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Naming Call Boundary Story
- Early in her relationship, Laura called Ryan an idiot several times, which Ryan quickly set a firm boundary against.
- This clear behavior adjustment taught her never to name call him again, establishing an important house rule.
Boundaries Expand Relationship Space
- Boundaries act like fences that safely expand relationship space by clearly marking limits.
- Without boundaries, partners feel uncertain about what is acceptable and may overstep limits, causing conflict.
Set Boundaries on Communication
- Establish house rules for communication behaviors like name calling, raising voices, and leaving during fights.
- Define boundaries based on what activates or hurts each partner to protect relationship safety and respect.