Pulling The Thread with Elise Loehnen

In a solo reflection, the host explores the beauty of solitude and how it can diminish the fear of loneliness. She shares insights from a manifestation program that revealed deep-seated beliefs about money, alongside immediate shifts in her financial landscape. The discussion delves into the intricacies of power and attention, highlighting the importance of accountability and integrity in both personal and public life. With anecdotes about travel and daily routines, she emphasizes the value of self-awareness and the responsibility that comes with influence.

Jessica Gill, Chief Content Officer at To Be Magnetic and cohost of the Expanded podcast, dives into the powerful yet simple process of manifestation. She discusses the importance of rewiring self-worth instead of relying solely on positive thinking. Gill highlights how envy can serve as a guide to identify desires and expand possibilities. She emphasizes the necessity of embracing challenges, recognizing self-sabotage, and valuing the journey of incremental growth. The conversation reveals invaluable insights on authenticity and the transformative power of manifesting.

This engaging discussion features Dr. Carol Tavris, a social psychologist and the co-author of 'Mistakes Were Made (But Not By Me)', diving deep into cognitive dissonance and self-justification. She reveals how good people justify harmful actions to protect their self-image and explains the evolution of dissonance as a tool for social cohesion. Tavris also discusses how social media amplifies polarization and the dangers of venting anger, challenging common beliefs about catharsis. Ultimately, she emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and empathy in understanding ourselves and others.

Dan Savage, a longtime sex-advice columnist and LGBT activist, dives deep into the complexities of monogamy, desire, and relationships. He argues that monogamy is about choosing not to act on desires, presenting data on relationship stability among different sexual orientations. Savage introduces the concept of toliamory, discussing the real challenges of tolerating a partner’s behavior. He emphasizes the importance of forgiveness and repair in relationships and critiques societal attitudes towards sexuality, inviting thoughtful dialogue on identity and parenting.

Elinor Dickinson, a seasoned Jungian therapist and coauthor of *Dancing in the Flames*, dives into the depth of feminine and masculine dynamics. She discusses the necessity of releasing internalized patriarchy and explores a new cultural mythos, emphasizing the hope found in egalitarian roots. Dickinson connects historical shifts, like the Great Plague, to modern societal structures and shares a poignant story of synchronicity from her life. Ultimately, she advocates for an interdependent future grounded in feminine wisdom and shared narratives.

Explore the power of triangulation as a tool for self-discovery and understanding your role in the collective. Uncover how personal work and collective support intertwine in shaping culture. Delve into the origins of patriarchy and classism, and reflect on their impact on society. Learn how individual shifts can spark cultural change, and consider unique methods like astrology and journaling for deeper insights. Find your zone of genius and discover meaningful purpose through connections and personal narratives.

In this engaging discussion, Jen Hatmaker, a New York Times bestselling author and podcast host, reflects on her life transformation after the collapse of her 26-year marriage and her relationship with the church. She candidly shares her journey from evangelical leader to embracing LGBTQ affirmation, confronting institutional trauma, and finding personal empowerment. Jen emphasizes the healing power of therapy and discusses the importance of shared responsibility in relationships. Her memoir, Awake, resonates through relatable themes of personal struggle and growth.

Katie Hendricks, PhD, co-director of the Hendricks Institute, dives into using body-based intelligence to cultivate presence and personal agency. She shares practical fear-melters designed to help us navigate emotional responses like fight or freeze. Katie introduces the 'loop of awareness' to enhance connection and energy, and discusses sorting daily challenges into manageable categories. She highlights how to incrementally spend time in your zone of genius and explores persona work to integrate our shadow parts. Tune in for transformative insights!

In this engaging discussion, Elizabeth Gilbert, the bestselling author behind classics like Eat, Pray, Love, dives into her new memoir, All the Way to the River. She shares her transformative journey through love, loss, and the search for self. Topics include the complexities of grief and recovery, the challenges of navigating relationships affected by addiction, and the power of vulnerability in storytelling. Gilbert's heartfelt reflections offer listeners profound insights into personal growth, emotional honesty, and the healing journey.

Satya Doyle Byock, a psychotherapist and Jungian psychology educator, discusses the often misunderstood role of the ego in personal growth. She emphasizes why we shouldn’t demonize the ego but rather, nurture it for better relationships and self-identity. The conversation navigates the tension between external approval and authentic self-discovery, and the impact of societal expectations on personal journeys. Byock weaves in profound insights about facing life’s challenges while maintaining a resilient sense of self.