies/Styles16:03 – Emotion Focused Therapy20:15 – Conflict is fire22:43 – One sided partner effort26:10 – What is the key to a stronger marriage connection?27:25 – Kyle’s resources28:40 – Takeaways About Kyle Benson: Kyle studies how partners in healthy relationships intentionally –talk to each other, have passionate sex, stay emotionally connected, and more – to uncover the tools and perspectives that make love last. His work has been featured in dozens of major media channels including The Gottman Institute, Business Insider, U.S. News, The Chicago Tribune, Huffington Post, and more. Insights: Liz: The healthy “We” starts with a healthy “Me.”Kyle: Underneath every criticism is a longing for attachment.Dave: It is not necessarily a poor partner but a poor pattern. Invites:    -    Join Kyle Benson’s email list to get free and easily acceptable tips to make marriage last.   -    Take 10 minutes to write down how you are going to change the unwanted patterns in your relationship. Kyles’s Links: https://www.kylebenson.net/ FB @Kyle Benson: https://www.facebook.com/kylebenson.net Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdaveschramm/   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ 
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Sep 25, 2023 • 36min

The Magic of Matchmaking | Aleeza Ben Shalom | #52

On today's episode, the Netflix hit Aleeza Ben Shalom, from “Jewish Matchmaking”joins Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz to discuss the magic of matchmaking. Discover what matchmaking is, if it is for you, and how you can build a better marriage based on lessons Aleeza uses during matchmaking. We hope you enjoy! Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Aleeza Ben Shalom?7:12 – Tools for matchmaking with your soul mate.9:03 – What makes the best match?: Soul mate potential baseline.13:50 – Is there something better out there?16:00 – Stories of making the match.18:14 – Handling challenges with your partner.19:05 – Aleeza’s marital success stories.21:57 – Benefits of hiring a matchmaker.23:45 – "Mystery in your history”24:50 – Where can I learn about matchmaking?27: 15 – What is the key to a stronger marriage connection?29:00 – Aleeza’s resources29: 30 – Takeaways About Aleeza Ben Shalom: Aleeza Ben Shalom is a renowned matchmaker, dating coach, author, sought-after speaker, and soulmate clarity expert who empowers marriage-minded singles to find and identify the one. She guides them from uncertainty and overwhelm to the clarity needed for confident decision-making regarding their potential life partners. Aleeza is the featured Matchmaker on Season 1 of the new Netflix series Jewish Matchmaking. Aleeza authored two insightful books, Get real, Get Married-a guide to get over your hurdles and under the chuppah, and Virtual Dating, your guide to relationships in a socially distanced world. As the founder of Marriage Minded Mentor, a company who focuses on helping singles get married, she connects singles globally with skilled matchmakers and dating coaches. Aleeza’s impressive track record has earned her the title of “Jewish Dating Guru,” as she has successfully led over 200 singles through the steps to engagement, regardless of age, affiliation, or life stage. For over 15 years, Aleeza has worked with men and women worldwide to break unhealthy patterns and foster relationships that lead to marriage. During this time, she has trained more than 350 dating coaches and matchmakers worldwide.She now lives in Israel with her husband, five children and a lovable dog! Insights: Dave: There are many factors that make us a good match with the people around us. Liz: Have hope that there IS a person out there for you! Aleeza: World peace begins at home. Do your best to love yourself and build a family. Invites: Listen to the matchmaker, matchmaker podcast and find a topic that you love, have a discussion with your partner. Write down what your values, beliefs, attractions, bothers and fears are. Reflect on how these could affect your future dating and marriage experiences. Aleeza’s Links: IG @AleezabenshalomFb /aleezabenshalomLinkedin/aleezabenshalomTwitter/aleezabenshalomTiktok/aleezabenshalom The Matchmaker Matchmaker Podcast   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdaveschramm/   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Sep 18, 2023 • 45min

