
Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen
Writer Elise Loehnen explores life’s big questions with today’s leading thinkers, experts, and luminaries: Why do we do what we do? How can we understand and love ourselves better? What would it look like to come together and build a more meaningful world?
Latest episodes

Jun 26, 2025 • 1h 2min
Is Genius a Myth? (Helen Lewis)
Helen Lewis, a Staff writer at The Atlantic and author of The Genius Myth, delves into the societal implications of labeling individuals as geniuses. She critiques the romanticized notion of genius and exposes its potential to excuse harmful behaviors. The conversation highlights the hidden contributions of supportive partnerships, especially in the arts, and challenges the myth of the lone genius. Lewis also addresses how public perception of genius intersects with accountability, emphasizing the importance of context and community in recognizing talent.

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Jun 19, 2025 • 1h 3min
A Formula for Coming Alive (Shannon Watts)
Shannon Watts, founder of Moms Demand Action and author of 'Fired Up', shares her inspiring journey of empowerment through activism. She discusses the dualities women face in advocacy, the importance of community support, and transforming emotions into meaningful action. Watts emphasizes self-awareness and understanding what limits us versus what calls us, encouraging listeners to channel their passions into genuine societal change. Her insights highlight resilience, the joy of activism, and the power of collective efforts in addressing social issues.

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Jun 12, 2025 • 56min
Finding Faith in our Future (Krista Tippett)
Krista Tippett, a Peabody Award-winning broadcaster and founder of On Being, dives deep into themes of meaning, creativity, and connection. She discusses the need for reinvention in institutions post-pandemic and emphasizes the significance of local experiences for hope. Tippett also explores modern spirituality, the role of community in finding purpose, and the lost art of genuine connections in a digital world. Through insightful anecdotes and reflections, she inspires listeners to seek beauty and depth in their everyday lives.

Jun 5, 2025 • 59min
Should Romantic Love Be at the Center of Our Lives? (Melissa Febos)
In this engaging conversation, Melissa Febos, an award-winning author known for her works on love and identity, opens up about her year of celibacy following a tough breakup. She explores the idea of redefining romantic love, shifting from dependency to autonomy, and the importance of personal fulfillment in relationships. The discussion highlights women’s societal pressures, the value of boundaries, and self-acceptance, urging listeners to find deeper connections beyond cultural constraints. Febos' insights challenge conventional norms of love and relationships.

May 29, 2025 • 44min
Moving Away from Hierarchy (Danielle Gibbons)
Danielle Gibbons, a channel conveying messages from Mother Mary, shares her transformative journey and divine insights. She discusses how to create sustainable meaning in a rapidly changing world. Community plays a crucial role in self-discovery and personal growth, especially for women. Danielle emphasizes emotional stability amid chaos and the shift from hierarchical to collaborative structures. The conversation also touches on the importance of niche voices and authentic self-expression in the age of social media. A thought-provoking exploration of love, connection, and evolution!

May 27, 2025 • 54min
How Do We Get Efficient with Our Energy? (Monthly Solo)
The discussion dives into the intricate dynamics of motherhood, wrestling with personal dreams amidst societal expectations. It also emphasizes the need for blending masculine and feminine energies while critiquing traditional gender roles. Listeners are encouraged to choose love over fear to enhance relationships and creativity. The podcast delves into how Enneagram types influence decision-making and boundaries. Ultimately, it calls for authentic participation in activism and personal growth, navigating the complexities of gender discussions.

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May 22, 2025 • 39min
Is It Time to Stop Optimizing? (Coco Krumme)
Coco Krumme, an applied mathematician and author of Optimal Illusions, challenges our obsession with optimization, arguing it often leads to overlooking broader societal needs. She discusses the drawbacks of prioritizing efficiency over human experience and critiques the simplistic adoption of Silicon Valley models in government. Krumme emphasizes the fragility that stems from over-optimization, especially in agriculture and consumer choices, calling for a cultural reevaluation of food values and a more resilient perspective on technology.

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May 19, 2025 • 43min
An Episode from Other People’s Problems: On Psychedelics
The podcast dives into the transformative power of psychedelics in therapy, focusing on Donovan's journey through ketamine sessions. Listeners experience raw, unscripted moments of healing as Donovan confronts childhood trauma and learns to connect with his younger self. The conversation explores how psychedelics can help rewire emotional responses and foster inner peace. It emphasizes the importance of empathy and nurturing relationships in recovering from past abuse, providing deep insights into personal growth and the healing process.

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May 15, 2025 • 1h 2min
What the Next Big Astrological Shifts Mean for Us (Jennifer Freed, PhD)
Jennifer Freed, PhD, is a psychological astrologer and co-founder of the nonprofit AHA who blends astrology with psychology for therapeutic insights. She explores significant astrological shifts, including the transformative impact of Jupiter moving into Cancer, urging authenticity and vulnerability. Freed discusses how upcoming changes promote feminine values and collective awakening while encouraging connection amidst chaos. With a focus on nurturing relationships and societal transformation, she advocates for genuine interactions and the importance of emotional depth.

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May 8, 2025 • 1h 5min
Trusting in the Synchronicity of the Universe (Satya Doyle Byock)
Satya Doyle Byock, a psychotherapist and author of Quarter-Life, reveals how she uses the I Ching as a guiding tool for meaning and stability. She discusses the importance of balancing rationality with spirituality and the relevance of Carl Jung's theories, especially about synchronicity. The conversation dives into personal experiences and the mystical elements of life that defy explanation. Satya also emphasizes the need for a holistic approach that harmonizes masculine and feminine energies, encouraging deeper connections with the self and the divine.