The One You Feed

Steven C Hayes- Getting Out of You Mind

Dec 26, 2018
Steven C Hayes, a leading psychologist and co-founder of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), shares his insights on navigating emotions and taking action towards a value-driven life. He discusses the importance of psychological flexibility and how accepting our difficult emotions can lead to personal growth. The conversation highlights the distinction between pain and suffering, the downsides of comparison, and innovative strategies for managing intrusive thoughts. With a mix of personal anecdotes, Hayes inspires listeners to embrace discomfort for emotional resilience.
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INSIGHT

Feed The Wolf You Choose

  • Feeding your thoughts and emotions with attention shapes what wins inside you: kindness or fear.
  • The mind tricks you into winning internal battles before living, causing suffering from un-lived life.
INSIGHT

Language Drives Unnecessary Suffering

  • Human language enables imagining futures and causes suffering even amidst abundance.
  • Suffering arises when the mind tries to suppress pain, amplifying difficult feelings.
ADVICE

Diffuse Your Thoughts Daily

  • View thoughts as objects, not reality, to reduce their impact on your behavior.
  • Use methods like repeating difficult thoughts in silly ways to gain distance.
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