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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting

2062: Parents - We Need to Listen with the “Third Ear” AND 3 Tips for Building Bridges to Adult Friendships with Your Young Adult by Dr. Jack Stoltzfus

Feb 9, 2024
11:28
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Dr. Jack Stoltzfus, offers invaluable insights on nurturing parent-young adult relationships. He introduces the concept of listening with a 'Third Ear' to understand unsaid emotions. Additionally, he provides practical advice for building bridges towards adult friendships with young adults through respectful interactions and mutual respect.
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Quick takeaways

  • Listen with a 'Third Ear' to understand young adults' unsaid thoughts and emotions.
  • Build adult friendships with young adults through early, respectful interactions and acting as a consultant rather than an authority.

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Listening with the Third Ear

Listening with the third ear means paying attention to the deeper layers of meaning in conversations with our young adult children. This involves asking for clarification, sharing observations about non-verbal cues, and being sensitive to when something is left unsaid. Additionally, it is important to focus on specific young adult themes, such as identity, independence, and intimacy, as failure to make progress in these areas can lead to unhappiness.

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