Psychology In Seattle Podcast
That's Not Gaslighting
Aug 9, 2024
Dr. Kirk Honda, a psychologist and critic of the misuse of the term gaslighting, delves into its true meaning and implications. He explains the historical context of gaslighting and differentiates between intentional and unintentional forms. The conversation explores its psychological impact, especially in abusive relationships, and critiques how societal language around manipulation has evolved. Dr. Honda emphasizes the importance of precise terminology to protect the integrity of psychological concepts and shares personal reflections on aging and nostalgia.
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Quick takeaways
- Misusing the term gaslighting often arises from misunderstanding disagreement as a form of psychological manipulation rather than a difference of opinion.
- Self-gaslighting is frequently mistaken for psychological manipulation, yet it reflects self-deception and conditioning rather than intentional deceit.
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Misuse of the Term 'Gaslighting'
Many individuals incorrectly apply the term 'gaslighting' to situations where someone encounters disagreement or hostility toward their viewpoint. For instance, a Redditor claims that people on the platform are gaslighting others simply for expressing differing opinions. In reality, this reaction represents a defensive response to conflicting ideas, rather than a psychological manipulation intended to undermine someone's perception of reality. More suitable language to describe this behavior would reference the act of attacking or dismissing others' viewpoints, rather than misusing the term gaslighting.
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