Beating The Odds in Marriage | Dr. Lee Baucom | #51

On today's episode, Dr. Lee Baucom joins us, and we have a great discussion aboutintentionality and actively creating a stronger marriage connection both physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Join Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz in this journey on strengthening marriage connection, relationships, and personal values. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Lee Baucom2:30 – Number one concern for new couples5:12 – Shifts you need to make in the first year of marriage9:08 – Pause button marriage12:52 – Difference in how you communicate vs communication skills14:25 – The arc of disconnection16:14 – Three levels of connection18:58 – Intentionality is important22:14 – What can you do to reconnect?25:51 – Difference between marriage fail point and individual fail point28:30 – Husbands bootcamp31:36 – There is intentionality behind everything35:28 – Key component to a stronger marriage connection38:06 – Resources39:07 – Takeaways About Lee Baucom: Dr. Lee Baucom is internationally known for his methods and approaches to saving marriages. For three decades, Lee has been helping people around the world save, restore, and create the marriage they deserve and desire. He's the author of the book, “How to save your marriage in three simple steps”, in addition to six other books, and he's the creator of the highly effective internet Marriage program. Save the marriage. Lee is also the host of two popular podcast Thrive nation and save the marriage. Insights: Dave: Lack of attention leads to loss of connection. Physical, emotional, and spiritualconnection all have an impact on your partner, what will you do to strengthen those areas? Liz: The key of the “We” and having each other’s backs, we all want someone to get us and know us. You are in this together. Lee: Remember the pause button, did you hit pause and what is it going to take to un-pause it. Get more intentional about connecting from a physical, spiritual, and emotional level. Take action. Invites:    -    Shift from “you and me” to “we”. Remember that you are a team, and it is important to acknowledge those struggles as a team.   -    Mature relationships are not without the feelings of romance and passion but include communications and connection   -    Husband bootcamp is a video bootcamp structured over 30 days to get into shape and address the wounds that men carry around with them that can get in the way ofrelationships Lee Baucom links: https://savethemarriage.com/https://savethemarriage.com/podcasthttps://savethemarriage.com/books   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdaveschramm/   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Sep 11, 2023 • 45min

Money Struggles & Financial Planning | Amanda Christensen | #50

Today’s episode of the Stronger Marriage Connection dives into AmandaChristensen’s personal money mission to help couples learn how to manage their finances and build their connection. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Amanda Christensen?2:28 – Why is money such a hard topic to discuss in marriage?5:03 – Dave’s experience: managing a tight budget as college students.6:02 – Liz’s experience: managing money when you are developing financial independence prior to marriage.7:05 – Money autonomy and money wins.10:00 – Learn your money personality.11:26 – What does the research say about how couples manage finances?One spouse handling main finances, trust, communication, chose what kind of accountmanagement works for you, discovering how to communicate about money withoutargument, little or no debt and living within your means.22:40 – Personal finance is personal!23:50 – Amanda’s money management tip #1: Have a money plan25:18 – Amanda’s money management tip #2: Develop financial trust26:16 – Amanda’s money management tip #3: Talk about large purchases26:58 – Amanda’s money management tip #4: Talk about debt28:14 – Amanda’s money management tip #5: What does it mean to live within your means?30:45 – Amanda’s money management tip #6: Work together during challenge34:35 – Understanding your own and your spouse’s money script37:18 – Resources to find out more about Amanda’s work38:36 – Takeaways About Amanda Christensen:Amanda H. Christensen is an Extension Professor and Accredited Financial Counselorresponsible for statewide personal finance education through USU Extension. She’s editor of the Utah Money Moms blog. She and her team are the recipients of two consecutive Best of State awards for efforts to improve financial wellness across the state. You can view their live webinar schedule or request a free class for your group at finance.usu.edu/efw. On a Sunday afternoon you’ll find Amanda sipping a Diet Coke with lime at the kitchen table over a 1000 piece puzzle listening to an audio book. Insights: Dave: Developing trust and communication around money builds connection and allows you tobe on the same page. Liz: The key to a couple’s financial success is about doing what is best for them. Amanda: Even couples in great marriages disagree about money, and that’s okay! Invites:    •    Take the online “money personality assessment” at www.powerpay.org and use thecode “FWFREETANF” for a free e-course and personality assessment. Discuss yourresults with your partner.   •    A money plan with your partner for the next month. See where you are livingwithin your means and may be living outside of your means.   •    Discover what your money script is by asking yourself the questions Amanda outlines in the podcast. Now, discover what your spouse’s money script is. Amanda Christensen Links: PowerPay Money Master Online Course Link: www.powerpay.orgCode for listeners to register for free: “FWFREETANF”Financial Management Practices of Couples in Great Marriages Researcharticle: https://www.proquest.com/openview/7e860331b30e51876bb6df092364c6b9/1?pq-origsite=gscholar&cbl=37909 Happiness and income research update:  https://penntoday.upenn.edu/news/does-more-money-correlate-greater-happiness-Penn-Princeton-research The gender gap and retirement: https://www.fidelity.com/learning-center/personal-finance/gender-gap-retirement www.utahmoneymoms.com @utahmoney moms www.finance.usu.edu   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdaveschramm/   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Sep 4, 2023 • 36min

