A couple, with one partner being a traumatized war veteran, explores the challenges of transitioning from trauma to intimacy and the burden of caregiving. They also discuss the value of language in expressing oneself, the benefits of introducing erotic energy into a relationship, and the importance of reassurance and support. Additionally, they delve into the significance of connecting with parents and the necessity of talking about their trauma.

In this engaging conversation, Esther, an amicably divorced divorce lawyer, offers a fresh perspective on post-marriage relationships. She discusses the significance of mutual respect and effective co-parenting, emphasizing the emotional complexities that surface after divorce. The talk delves into redefining love, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the transformative nature of new freedoms after separation. Esther also touches on how language shapes our narratives about connection, showcasing that love can take many forms even after it ends.

Esther, a compassionate coach specializing in helping couples heal after loss, guides a couple grappling with the aftermath of a loved one's suicide. They explore their journey from mere survival to revitalizing their relationship, addressing deep wounds like maternal absence and its impact on trust. This conversation dives into overcoming trauma, the significance of communication, and rediscovering joy and intimacy amidst adversity. With personal stories and emotional clarity, they navigate the complexities of love and connection in the wake of grief.

A woman in her 40s talks to Esther about a crossroads in her life. She has begun a relationship with a supportive and loving partner, but without the constant roller coaster of emotions she's used to, she wonders if there’s something missing. Or is there something wrong with her?Esther Callings are a one-time, 45-60 minute interventional phone call with Esther. They are edited for time, clarity, and anonymity. If you have a question you would like to talk through with Esther, send a voice memo to producer@estherperel.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this engaging discussion, Esther, a renowned relationship expert, guides a wife grappling with her bisexuality and the state of her marriage. They explore the complexities of love, trust, and intimacy in modern relationships. Themes of communication and emotional safety take center stage as they navigate the intricacies of non-monogamy and the impact of family dynamics. Esther's insights challenge listeners to reconsider relationship norms while highlighting the importance of vulnerability and desire in sustaining deep connections.