Jack Stoltzfus

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus helps parents decide whether or not they should fund their young adult childrenEpisode 1766: To Fund or Not to Fund Your Young Adult by Dr. Jack Stoltzfus on Financially Supporting Your ChildDr. Stoltzfus’ mission is to provide information, education, guidance and resources to parents of young adults who are struggling to launch or let go while maintaining a positive, caring relationship with their young adult. More today than ever before parents of young adults are trying to determine the best approach to aiding their young adults in their challenges of identity, independence, and intimacy without either contributing to their dependency or their alienation. For more than thirty-five years, Dr. Stoltzfus has worked with parents and their young adult children within the context of a chemical dependency treatment program, an inpatient mental health facility, a Child Guidance Clinic, a youth service agency, and a private practice. Originally Dr. Stoltzfus was trained as a marriage and family therapist working with parents and their adolescent children. Now his practice is focused on parents of emerging adults — millennials and the next generation of soon-to-be young adults. The original post is located here: https://parentslettinggo.com/to-fund-or-not-to-fund-your-young-adult/Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.comInterested in advertising on the show? Visit https://www.advertisecast.com/OptimalRelationshipsDailyMarriageParenting Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus, offers invaluable insights on nurturing parent-young adult relationships. He introduces the concept of listening with a 'Third Ear' to understand unsaid emotions. Additionally, he provides practical advice for building bridges towards adult friendships with young adults through respectful interactions and mutual respect.

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus, expert on parent-young adult relationships, explores the transformative power of apologies. He stresses the importance of acknowledging past actions, even when memories are unclear. Apologizing fosters emotional healing and stronger familial bonds.

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus discusses accepting imperfections in parenting and transitioning into young adulthood. Topics include the concept of 'good enough parenting', relinquishing control over young adults, the pressure to be perfect parents, and the importance of self-acceptance.

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus shares 3 essential truths for parents guiding their children into adulthood - mutual love, shared success desires, and smooth transitions. Emphasizes fostering stronger relationships and supporting young adults in becoming independent.

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus discusses the challenges of parental love and independence in adulthood. He emphasizes emotional emancipation, setting healthy boundaries, and allowing young adults to explore and grow. Parents need to support independence while managing emotions and expectations.

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus discusses the crucial role parents play in shaping young adult identities by providing support, listening, and feedback. Emphasizes the importance of reinforcing unique personal qualities and values. Touches on societal trends like prolonged living at home and hikikomori in Japan.

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus, a psychologist specializing in family dynamics, shares 5 tips for parents to strengthen bonds with young adult children. Tips include fostering open communication, being honest about worries, and listening nonjudgmentally. Emphasis on supporting independence while maintaining closeness in the parent-child relationship.

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus discusses the role of unconditional love in parenting, emphasizing affirming children for who they are not what they do. He highlights the importance of building secure relationships and autonomy through love, with examples of conditional affection dangers.

Dr. Jack Stoltzfus, parenting expert, challenges parents to reassess their approach with young adults. By debunking myths of control and responsibility, he guides parents in setting boundaries and expectations to foster independence. Focus on actions within a parent's control and nurturing a supportive yet empowering environment for young adults.