Relationship Repair: More Than Fighting Fair | Laura Silverstein | #49

On Today’s episode of the Stronger Marriage Connection, we dive deep into disagreements with our guest, Laura Silverstein, who is a certified Gottman couples therapist. Discover with Dave and Liz all kinds of tips to help couples manage differences in their marriage shared by Laura. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Laura Silverstein 1:47 – Conflict is not a bad thing in marriage 4:00 – The number one communication problem in couple relationships 6:21 – Two parts to establishing new habits 11:11 – Four horsemen – John Gottman 14:55 – What to do when both partners continue to be critical 18:27 – How to repair damages within a partnership 23:50 – Ownership, humility and kindness 27:05 – A little about Laura’s book workbook 29:07 – Key to a stronger marriage connection 31:35 – Takeaway’s About Laura Silverstein: Laura Silverstein is Certified Gottman Couples therapist as well as a recognized thought leader in the field of relationship wellness, sought out for her expert advice from media outlets such as, the New York Times and the today's show. In her book, Love is an action verb, Laura helps couples focus on their strengths instead of their problems and guides them with small step by step action plans. Insights: Dave: It takes humility, compassion, understanding and awareness when rebuilding something that has fallen. Take the time to slow things down and really look at things from a wider perspective Liz: Take ownership, be humble and stay kind when working through a repair in couple relationships Laura: It is important to have humility and stay humble when we enter loving relationships, no matter the challenges at hand Invites:    •    Take ownership, have humility and be kind. Those are key things to effectively repair a relationships    •    When things start to escalate, it is good to ask for a break – take a time out and revisit later    •    Two parts to learn – learning how to avoid conflict in the first place, if possible, and understanding how to get out of it once you are stuck Laura Silverstein Links: https://laurasilverstein.co Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdaveschramm/   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Aug 28, 2023 • 40min

The 7 Primal Questions | Mike Foster | #48

On today’s episode of the Stronger Marriage Connection, learn about the 7 primalquestions that all humans are seeking to answer if their lives, careers and especially their relationships. Discover with Dave, Liz and Mike how to remedy these questions and understand their answers and how that works in your life.   Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Mike Foster?2:02 – What is the primal question model?5:17 – The 7 Primal Questions9:09 – How does understanding these questions apply to marriage?13:38 – Satellite questions15:14 – How does the primal question model apply to parenting?18:12 – Understanding the importance of seeking emotional intelligence20:19 – Safeguarding the scramble22:48 – How does answering the primal question affect communication?27:26 – The 7 Primal Questions assessment30:24 – What is the most common primal question?31:45 – Key to a stronger marriage connection32:37 – Where to find more resources34:16 – Takeaways   About Mike Foster: Known as the Mr. Rogers of personal development, Mike Foster is a best-selling author,speaker, and executive coach empowering people to build strong lives and relationships.His new book “The Seven Primal Questions” is a revolutionary new way to understand our emotional needs. Based on over four years of research and 6,000 hours of one-on-one interviews, the Primal Question model will transform your relationship with yourself and others. Mike’s work has been featured on Good Morning America, FOX News and the New York Times. He lives in San Diego with his wife Jennifer and their fluffy dog.   Insights: Mike: Awareness needs to be moved into action. Dave: Be aware of ACE’s and see how we can provide ourselves and other safety, connection and security. Liz: Behavior adaptation makes a difference in how we act today.   Invites:    •    Ask your spouse how you can answer their primal question with a “yes.”   •    Sit down with yourself or your spouse and discover which of the 7 primalquestions you need to be answered. Share this with your partner and write it downin a journal or safe space where you can review it often.   •    Seek to understand what your child’s primal question is by talking with yourspouse and child about what they need from you as a parent.   •    Take the assessment @ mikefoster.tv   Mike Foster Links: https://www.mikefoster.tv https://www.instagram.com/mikefoster2000/   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdaveschramm/   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Aug 21, 2023 • 36min

