Deepa Paul
Writer and author of Ask Me How It Works, sharing her decade-long experience in an open marriage and exploring relationships, parenting, and desire.
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Dec 7, 2025 • 1h 6min
“I Love My Husband. I Also Love My Boyfriend.” How an Open Marriage Really Works
Deepa Paul, a writer and author of "Ask Me How It Works," discusses her decade in an open marriage with her husband, Marcus. Growing up in a conservative culture, Deepa explores how relocating to Amsterdam awakened her desires. She candidly addresses jealousy, balancing relationships, and parenting within a non-traditional framework. Deepa also shares her journey from covert affairs to open communication and the importance of setting boundaries. As she embraces her multifaceted love life, she reflects on the evolving dynamics and emotional logistics of her relationships.
May 1, 2025 • 55min
Why We Didn’t Pull The Plug
Deepa Paul, a queer femme author from Amsterdam, shares her candid experiences with non-monogamy and infidelity in open marriages. She discusses overcoming cultural shame and the journey of rebuilding trust after betrayal. The conversation takes a humorous turn as Deepa recounts a chaotic dating mishap that landed her in the emergency room. Through personal stories, she emphasizes the importance of communication and adaptability in relationships, while also touching on the profound support found during her breast cancer diagnosis.
