Sam Jolman

Therapist Sam Jolman joins the podcast to discuss reconnecting masculinity with innocence, joy, and awe. They explore emotional intimacy in male sexuality, reclaiming sexual innocence as a gift from God, and embracing awe in relationships. The conversation also covers Jesus's compassion, healing shame, and restoring innocence through therapy and faith.

Therapist Sam Jolman discusses healthy masculine sexuality, societal influences, therapy for healing harmful beliefs, biblical perspectives, emotional connection, purity, arousal, embodiment, navigating societal expectations, and having vulnerable conversations on sex and gender.

Sam Jolman, a counselor and author of The Sex Talk You Never Got, dives into the fascinating world of sensuality and its pivotal role in intimacy. He discusses how men can benefit from slowing down and savoring moments, challenging the notion of sex as a task. Jolman emphasizes the importance of playfulness in sexual relationships, urging couples to approach their time together with curiosity and joy. By prioritizing pleasure and engaging the senses, he believes that couples can foster deeper connections and create a more fulfilling sex life.

Guest Sam Jolman, a trauma therapist, discusses the importance of arousal in masculinity, distinguishing sensuality from sexuality. He explores the impact of purity culture, the script of arousal, and the connection between arousal and shame. Embracing sensuality and playfulness, the podcast challenges societal norms and encourages men to reclaim their sexuality for awe and joy.

Sam Jolman, a trauma therapist with over two decades in sexual trauma recovery, shares insights from his extensive experience. He discusses the significance of nurturing dialogues about sexuality, contrasting emotional intimacy with mere physical lust. Jolman emphasizes understanding sexuality through desire rather than mere drive. He explores human dignity in relationships, advocating for holistic conversations that address both emotional and physical aspects. His personal anecdotes and compassionate approach provide valuable resources for parents and individuals navigating these critical discussions.