How To Escape The Dating Game | Julie Balkman | #47

On today’s episode of the stronger marriage connection, Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz sitdown with life coach Julie Balkman and discuss the dating game when it comes to relationships and how to get out of the game and develop healthy happy relationships without the runaround. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Julie Balkman?2:01 – Getting into coaching5:47 – Thinking that gets us stuck7:28 – Playing the dating game can be confusing8:30 – Being in a “situationship”9:28 – CCQ: Clear, Concise, Quick14:04 – Largest obstacles for dating today17:36 – Good tips on connecting in dating18:33 – Two things to look for in a partner21:22 – Some practical tips and tools23:22 – Decision making success system25:27 – Dating Interview Project28:42 – Key to a stronger marriage connection30:05 – Where to find more resources31:50 – Takeaways About Julie Balkman: Julie Balkman was trained and mentored by 3 life coaching programs which resulted ineight years and thousands of hours in coaching experience. She is an expert panelistfor the LDS dating app “Mutual” and is currently writing a book about LDS dating. Shewas a former co-host of a three-year international young adult support group and is theowner/operator of the 100 interviews project, a project involving 120 young adultsinterviewed about dating. She is an artist and illustrator and loves to dance! Insights: Julie: Be responsible: being responsible is sexy, romantic, confident, peaceful, and loving. When you are responsible you create a better life for yourself and your significant other. Dave: It is critical to have a willingness to learn. It is ok to accept different things and want tolearn and change, especially within a relationship. Liz: I love the idea of CCQ, clear concise and quick Invites:    •    Invite me to share my Dating Map Presentation as a guest speaker. I love speaking and teaching to any size audience.   •    I have 1:1 coaching packages, plus a VIP acceleration package, which I would love to tell about. VIP: 6 weeks, 6 days a week, 20 minutes each day.   •    Start with love, learn how to be a receiver of love so you can be ready for a realrelationship. Julie Balkman Links: https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=julie+balkman&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8 https://www.instagram.com/lifecoach.julie/?hl=en https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-balkman-0898031a5/   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdaveschramm/   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Aug 14, 2023 • 32min

Marriage & Money Matters | Dr. Ashley LeBaron-Black | #46

In this episode of the Stronger Marriage Connection podcast, Dr. Ashley LeBaron-Black tackles the hard conversation “How do I manage money in marriage.” Join us to learn how conversations about money can connect you and your partner rather than pull you apart. Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction: Who is Ashley Lebaron-Black?1:48 – Is the issue really about money?5:12 – Managing money habits: Family background7:34 – Working together to manage money8:45 – Family financial socialization10:25 – Overcoming discomfort in talking about money12:00 – Money management matters: Debt, materialism, financial deception, etc.15: 35 – Joint bank accounts18:08 – Financial therapy for marriage19:30 – What makes a stronger marriage connection to Ashley20:10 – Ashley’s tools and tips24:50 – How do I bring up money while dating?36:40 – Takeaways About Dr. Ashley LeBaron-Black: Dr. Ashley LeBaron-Black is an Assistant Professor of Family Life at Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah. She received her PhD in Family Studies and Human Development from the University of Arizona. Her research focus is family finance, including finances in couple relationships and financial socialization. Ashley has published over 50 peer-reviewed articles and is an Associate Editor for the Journal of Family and Economic Issues. She is Chair of the Family Financial Wellbeing focus group for the National Council on Family Relations (NCFR). Insights: Ashley: Don’t let your money control you and your marriage; you can control it Dave: There is no right way to manage money in your marriage, but it is so important tounderstand where your ideas of money management are coming from. Take some time to understand and communicate that with your partner. Liz: Talk about money with your partner, be honest. Invites:    •    Sit down with your partner this week and develop a monthly budget together.   •    Talk to your spouse about how you want to manage your money together goingforward. Should we do a monthly meeting, get a joint bank account, etc.?   •    Read a blog post from Ashley’s website to understand a part of money management you and your partner may not understand. Ashley Lebaron-Black's Links: https://lebaron-black.byu.edu/   Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org podcast.strongermarriage.org Facebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelife Dr. Dave Schramm: https://drdaveschramm.com https://drdavespeaks.com Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/DrDaveUSU Facebook Marriage Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579 Facebook Parenting Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/542067440314642 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdaveschramm/   Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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