On Purpose with Jay Shetty

2 Ways to Deepen Your Connection with Your Partner & The Key to Strong and Lasting Relationships

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Apr 7, 2023
Julie Gottman, co-founder of The Gottman Institute, dives into the fundamentals of nurturing strong relationships. She emphasizes the importance of authenticity over conforming to a partner's expectations. The discussion explores how meaningful questions can deepen intimacy and the necessity of navigating change together. Gottman also highlights the significance of genuine gratitude and recognizing positive contributions to enhance emotional connections. Overall, the conversation advocates for continuous investment in relationships to foster lasting love and commitment.
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ADVICE

Look For Kindness

  • Look for kindness in a potential partner, observing their behavior towards others.
  • Notice how they treat service staff, as this reflects their respect and character.
ADVICE

Assess Reliability

  • Assess a potential partner's reliability early on in dating.
  • Do they show up on time and keep their promises?
ANECDOTE

Acceptance in a Relationship

  • John Gottman's daughter felt accepted and comfortable being herself around her future husband.
  • Her previous boyfriend tried to suppress her passion for singing, highlighting the importance of acceptance.
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