Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Ep. 557: Happier Book Club: Liz Gilbert Talks About Love, Addiction & Grief in “All the Way to the River”

Oct 22, 2025
Bestselling author Elizabeth Gilbert, renowned for her memoirs including Eat, Pray, Love, opens up about her latest work, All the Way to the River. She explores the meanings behind the book's title, sharing powerful insights into love, addiction, and the complexities of 12-step programs. Gilbert reflects on her candidness in writing and the delicate balance of sharing her story while considering others. She also discusses the role of creativity in her recovery and offers a heartfelt practice of writing letters infused with unconditional love.
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INSIGHT

River As Ultimate Intimacy

  • Elizabeth Gilbert frames the promise to "walk with her all the way to the river" as the deepest form of intimacy and finality between friends.
  • She realized that reaching that level revealed unexpected dark parts of both people and changed them irrevocably.
ANECDOTE

Friendship Mapped To NYC Avenues

  • Rhea mapped friendship intimacy using downtown Manhattan avenues as metaphors from Fifth Avenue to the East River.
  • Gilbert wore the badge of being Rhea's "all the way to the river" friend until the final leg revealed unforeseen darkness.
ADVICE

Be Honest But Respect Boundaries

  • Gilbert recommends ethical transparency: she exposed only herself and Rhea, withholding others out of respect.
  • She advises that some stories demand full truth, especially when addiction and recovery are central.
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