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The Cure for Chronic Pain with Nicole Sachs, LCSW

S3 Ep91: Underneath Boredom Is Anger (and Other Tales of Repressed Emotions)

May 24, 2024
A member shares her deep-rooted triggers associated with boredom, stemming from childhood experiences of feeling invisible. This conversation unveils how emotions like anger can hide beneath seemingly harmless feelings. The host delves into the phenomenon of fawning, connecting it to unresolved trauma and chronic pain. Listeners learn the importance of self-discovery and how journaling can help confront repressed feelings. Community support emerges as a key element in healing from emotional pain.
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Quick takeaways

  • Boredom can serve as a signal for repressed anger stemming from unresolved emotional experiences, encouraging individuals to explore their deeper feelings.
  • Fawning, a learned behavior from childhood trauma, allows adults to neglect their needs, often resulting in chronic pain and emotional distress.

Deep dives

Understanding Fawning and Its Impact

Fawning, an extreme form of people-pleasing, is a behavior that develops as a defense mechanism in response to childhood trauma or threatening situations. Adults often revert to fawning when faced with triggers that remind them of times they felt powerless as children, leading them to neglect their own needs to please others. This coping strategy can have detrimental effects on mental and physical health, as repressing emotions may result in chronic pain or illness. Engaging in self-reflection and recognizing these patterns is crucial for healing and moving beyond these ingrained survival tactics.

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