Sam Jolman

Therapist Sam Jolman joins the podcast to discuss reconnecting masculinity with innocence, joy, and awe. They explore emotional intimacy in male sexuality, reclaiming sexual innocence as a gift from God, and embracing awe in relationships. The conversation also covers Jesus's compassion, healing shame, and restoring innocence through therapy and faith.

Therapist Sam Jolman discusses healthy masculine sexuality, societal influences, therapy for healing harmful beliefs, biblical perspectives, emotional connection, purity, arousal, embodiment, navigating societal expectations, and having vulnerable conversations on sex and gender.

Sam Jolman, a counselor and author of The Sex Talk You Never Got, dives into the fascinating world of sensuality and its pivotal role in intimacy. He discusses how men can benefit from slowing down and savoring moments, challenging the notion of sex as a task. Jolman emphasizes the importance of playfulness in sexual relationships, urging couples to approach their time together with curiosity and joy. By prioritizing pleasure and engaging the senses, he believes that couples can foster deeper connections and create a more fulfilling sex life.

Guest Sam Jolman, a trauma therapist, discusses the importance of arousal in masculinity, distinguishing sensuality from sexuality. He explores the impact of purity culture, the script of arousal, and the connection between arousal and shame. Embracing sensuality and playfulness, the podcast challenges societal norms and encourages men to reclaim their sexuality for awe and joy.

Expert in men's emotions Sam Jolman and Jerrad Lopes discuss shame, coping mechanisms like pornography, healthy outlets for stress, importance of vulnerability, and the impact of shame on behavior. They address healthy sexuality as a disciple of Jesus, having open conversations about sex and relationships with boys, and therapy leading to repentance and reliance on Jesus for healing.