Aubrey Aust
Relational psychology and philosophy researcher (graduate student at NYU) who studies BDSM, desire, and the construction of selfhood in relational contexts; discusses psychological and somatic aspects of kink.
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Jul 16, 2025 • 34min
What Allows Us to Feel Safe in Relationships? Exploring Power, Kink, and Connection with Aubrey Aust
Join Aubrey Aust, a Master's student at NYU specializing in relational safety, as she dives into the world of power dynamics, attachment styles, and BDSM. Aubrey explains how kink can illuminate vulnerability and consent in ways mainstream relationships often overlook. She discusses the importance of curiosity in examining ingrained patterns, the role of somatic psychology in understanding our bodies' signals, and how negotiating power dynamics fosters safety. This conversation offers profound insights into building healthier connections and understanding our relational wiring.
Oct 23, 2025 • 36min
What Your Kinks Say About You (According to Psychology) with Aubrey Aust
In this insightful conversation, Aubrey Aust, a graduate student at NYU and researcher in relational psychology, explores the fascinating intersection of BDSM, desire, and self-discovery. They discuss how kink functions as a 'relational laboratory' to build trust and safety. Aubrey dives into Freud's theories on fantasy and how childhood dynamics with parents influence adult desires. They also examine honesty’s role in intimacy, the therapeutic potential of kink, and the importance of somatic awareness in understanding consent.
