Kirk Honda

Dr. Kirk Honda, a renowned expert in personality disorders and creator of the 'Psychology in Seattle' platform, delves into the intricacies of avoidant personality disorder. He explores the roots of avoidance in childhood trauma and the emotional battles that accompany it. The conversation highlights the distinctions between social anxiety and feelings of defectiveness, emphasizing the healing power of trust. Kirk also discusses the role of neuroplasticity and risk-taking in fostering change, along with the importance of supportive relationships for those struggling with these issues.

Dr. Kirk Honda is a therapist and professor known for his psychological insights, while Dr. Michaela Thordarson specializes in child psychology, working with families and adolescents. They discuss whether AI, such as ChatGPT, can truly replicate human therapy. Topics include the struggles of parents reconnecting with adult children and the limitations of AI in addressing deep emotional needs. The duo critiques AI-generated empathy, explores therapy's realistic expectations, and emphasizes the importance of emotional connections and validation in the healing process.

Dr. Kirk Honda discusses treating NPD, misconceptions about narcissism, and how NPD develops. They explore the effectiveness of couples therapy with NPD, the impact of trauma on adulthood, and inner child work. The episode touches on vetting trauma therapists, identifying healing progress, and the importance of individual therapy in couples counseling.

Dr. Kirk Honda, a psychologist, discusses narcissistic personality traits, intergenerational transmission, self-esteem, and emotional neglect. The podcast explores family dynamics, understanding behaviors, and the importance of compassion in therapy outcomes.

Dr. Kirk Honda, a psychologist and critic of the misuse of the term gaslighting, delves into its true meaning and implications. He explains the historical context of gaslighting and differentiates between intentional and unintentional forms. The conversation explores its psychological impact, especially in abusive relationships, and critiques how societal language around manipulation has evolved. Dr. Honda emphasizes the importance of precise terminology to protect the integrity of psychological concepts and shares personal reflections on aging and nostalgia.

Dr. Kirk Honda discusses the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell and the family tragedy involving Josh Powell. The podcast explores the investigation into Josh, family dynamics, disturbing claims in Susan's journal entries, and the dark secrets uncovered in a police raid. It delves into voyeurism, media frenzy, and the impact of true crime stories from that era.

Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto discuss the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell, Josh's suicide, the children's murder, and Josh's father's depravity. They delve into Josh's behavior, past trauma, insecure attachment style, love bombing, relationship dynamics, and early intervention for troubling behaviors.

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto dive into the tragic disappearance of Susan Powell and the events surrounding Josh Powell, discussing the early lives of Josh and Susan, boundaries with children, and the complexities of family dynamics. Trigger warnings are provided, and the sponsors for the episode are mentioned.

Dr. Kirk Honda analyzes Cersei Lannister from Game of Thrones, exploring her dark legacy, psychopathic traits, intricate relationships, political maneuvering, emotional turmoil, and strategic failures. The podcast delves into Cersei's complex motivations, societal constraints, potential power as a female character, and the impactful portrayal by Lena Headey. It speculates on Cersei's future in the series, highlighting her need for control and love amidst trauma and abandonment.

Dr Kirk Honda reacts to Andrew Tate going to therapy. They discuss the impact of traumatic memories, accepting pain and rising above suffering, dynamics of relationships with narcissistic individuals, self-delusion and vulnerability, addressing controversial beliefs and misunderstandings, and the debate on vulnerability.