Husband Material It's Good To Be Aroused (with Sam Jolman)
Jun 10, 2024
Guest Sam Jolman, a trauma therapist, discusses the importance of arousal in masculinity, distinguishing sensuality from sexuality. He explores the impact of purity culture, the script of arousal, and the connection between arousal and shame. Embracing sensuality and playfulness, the podcast challenges societal norms and encourages men to reclaim their sexuality for awe and joy.
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Arousal Is Good
- It's good to be aroused; arousal is a good part of you, not something to fear.
- Arousal is God's artwork designed to move you.
Sexuality Is Scripted
- Sexuality is scripted, shaped by experiences, and connected to desires.
- Unlike bodily drives, it's a want, not a need, influenced by your heart and life story.
Awe of an Athlete
- Drew Boa's friend felt drawn to basketball player Caitlin Clark's performance.
- Jolman explained this as arousal leading to awe of her athletic skill, not lust.